Palm Springs is known as a hot gay mecca in California, with plenty of reasons to strip down beyond hot gay fucking.

We understand planning your 2024 Palm Springs trip can be stressful, so let’s explore the top gay clothing-optional resorts for males in Palm Springs, the best hookup spots and gay cruising locations to take your sex vacation to the maxxxium. Let’s get into it.

Why Look to Palm Springs for Gay Clothing Optional Resorts?

Palm Springs offers a vibrant gay scene with numerous bars, clubs, and events for gay males, plus hot weather no matter what time of year you go.

Palm Springs is a popular spot for gay males with warm and sunny weather. The best time for gay males to visit is in February, during the President’s Day weekend when many gays from LA will make the trek down to the desert to get some fun when there are top-tier parties and a three-day weekend to sleep off that hangover or finish pulling that hot orgy train before clocking back in on Tuesday.

There’s something exceptionally sexy about a clothing-optional resort – whether you’re travelling solo and looking for hookup options – clothing-optional resorts let you leave your pants back in your room and feel the liberty, not just sexually but physically, of showing off your naked form. Plus, no tan lines!

From almost bathhouses with lots of sleaze to clothing-optional gay male resorts with a luxe edge and a much milder sexual temperature for those looking for a chill naked hang versus bareback pounding from AM to PM, there’s something for everyone when making a resort choice best for you. Let’s explore the options below.

What Are the Best Clothing Optional Gay Resorts in Palm Springs to Visit in 2024?

Vista Grande Resort

The Vista Grande Resort is a sanctuary for men impassioned by nudity. There are three pools, an 18-man hot tub, an on-site gym, and spectacular mountain views.

El Mirasol

Established in 1975, El Mirasol offers bungalows and studios with two pools, a steam room, and a jacuzzi.

Inndulge

Inndulge has a saltwater pool open to guests 24 hours a day. There’s also an emphasis on creating a social atmosphere for guests, with pizza nights and weekend pool parties.

Santiago Resort

Santiago Resort is located just at the foot of the San Jacinto Mountains and describes itself as a private escape for gay men.

“The guys that stay with us are men from all across the spectrum of age and body type…” explains Charles Zalepeski, general manager of Santiago Resort. “We present a mellow, peaceful environment, and we do all that we can to make sure our guests’ needs are taken care of and that they have an amazing vacation.”

The Hacienda At Warm Sands

Known as a much more tepid sexual environment, The Hacienda at Warm Sands is not just a trendy gay resort but a place where guests can experience peace, calmness, and nurturing. The Hacienda offers stunning views of Palm Springs mountains and palm trees, providing a unique and extraordinary experience that can only be topped by seeing these views naked poolside.

Twin Palms Resort

The historic Twin Palms Resort in Palm Springs has become a stylish getaway for gay men. The resort blends in with the modernist architecture of the neighborhood and features a stunning new swimming pool. Guests can enjoy the beautiful desert surroundings and relax in the warm spa water while soaking up the sun.

Tuscany Manor Clothing Optional Resort Palm Springs

Tuscany Manor is a clothing-optional and naturist resort in Palm Springs, offering one and two-bedroom suites with fully equipped kitchens. The resort features a large heated pool, jacuzzi, BBQ area, and a playroom for lifestyle events.

Triangle Inn

The Triangle Inn Palm Springs’ hosts, Stephen and Michael, live on the property and strive to make guests’ visits unforgettable. The resort offers a unique experience with a clothing-optional atmosphere and amenities, including tropical gardens, a swimming pool, a jacuzzi, and stunning mountain views. It is located just a block away from Palm Canyon Drive.

CCBC Resort Hotel

CCBC Resort Hotel is a clothing-optional resort that offers accommodation and day passes for those looking to get in a fuck and then head back to their hotel for a little bit of serenity beyond the dick deck.

Find Gay Cruising with Squirt.org in Palm Springs

Squirt.org makes it easy to find the hottest gay cruising locations, such as gyms, outdoor spots and gay bars and hookup clubs where you can leave your resort, stuff that cock back into your pants, only to whip it out a few moments later at the cruise bar down the street or in a steamy locker room hookup.

Here are the best spots to find gay cruising in Palm Springs below, but log onto Squirt.org and see what other top spots users rate for hot thick cock and hard fucking that will leave you stumbling back to your resort with a subtle limp and a smile on your face from that good dick!

What Are Some Hot Gay Cruising Gyms in Palm Springs?

When you’re seeking hot desert temperatures and even hotter men with bulging biceps and throbbing cocks in the locker room, Squirt.org knows just which gyms you can find some horny action after your bench press session:

Steel Gym 

Located on North Sunrise Way, this is known as not only an excellent gym facility but one that sports a locker room designed for sex, gang showers, a dark steam room and a sauna that overlooks the showers for a nude, cruising-focused gym.

EōS Fitness

If you’re looking to get in a pump before your flight or you’ve been delayed, this cruisy gym near Palm Springs International promises plenty of men looking to fuck through their jet lag with a hottie like yourself.

Planet Fitness

Located in Cathedral City on Date Palm Dr, this does see some eye-hockey across the gym floor, but the locker room leaves something to be desired for real hookups.

In-Shape

Located on Date Palm Dr, plenty of hot bi and gay (and even curious males) find some action in the locker room at this franchise location.

What Are Some Other Hot Gay Cruising Grounds in Palm Springs to Find?

Squirt.org has your definite list of places where gay, bi and curious males go to fuck and find other males who want the same thing; some member favorite spots include:

Whitewater River

Head on over to Whitewater Canyon, where plenty of men gather on the sands to not only sunbathe but to find some guys who want to take your hot cock action to the nearby trees near the river for sucking and fucking.

Whitewater Rest Area

Just near Whitewater, eastbound on 10 Freeway, this rest stop cruising hot spot gets plenty of long-haul truckers looking to fill up with diesel and unleash their cocks on a greedy mouth slut.

Tahquitz Creek

Find yourself at S Riverside Dr, the cruising area along the creek and near the footbridge for hot and horny cocks; best for late-night cruising.

North Vacant Lot

The vacant lot on Worsley Road is a 20-minute drive to Desert Hot Springs. To get there, take Highway 62 north towards Yucca Valley, turn right onto Indian Canyon Road, then right onto Worsley Road. Look for a dusty dirt road on the east side of the street that leads to a dried-up wash area. Park your car and explore the outdoor gay cruising play areas in the desert.

Tesla Charging Car Park

Located just off North Museum Drive, charge up your ride while taking a ride of your own in the backseat of someone else’s hot rod.

What Types of Gay Bars and Clubs Can I Expect in Palm Springs?

Yes, there’s no doubt that you can find some hot and horny males looking to have fun at local Palm Springs nightlife spots for gay cruising, such as:

The Barracks

Located on East Palm Canyon Drive, this excellent leather bar gets crowded with underwear night on Wednesday, a patio and plenty of events to get men revved.

Hunters Palm Springs

Located on Arenas Road, Hunters is a popular gay bar with a lively atmosphere, dancing, and frequent events.

The Tool Shed

Established in 1993, The Tool Shed is one of the venues that has helped establish Palm Springs as one of the top destinations for gay men. The Tool Shed leans into the leather aesthetic but is a welcoming space for all sorts of guys.

Toucans Tiki Lounge

Known for its tropical and tiki-themed ambiance, Toucans Tiki Lounge is a lively gay bar with a dance floor, drag shows, and karaoke nights.

Streetcar

This longstanding gay bar is located on Arenas Road and is known for its friendly vibe, outdoor patio, and regular entertainment, including live music and drag performances.

Chill Bar Palm Springs

Chill is a venue that takes you from day drinking to drag brunch to the dance floor, depending on the time of day and your mood. Each night has a different theme, so it’s worth checking their website to see what’s on.

Written by Gareth Johnson

If you’re tired of the boring missionary, doggy style, or even the typical gay ménage à trois is bumming you out, don’t fret because we’ve provided a list to get you fucking in new and ingenious ways throughout 2024; some may even last you until 3008, but we’ve excluded sex with AI and robots due to risk of electrocution.

Read on to see some fun ways to bring role play, public sex, kink and even some full-fat and sugar-free BDSM elements into your lovemaking or hardcore anal pounding!

Ways to Bring Consent Into the Conversation of Gay Role Play

Consent is a fundamental aspect of role play. It is crucial to have open and honest conversations about boundaries, limits, and preferences before engaging in any role play scenarios.

Establishing a safe word or signal is essential so everyone can communicate their needs during the role play, and when a boundary is pushed, there is a way to stop without further damage or lack of consent.

Don’t just assume your partner is comfortable with your actions. Consent requires a clear and enthusiastic YES! Consent can be revoked at any time – even when activities were discussed and agreed to previously.

“No” or “Stop” are poor examples of a safeword because, in some role plays, those words come with the scene! You know, like when you’re getting “forced to suck a cock against your will.” It sorta goes like this. Before playing, you consent to get face-fucked, and during the scene, you pretend that you don’t want it with words like “No” or “Stop.”

A good safe word would be unlikely to pop up during a scene – like shouting out Pomegranate, Beanie-Baby, or RuPaul’s Drag Race Season Seven!

Consent is ongoing, and it is essential to check in with each other during and after the role play to ensure that everyone is enjoying themselves and respecting each other’s boundaries.

Aftercare is also an important part of any power-based play, BDSM, and Kink. It can involve anything from showering together to cuddling and talking to ensure everyone feels cared for and emotionally and physically safe after playing. Role play is an opportunity to explore, have fun, and always be consensual. Aftercare helps respect the well-being of all involved.

How to Have a Conversation About Role Play on Gay Hookup Websites

If you’re meeting a fuckboy on a gay hookup app or website like Squirt.org, the conversation on consent, your kinks and what you are looking to have done to you to get off should be established pretty quickly and directly in the text or messaging app conversation.

Skirting the issue or putting it off may lead to hurt feelings if the initial connection is strong, but they are not interested in exploring your role play scenario! This can be a major boner killer.

Be direct about what you’re looking to do, ask questions and have confidence in what you want so that if they turn it down, you have no qualms about missing out on a more “typical” hookup experience with this partner.

Establish boundaries and limits. Discuss what activities are off-limits and what is considered a hard limit for all cruisers; discuss triggers or sensitive topics that should be avoided during role play, such as personal traumas, phobias, or anything else that could be uncomfortable or awkward (no need to detail the specific incident of that trauma, just that you have it). Having an open and honest chat about these potential triggers allows both guys to fuck without causing harm.

When initiating a conversation about role play on gay hookup websites and when receiving requests about a person’s kinks and turn-ons, be respectful and don’t dismiss them callously. Kindly decline.

As sexy as that may not sound, there may even be some negotiations to ensure everyone gets what they want. Which can be so hot and fulfilling when you get to live your fantasy!

A gay hookup website is a great way to iron out your roleplay fantasies with a cute stranger or potential long-term hookup partner, as you can text, video message or find ways to ensure everyone is getting what they want virtually or before one heads out the door to the host’s place, nearest bathhouse or local cruising spot.

How Can I Avoid Getting Arrested While Gay Cruising?

Engaging in outdoor activities, including gay cruising, can be an exhilarating way to connect with others and explore one’s sexuality. It’s that rush of getting caught with your dick out.

Be aware of the legal implications and potential risks that can come with outdoor encounters, particularly in countries or regions where same-sex activities may be stigmatized or even criminalized.

Before embarking on any outdoor or public cruising adventure, use Squirt.org’s cruising directories to find local hookup hot spots that members update in real-time. Members will share which ones are known to have the sexy guys and are known to be safer from police intervention.

Many members will note additional police presence, security, cameras, or even local samaritans who are vigilant to cruising activities, so pay attention to these comments when checking out a listing on Squirt.org.

Cruising is incredibly hot, and finding a down to fuck male at a cruising spot such as a gay cruising park late at night is incredibly rewarding!

What Are Some Ways to Spice Up My Hookup Sex Experience in 2024?

1. Candle Wax Play: Remember consent! For this one, either you or your hookup is blindfolded on the bed; if you, your hookup brings and lights a typical white pillar or dinner candle and teases your body by dripping the hot wax onto your naked torso. The higher you bring the candle up from their body, the less it will burn, so take your time dripping the wax from higher up and lower and close to their body for that mix of pain and pleasure. Allow them to stroke their cock while dripping the wax on their skin: an epic foreplay technique!

Note: Candle wax is a fickle one to get out of clothing and will ruin furniture; if you have sheets that have seen the hard times of silicon-based lube, use those; the more disposable, the better. Also, lit candles will be a fire hazard, so proceed with caution and blow out or extinguish the candle once you get down to fucking.

2. Consensual Non-Consent Sex: Also known as rape play, this sexy role play scenario involves faking a rape in which you can experience the kink of feeling submissive and abused, however, within safe constraints of fantasy. Establish your rules, but get lost in the fantasy of one or many men finding your body so hot and irresistible they can’t resist fucking you, even as you beg and moan for them to stop.

Note: Again, consensual non-consent is role play, and we do not condone actual, non-consensual sex. Please establish your rules of play to ensure everyone is enjoying themselves. Consent can be withdrawn at any time. Use agreed-upon safe words to signal that the session must stop.

3. Squirt Video Chat Rooms Dare Challenge: Invite a hookup over and log onto Squirt.org; tag one of you as the exhibitionist and the other as the darer; the darer proceeds to push the exhibitionist from behind the camera to do more graphic or even humiliating acts for other members to see on webcam. Choose the most popular chatroom and push them until their clothes are off, cock is hard, and more and more men from other devices worldwide on Squirt are telling them to cum and moan.

Please read our erotic humiliation kink article to find out how to broach this kink in your hookup.

4. Park Bench Solicit: Arrange with a role play hookup on Squirt.org to meet at a local cruising park and act as if you’re a straight guy with a girlfriend; your hookup stops you and solicits you with cash to touch your body and proceeds to push you to take you home for even more money.

Note: Sex work is legitimate work, but it also can be illegal depending on where you are; as this is a public tip, use discretion and also understand that this is happening in the realm of play: no actual money should be exchanged.

5. Leather Club Encounter: Create a scenario where you both imagine meeting at a leather club or bar. Dress in your sexiest leather gear. Take different cars or plan to meet there at a specific time. Once there, act as strangers cruising for a third, or beckon each other to meet in the dark room and see if the cock around your mouth ends up being each other’s or someone else.

6. Sneaky Spa: Head to a local spa and find moments in between the steam to play with each other’s cocks; if alone in the room, suck each other off while another plays lookout and pushes you off when the door opens.

7. Sling and Blindfold: Rent a private room with a sling at your local gay bathhouse; one plays piggy, and the other plays procurer getting as many hot guys to come back to your room to give you anonymous cock while blindfolded!

8. Park Roleplay: Get on Squirt.org to find a local gay cruising park with lots of late-night action; meet on a warm summer night and find a secluded spot to fuck where other cruisers may be able to stumble upon the scene and jerk off or join.

9. House Party: Go to an event or friends’ birthday and invite a hookup; find private moments to suck each other off in the laundry room, play with each other’s cocks under the table or slide a finger down their slacks and finger their tight horny hole.

10. Hookup in a Big Box Store: Find the local Ikea or big box store near you and get on your fave hookup website and find a local dude down to dick around in the toilets; aim for a weekday for minimal traffic if you’re feeling shy.

11. Casting Couch: Consent for filming will be required, but proceed to use your phone as a steady cam and interview your hookup as “promising new talent” who has to show you and maybe get down on their knees and beg why they should be in your next film. Your recorded video will be the audition tape to make the entire encounter feel legitimate while getting off on the possibility of the final video making men across the internet want to jerk off to your naked body.

Heck, in the end, you might keep the tape anyway! Share your sexy pics and videos on Twitter and tag us @SquirtOrg so we all can watch the show.

12. Watch a Squirt Studios Scene: What’s your fave dirty movie? Squirt Studios is on JustFor.Fans now and includes many hot scenes to get you going; watch solo or with a hookup to get things moving, taking a scene like “Fucking My Boyfriend’s Hookup” as potential inspo–life imitates art indeed.

13. Four Poster Bed Bondage: Try to find a hookup who has a four-poster bed by browsing Squirt.org; if they can host, offer them to tie your arms and legs to each post of the bed and offer to let them have their way with your body; be keen in your scouting and trust the chosen partner is the rightest and kinkiest person for this one.

14. Back to the Grind: Find a local washroom cruising spot in your office building, and for lunch, get on Squirt.org and find a hottie who is DTF in the cubicle stall before your afternoon meeting: read more from our gay sex at work article to perfect this one.

15. Gagged & Punished: Consent is crucial to procure beforehand; in this scenario, the power dynamic includes a bound, gagged and blindfolded bottom getting punished by one or two males looking to abuse their cock and hole; establish a safe signal since eyes, mouth and hands may be restrained.

16. Amusement Park: Find a ride with two seats and darkness and stroke each other off until the ride ends. They should rename the Tunnel of Love into the Pounding of Holes anyway, right?

17. Look But Don’t Touch: Stand behind the bedroom door, inside a closet, or tied to a chair while your partner invites a hookup over, and you don’t get to play while they do. Let them tease you for missing out as your erection in your shorts gets harder and harder, and your restrained hands can’t do a thing. Or, under the bed, jerk off that cock as if you’re the ultimate voyeur spying on someone’s private moment.

Note: This will require the hookup to know the third, potentially hiding person is there; please don’t attempt to make their presence unknown. All parties should be aware of how many people are in the room.

18. Pornstar Scene: Whip out your phone while your hookup whips out his cock. Direct your hookup as he jerks off while you’re filming. Tell him how to pose and take pics. Go pro and direct a porn scene with a group of guys. Share your sexy pics and vids on Twitter and tag us @SquirtOrg so we all can watch the show!

19. Parking Lot: Commit in 2024 to find a local car lot where men go to cruise and make a pledge to read our article on how to have gay car sex to master this tip.

20. Movie Theatre: Invite a hookup to a movie that’s been playing for a few weeks (i.e. not the latest summer blockbuster on opening weekend) so the theatre is quiet; sit in the back and fool around for the 80 minutes without having to host. Bring extra napkins when you bust a load: bonus points if it’s into the popcorn, and the person who comes first has to eat both loads mixed with the kernels and butter!

21. Train Ride to Poundtown: The next time you’re travelling with a hookup, ask if they would be eager to stroke your cock when no one is looking on the train; best for long-haul cross, country trips when other passengers may be sleeping.

22. Camping: Arrange a camping date with a hookup and make an effort every day to cruise the local woods for more cock (gay campgrounds are a must for ultimate success on this), or find places on your own to fuck and suck in the wilds of nature. Have bareback sex as often as you can between the trees and embrace nature and that orgasm!

23. Beach Fuck: There are plenty of local beaches during the summertime that are known as gay cruising meccas; make an effort during the warmer months to find a local spot and take cock! Read more about having gay sex on the beach in our article so you can really get cock in your mouth and not just sand in your cheeks.

24. Airport Fuck: Next time your flight is delayed, get on Squirt.org and source a sub down to suck you off in the closest airport gate toilets to pass the time.

25. Shower Fuck at the Gym: This year, make an effort to cruise a local cutie at your gym and offer to suck them off in the shower when no one’s looking. Perfect your local gay gym cruising experience with our article.

Which one will you try first? Let us know in the comments below, and don’t be afraid to share your best 2024 gay hookup experiences with these mentioned tips or from some other ways you’ve found hot and horny cock!