Are you into fisting? It’s not for everyone, but there’s something incredibly intimate about being fisted or being able to sink your fist into a guy’s ass – it’s the ultimate trust exercise.
Let’s take a look at the allure of fisting and how you can level-up your fisting fun.
Why Do Gay Men Fist?
“Fisting isn’t for everyone…” advises Luka Sage – a certified fisting specialist. “It’s not something that everyone has to try. But if it is something that you’re interested in trying, you should definitely research it and learn about it before making an attempt. If you like the feeling of being stretched out, or if you’re into really big dicks, or big dildos, or depth play, then it’s probably something you might want to take a look at.”
There’s lots of factors at play when you’re navigating a fisting session – different aspects of the experience will appeal to different guys, depending on what pushes your buttons.
Extreme anal stimulation is definitely one of the main drivers. If you’ve been working your way up the dildo sizes, a fist is definitely going to be on your to-do list. If you’re watching a lot of fisting porn and your hole is aching to be worked over like the fist-pigs on your screen, then anal stimulation is going to be high on your wish-list.
Control and submission is another important aspect of fisting that appeals to a lot of guy. If you are giving a guy the green light to grease up his fists and get to work ruining your cunt, then that’s a pretty big deal. The power-dynamic that’s at play is pretty intoxicating for everyone involved.
Intimacy is another thing that lots of fisting experts will talk about. Plain old barebacking can sometimes feel a bit transactional – fuck, cum, go. But fisting is a whole other ball-game. You’ve got to be a bit slower with fisting, you need a fair bit of communication when you’re fisting, and you’re also getting lots of eye contact. There’s possibly nothing quite as romantic as being fisted.
Is Fisting Dangerous?
Someone people describe fisting as a bit of an extreme sexual sport – a pursuit that inevitably comes with some risks.
While it’s true that if fisting goes wrong, then you can do some damage but that is pretty much true of anything that you tackle.
Your body copes surprisingly well with having a guy’s fist stretching out your sphincter. There’s nothing inherently bad about fisting – you’re not going to do your body any long-term damage. Your sphincter is totally used to stretching and contracting as the situation requires.
The main risks associated with fisting are when you’re not using enough lube or you’re taking things too fast.
It’s a good idea to be sober when you’re fisting. If you’re intoxicated on something then you won’t be as in tune with your body if something starts to hurt or feels uncomfortable.
How Do I Practice Fisting Before Gay Sex?
It’s pretty much impossible to have a conversation at a gay bar without someone giving you anal sex tips, but if you’re a bit fist-curious then here’s some easy steps to get you started.
Slow and steady wins the race
Before you take a fist up your ass, you’re going to need to practice and you’re going to need to research. Get comfortable with ass play. Watch lots of fisting porn – get a feel for how fisting works.
Become a size queen
Make sure that you’re feeling confident about taking a fist by slowly working your way up in the size of the dildos that you’re bouncing on. Think about girth – that’s what is probably going to test you the most.
Fisting foreplay
If you’re ready for some fisting fun, don’t forget to warm everything up with some extended foreplay. You want to feel relaxed, you want to feel turned-on, and you want your fuck-hole twitching in expectation at being properly worked over.
Lube it up
Fisting specialists will generally have a special lube mix that they swear by. If you’re just starting out, you’re probably still experimenting with the different lube options out there. The basic rule is to use plenty of lube. Really go to town with the grease and make sure that everything is sliding smoothly.
First Time Fisting with a Friend? Follow These Tips.
Because of the intimacy required by fisting, you generally want to make sure that you’re doing it with someone that you know and trust.
A fuck-buddy is ideal because you’ve already established that you work together sexually, and then adding fisting into the mix is taking things that step further.
You just need to keep reminding yourself to take it slow. Sure, the experts in fisting porn are taking a guy’s arm up to the elbow like it’s nothing. It’s not a competition. Just do what feels right for you.
Communication is absolutely key. That doesn’t mean that you have to give a running commentary through the experience – your communication may be mostly non-verbal. But use plenty of eye contact. Let him know when you’re feeling good and let him know when you need to slow down or take a break.
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Pass, pass, pass….just not for me!!!
Fisting is so hot. Usually do it was fuckbuddy who also is into not cleaning out. This is the height of sexual initimacy, getting each other’s shit all over each other.
You have to be kidding!
Many years ago i watched a guy in a sling being fisted. The man doing the fisting grabbed a handful of intestine and pulled it inside out ! The man died!
Not he didn’t, and no he did not. Not into fisting, cool. But don’t make stuff up just because it’s something you’re not into.
I love to fist a guy and suck his cock or him suck my cock while I fist his ass.
My fisting journey has been a very exciting objective to achieve. From my own digits exploring in my teens to being the first man My partner has fisted slowly and gently – as we both get an incredible erotic rush from the experience any time its practiced. I only recently was able to fist my first bottom. Knowing both roles now makes fisting even more erotic.
Recently, I was fisted at the book store after an amazing fuck session. I came so hard, hands free, all over my thigh highs! I left happy and jello legged!!
I used to be absolutely against anal fisting. The mere mention of, or even worse, suggestion to try it was enough if a red flag to make me cut ties with a person.
Until I met the right person, anyways. It was a fuck buddy I had some incredible symmetry with, and we had been hooking up for a solid year before fisting was even mentioned. I was skeptical, but agreed to try it out.
The level of intimacy is insane when you do it with the right person, that’s all I’m saying.
I feel like you either are about the length or about “the stretch” as a bottom; if you like girth and the stretch of taking a dickthen fisting is hot–some guys I know prefer bottoming a small dick (I know, right?) so fisting wouldn’t really be for them
I’ve been using a big dildo for a while, and recently purchased a double dick dildo that really stretches me out. I am anxious to give fisting a try just need a guy to help me out.
I enjoy having my ass worked over and would like to be fisted but my problem is being an older man I find it hard to find men interested in being with me reducing me to a one-time fuck slut. I tend to hook up with men one time and never hear from them again. I decided to come out as gay a couple of years ago, I started taking prep so I could be a bareback whore but could not find men that wanted to play with a 60-year-old bottom.