You may not describe yourself as a penis-addicted ‘bate and gooner, but jacking off is a fairly fundamental part of being a guy – however you describe your sexuality.
Plus, there’s more to wanking than just a bit of self-pleasure – gay masturbation can help to reduce stress by releasing dopamine, oxytocin, and endorphins.
For some men, enhancing their jerk-off technique to the point where they can achieve a hands-free orgasm during masturbation may seem impossible. Never fear – we’ve been doing some hands-on research, and we’ve got insights to share.
Lube up, and let’s get down to business.
Why Learn How To Cum Hands-Free?
Take a moment and think about how you learned how to masturbate. For most of us, it’s something that we discover when puberty hits, but it’s generally something we have to figure out on our own.
Our early masturbation experiences were generally fairly quick and functional. Maybe you didn’t have your own bedroom, or you were worried about getting caught by your parents, or the societal shame attached to jacking off was messing with your head.
There are lots of reasons that we learnt how to masturbate quickly and efficiently – sure, it felt good, but we had to get the job done.
Those early experiences are really formative – the behaviour patterns that we learned during our adolescence inevitably shape us through the years. Lots of guys are still masturbating like they’re 12-year-olds – getting the job done, watching porn, hand on cock until you shoot your load.
While there’s nothing wrong with a quick, functional wank, there is a whole world of pleasure that you can unlock if you start to expand your understanding of what masturbation can be.
From a practical point of view, discovering new ways to masturbate can help to avoid repetitive strain injuries. But mixing up your jack-off techniques will unlock new sensations, erogenous zones, and pleasure points that you might not have tapped into yet.
A hands-free orgasm is one of the techniques that you might want to try – exploring your arousal and your body beyond the sensation of your hand pumping away at your hard cock.
Exploring new ways to masturbate may be useful for guys who are experiencing erectile dysfunction. Or, maybe you’ve already learned how to achieve a big gay cumshot, and you want to add another party trick to your roster. Either way, it’s probably worth a try, right?
What Are Some Tips to Achieve a Hot and Horny Hands-Free Orgasm?
Experiment with different positions
There are endless possibilities when it comes to finding different positions in which you can masturbate. Remember, this is about breaking out of those patterns of behaviour. Maybe you always masturbate lying in bed, on the sofa, or in the shower. This is the time to try something new.
Try lying on your back with your legs in the air, or use pillows and cushions to prop yourself in different positions—use your imagination and get creative. What you’re looking for are positions where you feel comfortable, and your blood flow is optimized.
Use Gay Sex Toys
Adding some anal stimulation is an obvious first step in taking your jack-off sessions next level. Even if it’s just a small toy that’s going to give you some prostate stimulation, giving yourself a bit of ass play is an easy way to change the sensations that your body is experiencing while you’re masturbating.
Using sex toys such as butt plugs or prostate massagers is probably the simplest way to stimulate a hands-free orgasm. Use plenty of lube, and take your time.
Also, Kegels and other exercises can help to give you greater control over your anal pleasure and make getting off easier without stroking. Sometimes, the power to unlocking that great climax comes from within, and by within we mean, controlling your butt muscles to perfection!
Focus on Your Breathing
Breathing exercises are a form of meditation and can be really useful in helping you get more in touch with how your body is experiencing pleasure while you’re masturbating.
Check out some of the online tutorials and guided breathing exercises to help you explore how to do it. This kind of work generally falls under the broad umbrella of Tantra, but even a naked yoga class is going to help build the groundwork that you’re looking for.
Practice Edging
Edging can be a helpful technique in achieving a hands-free orgasm during masturbation while also making you last longer during gay sex.
By repeatedly bringing yourself to the brink of ejaculation – and then backing off – you can build up the intensity of your sexual arousal and reach a higher level of pleasure.
Edging takes time. You don’t want to be in a rush. This is an extended process where you slowly build yourself up to the point of orgasm and hold yourself there for as long as possible. Once you ejaculate, it’s game over.
Regular edging helps you to become more aware of the signals that your body is sending as it builds up to your orgasmic climax and ejaculation. The more in tune you are with your body’s sexual responses, the more control you’ll have.
You might never quite achieve a hands-free orgasm, but it’s certainly going to be fun to try!
