Let’s face it – we all love sex. Fucking, sucking, and jerking are all irreplaceable pleasures. People should be free to sexually expand their horizons, to explore their bodies and their desires, and to discover themselves in the process. It’s not news to say that sexual activity of course poses certain risks, but these can be minimized and controlled with care. This week marks European HIV Testing Week, a great movement towards healthier and happier sex lives for all. Regardless of whether or not you’re European – getting tested is an important part of any sexually active adult’s routine. To help inspire healthier hookups, we’ve put together 3 reasons you should get tested this week:
1. Peace of Mind
When you get tested there is always peace of mind that comes with it. It’s a relief from the unknown – a saviour from uncertainty. Sex is much more enjoyable when you have to worry less about risks and responsibilities, and knowing your status will definitely help you feel more at ease.
2. To Look Out for Your Partners
Sex and relationship advice columnist Dan Savage has a guideline for intergenerational relationships he calls “The Campsite Rule”. Basically, he emphasizes that if you’re dating someone significantly younger than you, you should leave them in a better state than you found them in. This of course stems from camping, where you’re supposed to leave the grounds cleaner than when you arrived – undamaged and without waste. This Campsite Rule can be applied to most healthy relationships and sexual encounters. You should leave your partner better off than when you arrived, even if that just means post-coital bliss. Part of this should also include consideration for the health and wellbeing of your partner – even when it’s casual. Getting tested is a great way to lookout for your hookups, fuck buddies, or significant others.
3. You Can Put It On Your Profile
There’s something sexy and reassuring about a guy knowing his HIV status. It tells you that he is responsible, considerate, and in charge of his own sexuality. Posting your status and test date on your profile is a great way to let guys know that you’re looking out for your health and for their health, and that’s pretty hot.
So what can you do?
The first step is to research a place near you that does HIV screening. Depending on where you live there may be different options, including:
- At-home testing
- Rapid Testing
- Walk-In Testing
- Appointment-Only Testing
- and more!
If you have any questions about the HIV testing process, speak to a medical professional. It’s time to take control of your sexual health!
