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FYI: TUBS OF FUN! Malcolm Ingram looks back at a legendary bathhouse in Continental (via Xtra.ca)

Who knew a history lesson could be this much fun? From its opening, eye-popping title sequence, Continental spills over with lively interviews, hilarious anecdotes, crazy stock footage and loads of gossip.

Ingram’s skill as a documentary filmmaker comes into full play here. Continental is the story of the legendary bathhouse, which existed from the late 1960s to the late ’70s. This, of course, was a pivotal time for the gay community and for civil rights advances, and the film shows us how an institution that operated 24/7 and was essentially one gigantic orgy was part of that change. People showed up, partied, had sex, shopped in the boutique or had a coffee, then had more sex. Some men would stay for days at a time.

The star of the documentary emerges as Steve Ostrow, an entrepreneur who realized men wanted to meet up with other men for sex but often had no way or nowhere to do it. He set up shop, soon to realize that the police would not allow for such an obvious gay-orgy outfit. But Ostrow explains that after a couple of raids the police pointed out that if he simply bought some tickets to their weekly fundraising ball — $8,000 worth each week — the raids would stop. Ostrow agreed, given the burgeoning success of his business and his need to protect his customers’ anonymity.

While acknowledging that the bathhouse culture accommodated those who remained closeted, Continental also shows us that Ostrow was himself a man discovering his own gay sexual identity and that he and bathhouse staff always fought for the decriminalization of gay sex. It’s a strange time to look back at because there was a sense of euphoria that went with the sexual revolution and there was no stigma of AIDS. Interviewed for the film, author Edmund White quotes Susan Sontag, who suggested there was, in fact, a brief window of about 30 years — from the widespread dissemination of birth control pills and antibiotics to treat STDs to the outbreak of the AIDS crisis — when people could live with complete sexual abandon. The Continental bathhouse stands as a potent symbol of this time.

But perhaps the strangest part comes with the Continental’s status as a multipurpose space. Leave it to gays to decide they had to put on a show. Ostrow had a dancefloor installed (the first glass disco floor ever, he claims) and recruited talent to perform live. Most legendary is the story of how he discovered Bette Midler, who was a struggling performer paying her way by waitressing, and how she got her start there, accompanied by a then-unknown Barry Manilow on piano. (They didn’t get along at first, Ostrow says.) Peter Allen played there, as did Sarah Vaughan and Patti LaBelle. It sounded like quite the party.

But Ingram, to his credit, doesn’t gloss things over. A disgruntled White suggests that the shows got in the way of the sex party, which he feels was the main reason the Continental existed and should have been its focus. The Continental became the talk of the town, and as such, all sorts of people starting showing up to check things out, among them Johnny Carson, Hitchcock, Woody Allen and Diane Keaton. Ingram doesn’t skimp on gossipy details: Nureyev loved rough trade! Holly Woodlawn occasionally performed while lying down, as she was too wasted to stand up!

Given what would come down the pipes not so long after the Continental shut its doors, Ostrow’s story makes for a beautiful — and quite uplifting — story arc. He got to pursue his lifelong dream of being an opera singer and now works to better the lives of older gay men. It’s a fitting punctuation mark to an invigorating documentary, which, in the Grindr era, seems almost like science fiction. By the final credit roll, I was sure of one thing: watching Continental made me want to see the Continental.

Men Will Be Boys: Bromance and Boundaries in ‘Still Standing You’ (via FAB Magazine)

When two straight male friends get physical to show their feeling for each other, it could be as tender as first love or as insidious as a couple of cranky fogies. Life is a balance for Belgian dancer, Pieter Ampe, and Portugal’s Guilherme Garrido. In their newest collaboration, they explore through the use of their bodies the relationship between two men. A contemporary dance piece that tests and crosses their own personal boundaries, Still Standing You shows the complexities of man-on-man action while wearing clothes and when clothes are no longer in the way. Fab Magazine sits down with Pieter Ampe to discuss man love.

Fab: Are you bromantic off stage with Ghilherme?

Pieter Ampe: We’re like an old married couple (laughs) being very hard on each other sometimes and other times very generous. Two years ago, we did an improvised trip to Provincetown in Cape Cod, where Gui “lost” his wallet at a strip joint we stopped at. It was in a way a romantic trip, and the next day we went to a transvestite party for an AIDS benefit. It’s great to have these experiences with him. I even took a picture of him lying down on the beach with an American flag sticking out of his ass.

Can you stand each other after all these years working together?

The title is pretty accurate. It is a cynical reference to standing up, standing each other and still supporting you. Can we still stand each other after so many years? We have to because we work together.

You sometimes get very homoerotic . . .

Being gay or straight is not really an issue. It is very curious and unbound like young boys. Being 10-0yrs-old is always there somewhere in men. You can always make fun. It’s when you start getting afraid of homosexuality that you lose this humour and intimacy with each other. In Morocco, men can walk around hand in hand, but once you speak about homosexuality, they’ll be very upset. I don’t know how you can split one thing from the other. I don’t need to define my identity so hard, heterosexual or not.

SIX DIRTY SHORTS!!!

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Entering his first sex club, smooth Scott Hunter is instantly targeted by doorman Jessy Ares’€” who wraps his arm around Scott and pulls him in, kissing him deep. With his boner jutting out of his jeans, Jessy slaps Scott’s pecs before spitting on the newbie’s cock and engulfing it. ‘€œSlap it on my fuckin’ mouth!’€ demands Jessy. They kiss, Jessy then feeding his rock-hard beast to the hottie. ‘€œFuckin’ suck my dick! All the way down!’€ A hot low shot looks up at Jessy’s steel shaft, hairy pecs and wicked smile as he gets serviced. ‘€œFuckin’ filthy bastard! Show me you want that dick in your ass!’€ Jessy face fucks Scott before feeding him hole, then eats him back before ramming him from behind. The top’s multiple muscles clench and balls bang as spit falls down from his mouth in a hot display of animalistic passion. Scott gets on his back for more, stroking a s Jessy’s thick shaft dives inside. He shoots, Jessy then dumping his load on the bottom’s balls.

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MODEL OF THE DAY: BRAN @ SEAN CODY

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SEAN CODY:

Bran is a big, beefy boy! He’s 28 years old and he has a girlfriend.

“Bran is kind of an unusual name,” I said.

“Yeah,” he said. “It’s short for ‘Brandon’.” He had a very cute smile on his boyish face. “They called me that in high school and it’s stuck ever since!”

What’s The Best Way To Kiss?: Conner Habib Ask The Sexpert

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Conner Habib is back, and once again he has brought along a pal for this week’s video, which is all about how to kiss. Watch above as Conner and his very lucky friend Justin demonstrate both the good, and bad, of making out for seven long minutes. We’re pretty sure it is the best thing you will see all day.

And, as always, be sure to tweet Conner your sex questions and check out his blog.