Sex is like a movie. Sometimes it’s funny, sometimes it’s intense, and sometimes it’s pretty damn boring. Whether you’re in a romantic relationship, have a recurring fuck buddy, or just get laid a lot, every man has moments where sex isn’t quite what it used to be. For whatever reason, that same old suck and fuck routine stops being exciting, especially if you’re still sucking and fucking the same person. The best way to bounce back from these slumps is to spice up your sex life. Throw some hot peppers into the mix (figuratively, not literally), and bring fireworks back to the bedroom. We’ve compiled a list of some of the best ways to make your sex life feel brand new again.
1 – Three heads are better than two
And giving head to two people is better than giving head to one! If you haven’t sucked two cocks at the same time – you’re really missing out. Threesomes are a great way to add a little adventure to your sex life. Firstly, it really brings out the trust in a relationship, sexual, romantic, or otherwise. You and your partner are exploring new horizons together, within each other’s comfort zone. Set a few ground rules as to what is and isn’t allowed, preferably with the third party was well, and take a journey down threeway lane together. You’d be surprised how much of a bonding experience sharing a tight piece of ass can be. Plus watching your partner fuck someone else can be insanely erotic.
2 – Not all those who wander are lost
Sometimes the reason that fucking the same person over and over is boring is because you’re fucking the same person over and over. Some people just weren’t built for monogamy – and that’s okay. Opening the relationship sexually can be a solution to a partnership where the romance is there, but the bedroom chemistry is lost. This of course doesn’t apply to casual sexual relationships. If you’re in a non-monogamous situation and you’re bored, maybe you’re just bored of the person you’ve been fucking.
3 – Make an Amateur Porno
Whip out your iPhone next time you’re getting frisky and take some hot videos. The same way actors come to life in front of a camera, cock suckers perk up when they’re being taped. You’d be amazed how a blowjob goes from mediocre to porn star deep-throating once a video is involved. Hit record, slap your cock in his face, and make some mature movie magic. Plus, you’ve got some footage that you can watch together to get you going.
4. Fuck Only Each Other, but Also Someone Else
Role play might seem like a joke sometimes – it’s constantly mocked in popular media and is often portrayed as silly. The truth of the matter is that role play can be hot and silly at the same time. With some partners you may be able to get fully into a character. Maybe you’re a student and you failed your exam and want to make up the grade, or perhaps you’re a doctor doing a physical but can’t help but blow your patient. Either way, not everyone will get fully into character – and that’s fine. Sex can be goofy. It’s okay to throw cheesy lines back and forth, or even chuckle together while you suck each other off. As long as you’re enjoying yourself with your partner – anything can be fair game.
5. Keep each other tied up in bed
Sometimes sex is improved when you tie the knot – with ropes that is. Exploring light bondage (and other parts of BDSM) can open you up to a whole new world of sexual pleasure. It can start with easy things like tying up your hands or wearing a blindfold, and can progress to more extreme tying. These kinks require a great deal of trust, and that trust can make sex significantly more intimate. Before you try out BDSM, make sure to do some research into how to do it safely, for your sake and your partner’s. Check out this online guide from Kink Friendly, for example.
6 – Toy around with new things
If your sex isn’t vibe-ing the way it used to, consider bringing in some toys for you to try out together. Using a dildo on your partner is hot and watching a hole wrap around a vibrator, butt plug, or other toy is fucking beautiful. Trying a double ended dildo can also be quite the experience – you really need to work together to find a rhythm and position that you both enjoy – but once you find a way that works it’s pure magic.
7 – Fuck in the forest
Or the park, or in an alley, or in your friend’s washroom! Fuck wherever you can! Fucking in public (or unusual places) brings a rush of adrenaline that heightens your sexual experience. Make sure you pick a place secluded enough that you won’t get caught, but exciting enough that the sex will be hotter than ever. Also, be sure to know the laws in your area. Once you’ve done some scouting for the perfect spot, it’s time to have some hot sex!
8 – Get Sexting
Sometimes having a dramatic build up to sex can make the sex that much hotter. Send dick pics, ass shots, and scandalous messages back and forth throughout the day so that when you finally meet you tear each other’s clothes off. The suspense will make the sex that much more intense.
9 – Flip your sex life
Do you usually top? It’s time to start bottoming! Switching your position will do two things. First of all, it will make for a new and exciting sexual adventure. Secondly, it will likely make you better at doing the position you usually do. Tops who have bottomed, in particular, are more responsive and aware when they top again after. Tops who have bottomed top better! If you want to have a really good time, flip back and forth between topping and bottom in one session!
10 – Open up about kinks and fetishes
Sex works best with communication. It’s not uncommon for one sexual partner to have hidden desires they are too shy to share with their partner – and that can negatively affect how they fuck! Be honest and open with your fuck buddy or partner about what you’re into. They might be into it, and if not then they might be at least kind enough to try it out for you!
