RANDY BLUE: When power tops Alex Kof and Daniel Justice meet up they bring major big dick energy that leads to a three-cumshot scene! They’re on equal footing as they make out, but when they suck each other there’s a shift in their dynamic – especially when Daniel plays with Alex’s hole during a 69. Soon, Alex makes it official as he expresses the burning desire to bottom for Daniel.
Daniel gladly tops Alex with true dom passion. As he fucks and pounds Alex all kinds of ways, it’s clear why Alex wanted to bottom: Daniel gets real pleasure out of it. It all leads to a sweat-soaked finish when Daniel fucks a load out of Alex and gives him a mouthful of cum – which triggers Alex into shooting again as he licks Daniel’s cock! No wonder Daniel loves to fuck…
Are you into fisting? It’s not for everyone, but there’s something incredibly intimate about being fisted or being able to sink your fist into a guy’s ass – it’s the ultimate trust exercise.
Let’s take a look at the allure of fisting and how you can level up your fisting fun.
Why Do Gay Men Fist?
“Fisting isn’t for everyone…” advises Luka Sage – a certified fisting specialist. “It’s not something that everyone has to try. But if it is something that you’re interested in trying, you should definitely research it and learn about it before making an attempt. If you like the feeling of being stretched out, or if you’re into really big dicks, or big dildos, or depth play, then it’s probably something you might want to take a look at.”
How do I navigate my first gay fisting experience?
There are lots of factors at play when you’re navigating a fisting session – different aspects of the experience will appeal to different guys, depending on what pushes your buttons.
Extreme anal stimulation is definitely one of the main drivers. If you’ve been working your way up the dildo sizes, doing your gay anal training sessions, or you’re with a guy and a few fingers or a girthy dick ain’t enough anymore, a fist is definitely going to be on your to-do list.
If you’re watching a lot of fisting porn and your hole is aching to be worked over like the fist-pigs on your screen, then anal stimulation and a good rectum punch are going to be high on your wish list.
Why else do guys engage in gay fisting sex play?
Control and submission is another important aspect of fisting that appeals to a lot of guy. If you are giving a guy the green light to grease up his fists and get to work ruining your cunt, then that’s a pretty big deal. The power dynamic that’s at play is pretty intoxicating for everyone involved, and it’s hard not to consider the gay BDSM and power plays happening when you’re giving and receiving a good ol’ fist.
Intimacy is another thing that lots of fisting experts will talk about.
Plain old barebacking can sometimes feel a bit transactional – fuck, cum, go. But fisting is a whole other ball game. You’ve got to be a bit slower with fisting; you need a fair bit of communication when you’re fisting; the foreplay and initial stretch to the final goal is there. Plus, you’re also getting lots of eye contact. There’s possibly nothing quite as romantic as being fisted.
Some people describe fisting as a bit of an extreme sexual sport – a pursuit that inevitably comes with some risks.
While it’s true that if fisting goes wrong, then you can do some damage but that is pretty much true of anything that you tackle.
Your body copes surprisingly well with having a guy’s fist stretching out your sphincter. There’s nothing inherently bad about fisting – you’re not going to do your body any long-term damage. Your sphincter is totally used to stretching and contracting as the situation requires.
The main risks associated with fisting are when you’re not using enough lube, or you’re taking things too fast.
It’s a good idea to be sober when you’re fisting. If you’re intoxicated on something, then you won’t be as in tune with your body if something starts to hurt or feels uncomfortable. As we mentioned above, fisting is an intimate experience, so you want to be present. Drugs and alcohol may make you loose and ready, but may also lead to you not picking up when a love fist becomes one of anger. If you have Rocky going to town on you like you’re Apollo, and you’re inebriated, it could be bad news.
How Do I Practice Fisting Before Gay Sex?
It’s pretty much impossible to have a conversation at a gay bar without someone giving you anal sex tips, but if you’re a bit fist-curious, then here are some easy steps to get you started.
Slow and steady wins the race
Before you take a fist up your ass, you’re going to need to practice, and you’re going to need to research. Get comfortable with ass play. Watch lots of fisting porn – get a feel for how fisting works.
Of course, if you’ve never bottomed before, fisting may seem like a foreign curiosity. But if you’re into it, get going with some gay dildo play at home, phone a friend for some fingers, and eventually get to that point where the whole hand eventually is just a familiar pleasure choice.
Become a size queen
Reinforcing the above, make sure that you’re feeling confident about taking a fist by slowly working your way up in the size of the dildos that you’re bouncing on. Think about girth – that’s what is probably going to test you the most.
If you’re ready for some fisting fun, grab that partner and their helping hand, and don’t forget to warm everything up with some extended foreplay. You want to feel relaxed, you want to feel turned on, and you want your fuck-hole twitching in expectation of being properly worked over.
Lube it up
Fisting specialists will generally have a unique fisting lube brand and mixes that they swear by. If you’re starting, you’re probably still experimenting with the different lube options. The basic rule is to use plenty of lube. Really go to town with the grease and ensure everything is sliding smoothly. When it comes to fisting, there’s no such thing as being too liberal.
First Time Fisting with a Friend? Follow These Tips.
Because of the intimacy required by fisting, you generally want to make sure that you’re doing it with someone that you know and trust.
A fuck-buddy is ideal because you’ve already established that you work together sexually, and then adding fisting into the mix is taking things that step further.
You need to keep reminding yourself to take it slow. Sure, the experts in fisting porn are taking a guy’s arm up to the elbow like it’s nothing. It’s not a competition. Just do what feels right for you.
Communication is absolutely vital. That doesn’t mean that you have to give a running commentary on the experience—your communication may be mostly nonverbal. But use plenty of eye contact. Let him know when you’re feeling good and when you need to slow down or take a break.
MEN: Falcon/NakedSword exclusive Sir Peter welcomes all his friends to the stunning villa he rented for his bachelor party weekend. His friends tease that this is his last chance to make questionable decisions, but it seems they might make some first!
After getting settled in, dark-haired Ricky Hard seeks out silver fox Marcelo Caiazzo to rekindle their former flame. Marcelo isn’t sure it’s a good idea, but is still happy to follow Ricky out to the pool. The guys undress each other, and Ricky sucks the top before Marcelo rims him and eases inside.
CARNAL+: Using the ritual water to anoint his feet, Master Stryker could get a better view of the rock hard cock before him. A warm smile flashed across Marcus’ face as he felt Stryker’s big hands wrap around his throbbing hard cock to tug on it on his behalf. As the erect apprentice breathed a heavy sigh of relief, the tension in his muscles slowly started to release as Marcus moaned in pleasure from the handjob he was receiving.
Now perfectly at ease with what was being asked of him, the obedient boy dropped to his knees and willingly took the hard dick into his mouth. With how easily Master Stryker was able to get the boy to submit, the Elder had no doubt in his mind that Marcus would be able to take most of the large erection he was now sporting, up into his tight ass.
In a world where fan-subscription performers are increasingly upping their game in terms of production quality, it’s not exactly clear what role gay porn studios fill in the evolving landscape of adult entertainment.
According to Daddy Patrick – chief marketing officer for Ducati Studios – the future of studio productions may lie in ambitious storytelling – long-form narratives featuring recurring characters.
I caught up with Daddy Patrick to discuss his creative vision and how that has translated into Drifters – an erotic drama that celebrates the allure of American cowboys.
In Drifters, you’re telling the story of Handsome and the men he meets along the way. Why was this a story that you wanted to tell?
I wanted to create a big cinematic production. I wanted to create a world that people could tap into – with characters that they would fall in love with and identify with – but also featuring great sex.
I grew up in Hollister, California. In the 4th of July parades, there were always these young bucks on their horses – wearing rodeo shirts and cowboy hats. They looked so incredibly hot. They were my sexual awakening – I was about eight years old at the time.
With Drifters, we’re leaning into the mid-20th century images of masculinity and sexual desirability, and how cowboys became an iconic part of gay culture.
The world of Drifters is a place out in the western desert where these men can find each other, with the sexual freedom to hook-up with whoever they want. I also wanted to show the duality of wanting freedom but also looking for a connection of some kind.
In terms of wanting what you don’t have?
Yes, but the central point for me is that our lead character, Handsome, realises that he wants the guy that he finds attractive to want him. He wants to be chosen.
Drifters feels like it has a bit of a vintage porn aesthetic – a sort of timelessness. Were there any vintage porn influences that you were drawing on in the creative process?
Absolutely – it wasn’t just porn, also gay male erotica.
I wanted to reclaim our history, our heritage, and our culture – as gay guys. I wanted to embrace who we are as gay men and embrace the things that culturally bring us together and the things that are uniquely within the gay experience.
Bob Mizer is a big influence. He was a photographer who created Physique Pictorial magazine. In some of the pictures, you have these hot young guys wearing cowboy hats and jock straps and belts and boots. It was the gay version of a cowboy.
We recreated one of Bob Mizer’s cowboy photos. Trenton Ducati was a rodeo star as a kid – he had the lasso. We used that image featuring Ryan Orion and Derek Kage as the poster for Drifters – it just really took off.
The other reference was George Quaintance – a painter who often featured cowboys, showing them as very desirable men in a desert setting.
Then there’s influences such as Honcho magazine, and Ramrod magazine. I was deliberately trying to pull various things from across the decades, looking for common threads and themes.
As well as writing and directing the series, you’re also playing the character of Daddy. How challenging was it to direct yourself in this context?
About 80 percent of the collabs that I film happen in my house. My husband is the cameraman and my editor is in Thailand. While I’m in the scene, I’m also directing – organising everything in my head. I know what I’m looking for.
But when filming Drifters, I needed to be able to stand back and actually see what was happening. I was also very lucky that the cast and the crew are all really great – really collaborative and very generous. Plus there was Trenton Ducati – he’s not only a great cheerleader for the project but he’s really lifted the production. I’m very fortunate.
In terms of other projects in the pipeline, beyond Drifters you’ve got Hustlers and also American Playboy in production. Are you building the Daddy Patrick cinematic universe? Do all of these characters exist in the same timeline?
This is the Ducati Studios cinematic universe.
There’s a lot of content out there – much of it made by really talented, amazing content-creators. They’re all getting better and more proficient with camera-work and editing and pushing their content out there.
My marketing background tells me, when everyone does one thing, you have to do something else.
Studio porn has this unique and wonderful opportunity. We don’t need to create collab-style content. They’re doing great – why compete?
What we need to do is something that you cannot do as one-off collabs – we can go back to the roots of cinema, we can get back to storytelling.
How has your work in adult entertainment shaped your relationship with your body?
I didn’t start doing adult films until I was 60 – about two years ago.
I felt that I was still sexually attractive and still sexually desirable. I didn’t want to be put on the shelf.
When I was growing up, there was absolutely an anti-aging vibe within the gay community – nobody found older guys attractive. It felt like when you got older, your friends would stop calling you and nobody would want to dance with you at the club – you would be alone and unwanted and you would die that way.
I wanted to show that there was no shame in getting older. I’m fit – I love working out. I want to be fully vital and active and doing fun things. I have a libido – I want to connect with guys and explore that side.
The thing is that when you get into your 60s, the aging process is on the move. I can see myself on camera and see that I’m getting older. I have to be okay with it – it is what it is. I can just be the best version of myself because I think that’s what people find attractive.
In Drifters, we cast some of the world’s most desirable men – they’re young and beautiful and the camera just absolutely loves them. I was filming a scene with Serg Shepard – I found myself thinking, what if we focus the camera just on him? You have to have a sense of humour about yourself.
What do you hope that people feel when they’re watching Drifters?
They’re there to get off. I hope that they’re turned on by these guys and have mind-blowing cum-shots. We’re creating porn that people can use to find sexual pleasure.
But I also hope that it touches them emotionally – that they see themselves somewhere in this.
Porn isn’t something that should be hidden or something we only do by ourselves – it can be part of our culture. We can celebrate it and enjoy it – we can find fun and humour in it.
When guys are watching Drifters, I want them to feel: “this is for me”.
ASGMAX: Trevor Harris and Andrew Delta have arrived at the retreat, surprised to be greeted by the Apiary Falls Founder, Justin Matthews. While Justin shows Andrew around, Trevor goes off in search of his friend Jay Wu, a former participant, who now works for the retreat.
He finds Jay alongside his mentor Ty Santana – and much to his surprise, their version of ‘wellness’ means kicking things off with a sweaty threeway. Well this help Trevor, or do Jay and Ty have an agenda of their own unfolding?
ASGMAX: In Next Door Taboo’s ‘Stepbrother Bonding’, Kyle Wyncrest and Dex Devall find themselves alone when their parents are unexpectedly called to work.
Kyle discovers Dex watching a football game with the sound off. When Dex admits he’s only watching because he finds the quarterback attractive, Kyle seizes the opportunity, calling Dex “pretty fucking hot” and suggesting they create their own stepbrother bonding experience. Kyle takes charge as the top, initiating an intense sexual encounter between the two stepbrothers that goes far beyond what their parents had in mind…
BEL AMI: We first met sexy Shane when he started with BelAmiChat, and pretty soon we were enamoured and knew for sure that we had to have him here on BelAmiOnline as well. Shane has been one of the mainstays of our Frisky Summer productions, keeping everyone on their toes with his hyperactive sense of fun and talent for always being the mischievous one.
