BUTT: Allen Silver, lives in the heart of San Francisco’s Castro neighborhood, where he’s been since 2000 with his partner Will Swagger (who also happens to be an escort, by the way). Ten years ago, Allen landed his first role as a porn actor in Chris Roma’s Built to Last, and a steady stream of daddy roles followed — Daddy Dreaming, Daddy Hunt, Dad’s Automotive, Dad Goes to College, Dad Gets into Trouble, etc. — making him the go-to DILF ever since.
As you might expect, Allen’s pretty handy. Not only does he have a knack for turning household objects into instruments of pleasure, he also programmed his own website and is a certified masseur, one of the last to be trained at The Body Electric School. Allen’s an early riser, and I caught up with him by phone after he’s had his breakfast, which is the same every day: oatmeal and a single egg.
How enjoyable is sex with guys who are only tutored in porn?
I had a couple of experiences being with somebody who — I can tell they’re just wanting a film in their mind, like a performance… It’s less fun to be with somebody who is trying to play out a role they think they should be doing, but it’s not really what turns them on — or they don’t really know what turns them on. On the other hand, someone who doesn’t really know what they like and is honest about that can be a lot of fun because they’re open and exploring.
With so many gays being certified massage therapist these days, what is your unique selling point in terms of being a masseur?
Well, I’m one of the few people around who were trained by the Body Electric School before they stopped doing massage certification. It’s not that it’s that unique and weird, it’s just that it’s a very specific type of massage. And yes, a specialty of mine is anal massage. I’m actually trained in that, and I just love helping men get in touch with their assholes.
It’s nice that people are teaching spanking in the world. To what extent, when spanking, do you become a kind of paternal figure?
I think of it as a power and surrender experience, not so much discipline. It’s about, you know, someone agreeing to submit to you, and they actually become more powerful because they’re allowing this to happen. As they sink deeper and deeper into the experience, that’s where you get into like really high-level endorphin states, a high place of surrender. It feels wonderful. From the outside, it could look like punishment or discipline, but it’s really kinda the opposite. It’s taking them, in a caring way, to someplace which is kind of like deliciously painful.
Have you ever hired an escort yourself?
Yes. When I started doing this, I wanted to have that experience. So I actually hired these two guys and had a beautiful experience. I really don’t understand escorts who’ve never done that because you really need to know what that feels like from the other side. It makes you nervous, you know. It’s a little scary to call somebody you’ve never met, and discuss money… I’d do it again. It’s a good thing.
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