NEXT DOOR RAW: Ty Roderick invites his intern Zane Kazan over for a more intimate dialogue about business, but upon Zane’s arrival, he discovers Ty has something else in mind. Ty says before he can trust him in their professional world, he must first show him just how loyal he can be; in the office, and in the bedroom. Zane will do anything to earn Ty’s approval, even making a move on his boss.
NEXT DOOR ORIGINALS: Justin Matthews has a new job he has been keeping a secret from long time best friend and roommate Ryder Owens. Ryder is clueless until he gets home from work early one night and finds his friend ass up in front of a camera! Seeing hisbest friend and longtime crush in such a compromising position, he is taken back but turned on. After a couple minutes of awkwardness and shock, the cam show with toys turns into a sex show between best friends. Inspired by a MemberFantasy from JackJ.
EXTRA BIG DICKS: Production assistants Zac Steele and Kyler Drayke are wrapping up a crazy shoot week for the big Hollywood film they were working on. Everyone else has gone home and it’s the two of them packing up their cars with equipment to get out. But after the long, stressful work days, the two definitely need a bit of release and Zac is more than happy to work over Kyler’s huge cock to help his coworker relax.
NEXT DOOR ORIGINALS: Jayden Marcos has been secretly fooling around with Omar Zayden on the down low. Omar, interested in more than just sex, invites Jayden to a movie date which he declines because he has ‘work’. Omar decides that he will check out the movie himself since Jayden didn’t seem interested in it, and, to his surprise, Jayden is there at the theater on a date with his long time girlfriend. When she leaves the theater stating she has an upset stomach, Omar and Jayden have a fateful encounter in the near empty theater.
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There’s nothing new about curious straight guys, right? If you’ve spent any time cruising, you’ll have come across your fair share of DL guys and dudes who just happen to be in the right place at the right time for a bit of no-questions-asked man-on-man action.
But if a curious straight guy slides into your DMs, it can be tricky terrain to navigate. Let’s get into it.
While everyone likes the simplicity of a binary world, trying to label everything and confine ourselves to specific boxes of behaviour is very limiting and doesn’t recognise the complexity of our lives.
If someone tells you that they’re straight, don’t assume that it’s a label that totally defines them. There’s lots of grey areas and fluidity when it comes to sexuality. A guy might be into a bit of man-on-man action, but still identify as straight. That’s his business. He may still be working some stuff out, or he might just have a different understanding of sexuality and identity than you do. Not everyone plays by the same rules.
There’s lots of reasons why a straight dude could be up for some fun with another guy. They might get off on the masculine energy, it might just be convenient for them, or it’s something that they’ve seen in porn and felt like giving it a go. You don’t need to understand why a straight guy wants to have sex with you, you just need to be clear on whether or not you want to have sex with them.
Homoflexibility refers to men who primarily identify as heterosexual but are open to exploring same-sex experiences or relationships to varying degrees. It’s a concept that blurs the lines between strictly gay or straight classifications.
For example, if a guy that identifies as straight is down for gay gym hookup, you could probably describe him as homoflexible. Of course, bisexual is another term that could be applied in this situation, but a guy that’s just dipping his toe into having sex with men may not be ready to embrace a bisexual identity.
Bicurious is another helpfully vague term that you’ll often hear when talking about straight guys who have sex with men.
Straight guys that are open to exploring things sexually quickly realise that their butt is a major erogenous zone. Once you start to unlock the pleasure that your can experience through different parts of your body, your imagination kicks in – what would it be like to be fucked by another guy?
If we limit ourselves and we limit the sexual encounters that we allow ourselves to experience, then we’re potentially shutting ourselves off from a whole world of pleasure.
If you’re scrolling through a gay hookup app or website and you’re chatting with a guy who identifies as straight but seems interested in getting naked with you, here’s some hints and tips to help you navigate the encounter.
Chances are that this isn’t going to be the first bi-male sexual experience that your straight guy has pursued. Nevertheless, you’re probably going to need to demonstrate a bit of empathy and understanding if it feels like he’s giving you mixed signals or a bit of a chaotic energy.
You’re not there to pass judgement or to ask probing questions about his personal life or identity. You’re just two dudes, getting down to business. Just two guys with needs, helping each other out.
It’s likely that you’re going to have way more experience than him when it comes to how gay sex goes down.
You’re going to need to be patient and let him set the pace.
Kissing might weird him out – try not to be offended by that.
I always find that offering to give a straight guy a massage is an easy starting point. Get him naked, get him on your bed, and get him used to you touching his body in a non-threatening way. You don’t have to be good at massage but a bit of enthusiasm goes a long way.
You might be the kind of guy who doesn’t feel satisfied unless you’ve been stretched and pounded with some gay double penetration or flooded with the loads of a room full of anonymous fuck-buddies.
It’s important to be aware that your straight guy might be at the more vanilla end of the spectrum. He might be up for a mutual jack-off session and some light frottage. If that’s not going to cut it for you, then maybe this isn’t the hook-up that you’re looking for.
After you’ve both cum, it’s going to be tempting to try and debrief with your straight guy as to what went down. Did he enjoy it? Will there be repeat business?
The reality is that it might take him a while to process things. He may leave straight away without saying much, he might not return your messages, he may block you. It’s not personal – he’s a straight guy who’s figuring some stuff out. That’s what you’re signing up for – if that’s what you’re into.
Tracey Parker is an urban explorer, based in Mexico City, who discovers and presents unique gay cultures around the world. After sharing with Squirt members the steamy hookups that take place at Plaza San Martín, in Lima, Peru, Tracey takes us to another place, this time in Cambodia, at a gay male sex resort and bathhouse.
Siem Reap was the last stop on my six-week backpacking trip through Southeast Asia.
I hadn’t originally planned to end up here (Vietnam was supposed to be the whole trip), but everywhere I went, I kept hearing the same thing: you have to see Angkor Wat. And I’m so glad I listened. The temples there were stunning, yes, but what got me was MEN’s Spa and Resort, an all-male hotel, gay bathhouse and playground tucked away at the end of a secret dirt road. Discreet, luxurious, and dripping with potential.
Once I found it, I went on every single one of my 5 nights in Siem Reap. Same routine, every day: explore temples in the morning, nap, dinner at my favourite restaurant, and then let the night begin at MEN’s. After weeks of constantly being on the move, it felt so good to surrender to a rhythm, especially one that ended in steam, sweat, and cum.
The place is beautiful. Open-air pool under a starry sky, surrounded by landscaped gardens and handsome men from all over the world. Paradise. Inside, a cruisy, dimly lit maze of jacuzzis, a steam room, and private rooms designed for pleasure. You could lose your inhibitions (and your clothes) within minutes.
The guys there were a mix of adventurous tourists and curious locals: guys from Europe, other parts of Asia, and everywhere in between. The vibe never felt overwhelming or dead. The tourists were from all over. Europe, other SE Asian countries, China, and everywhere in between. Never did it feel crowded, nor empty. Just the right amount of energy for making eye contact across the water or grinding naked against someone you just met.
On my last night there, I was lounging by the pool when I saw him. Tall, pale, lean but strong, and looking right at me. We both got into the pool and met in the middle, bodies floating closer as we talked. He was from some megacity in China I’d never heard of, and he told me to call him Ian.
There was something magnetic about him. Sweet smile. Tight muscles. A cocky kind of calm that made me ache to be touched. We started with light flirtation, fingers grazing thighs under the water. I held his gaze, then slipped my hand into his trunks and wrapped it around his thick, growing cock. It was big and took up all the space inside his trunks. I held it, gently massaging it in my palm, still looking at him, not saying a word.
“I’m vers,” I told him when he asked.
Ian smirked. “Let’s go inside so I can fuck you”.
With his hands cupping my ass and eyes locked on mine, we kissed. Then we climbed out of the pool and headed toward the maze.
The walk felt electric, like our bodies were already fucking even though we hadn’t touched again. I almost felt like I was vibrating.
As soon as we entered the cruising area, under the low light and lingering heat, he turned around to face me. His cock was fully hard now, and I felt it brush against my stomach.
I turned around, dropped my towel, spread my legs slightly, and braced my hands against a ledge in the room, which was empty except for us.
I felt the tip of his finger massaging the rim of my hole. There wasn’t much talking, and the language barrier didn’t matter anymore. All I could do was look back at him. Spit dripped from his finger as he prepped me, his eyes never leaving mine.
The way he eased in was slow, teasing. Inch by inch until I was gasping, whimpering with every breath, my hole stretching open and wrapping around his cock.
He tapped in little by little, opening me up more every time he pushed forward, until he was balls deep. We held still like that for a moment, until I felt him kissing my neck as his arms wrapped around my torso.
“Can I fuck you now?” he asked, still buried deep inside me.
What followed was more like a ritual than anything else. Ian fucked me with purpose. Hard, fast, deep. Over and over, slamming into me like he was trying to fuck the memory of the entire trip into my body. I moaned. I cursed. I felt like I was unraveling.
From his moaning, I thought he was close to finishing, but he continued pounding me over and over. Then he grunted, gripped my hips like he owned them, and came so deep inside me that it made my toes curl.
We were drenched in sweat, skin burning hot, and breathing like we’d just run a marathon. As Ian pulled out, I felt his load dripping out of me. I turned to face him. His cock was glistening. His muscles were tense. I felt spent and used and so fucking satisfied.
We walked to the showers, still synced in the rhythm of what we’d just done. We didn’t say much. We didn’t need to. I asked for Ian’s Facebook. He laughed. “We don’t use that in China.” So we exchanged emails.
I haven’t seen him since. But I still think about Ian — and those wild, soaking, unforgettable nights in Siem Reap.
Something about a muscle daddy just hits different. Especially when he’s strutting around with that thick meat swinging and alpha energy oozing out of every photo. Farm Dad doesn’t just play the role — he nails it — and that’s why he’s our latest Model of the Day. His content is raw, dominant, and sure to make you cum. Whether he’s cruising, gooning, or fucking, like we said, he nails it! Check out the interview, and scroll for the pics and videos that prove exactly why we’re obsessed!
How did you get started creating sexy content?
At 42, I would like to think I’ve been at the forefront of the internet as an adult and sexy content venue. I started on CompuServe and AOL and have progressed to platforms like Twitter and onlyfans. My adult content really started in 2023 when I was encouraged by others.
What is the hottest piece of content you’ve created?
The hottest piece of content I’ve created so far it’s really hard to judge because I find some of them hot in different ways. I would say recently my collab with @austinlacrosse2 was very hot because we flipped.
Where is your favourite place to go cruising?
Before Grindr and scruff, I used to cruise the parks all the time. Like I said I was kind of an early starter. Nowadays I love to cruise the locker room, the sauna, and the showers.
What’s your favourite song to fuck to?
Country music.
You have your dream dick at a glory hole for 15 minutes: what are you doing?
I’m not really big on sucking dick. But I’ll definitely get it nice and wet before I turn around push back on it. To be honest so I’m worried about the connection of sex than I am about the Anon side.
What’s the most unconventional place you’ve hooked up at?
Burger King restroom.
What’s your sexy superpower?
I think my sexy superpower is just turning into a different person when it’s time to go. That person’s dominant controlling great at what they do.
If you were a lube, what flavor would you be?
Flavored lube is disgusting so I’d be lube flavored.
You can only have one sex toy on a deserted island: which one are you bringing?
Pocket pussy, for sure.
None of us really has a “normal” relationship with food. Whether we’re counting calories, or trying to lose weight or gain muscle mass, our low-level body anxiety distorts our perception of what a balanced diet looks like and tends suck the joy out of every meal.
But what if your relationship with food somehow connected with your sexual kinks and turn-ons?
At the vanilla end of that spectrum is probably something like licking whipped cream of a guy’s body – pretty much something that everyone could get on board with, unless you’re lactose-intolerant.
Food often features in the sploshing or gunge kink scene – smearing something wet and sticky all over your body is slutty and horny. Do I want to watch you squishing custard donuts between your thighs? Absolutely.
At the more extreme end of the food-as-kink spectrum is where you’ll find feeders. It’s extreme in the sense that it’s perhaps the most difficult to unpack psychologically, but we’re going to give it a go.
Whether you describe it as a kink or a sexual preference or fetish isn’t really important, but there’s a definitely sexual edge to this food-based power-dynamic.
A feeder kink is all about gaining weight – gorging on food in order to gain weight.
This can be a solo endeavour – you can be turned on by feeding yourself and watching yourself grow.
More commonly, it takes two to tango – a feeder and a feedee. The sexual arousal is in play for both parties – the feeder is turned on by helping their partner gain weight, and the feedee is turned on by gaining weight. Both of you are also turned on by the elements of domination and submission that characterise a feeder/feedee relationship.
Beyond that, there aren’t really any rules to how this kink operates on a day-to-day basis. For example, your boyfriend might be a horny skinny twink who strokes his own Hot Dog while you feed him a chorizo – you’re both getting turned-on by watching him gain weight, you’re both turned-on by the control you have over him.
Like many gay BDSM relationships, for those who are into a feeder kink, it’s all about control – but you don’t need bondage and gags, food is your weapon of choice.
If you’re drawn to the power dynamics of domination and submission, there’s a broad range of BDSM scenes that you could throw yourself into, so why would you be inclined to explore a feeder kink?
If you’re the feedee, you’re responding to being controlled, to being submissive. While lots of guys pursue gay submissive experiences in relationships or gay hookups, there is something liberating in having decisions about food taken out of your hands. It is a regression role-play to some extent – you’re a big baby who just eats whatever is served to you. You don’t need to worry about anything.
If you’re the feeder, there is a clear nurturing aspect to your power dynamic. You are taking care of your feeder. They rely on you, they depend on you, they need you. There is nothing more nurturing than food.
Physically, a feeder kink is only as dangerous as the participants allow it to be. Like all sexual encounters, informed, sober consent should be the foundation of a feeder/feedee dynamic. There should be a clear safe-word in place or some mechanism that keeps everyone on the same page.
Psychologically, it’s a bit more complicated. If your sexual arousal pushes you to eat yourself to obesity, your relationship with food is likely to be a little problematic. Conversely, if feeding someone is your sexual turn-on, where is your head at in terms of nutrition and healthy eating?
Ultimately, these are two adults consenting to explore a power dynamic that appeals to them both. We don’t kink-shame here.
Force-feeding does feature in some feeder/feedee relationships, but you can explore a feeder kink without using force-feeding.
It’s the two people involved in the relationship that set the boundaries and the rules of how the feeder kink is going to work – they’re the ones that have consented to it. If that includes force-feeding, then that’s what they’ve both signed up for.
If force-feeding wasn’t agreed upon then that’s an example of when the safe-word should be used so that the boundaries can be discussed and adjusted as required.
If discussion of boundaries isn’t possible then that isn’t a healthy BDSM relationship and the parties should go their separate ways.
If you’re asking the question then it’s a pretty good indication that there’s something about this kink that has got your attention.
Take some time to reflect on what aspects of the kink appeal to you. Do you visualise yourself as dominant and taking control and feeding someone, or do you visualise yourself as submissive and wanting someone to feed you?
Put the technology to work and use a hook-up app like Squirt to let guys know what you’re looking for. Make it clear in your bio what role you’re looking to explore. It’s okay to be upfront that you’re new to the kink but interested in exploring – don’t pretend to be someone that you’re not.
If this is a kink that you’ve got some experience in, slide into our DMs and share your insights. We don’t kink-shame here.
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