Picture of Aaron Breslow with Dan Scudellari in Brooklyn by Danny Ghitis

And so it begins… moms of gay kids are now pestering them to get married. Great article at the New York Times:

VIA THE NEW YORK TIMES

FOR the last year, Aaron Breslow, 23, an H.I.V. project coordinator, has been dating Dan Scudellari, 26, an advertising executive. They have spent holidays with each other’s families, and enjoy searing scallops and making kale salads in their apartments in Brooklyn.

Mr. Breslow’s stepmother, Lorraine Gray, wants them to marry.
They were mildly interested when New York lawmakers voted to allow same-sex marriage. Then Mr. Breslow’s stepmother called. “She congratulated me on gay marriage passing and said, ‘This is a great opportunity for you,’ ” Mr. Breslow said.

But there’s a problem: Mr. Breslow, who calls himself queer rather than gay, philosophically opposes marriage. “I don’t understand the concept of legalized monogamy and normalcy,” said Mr. Breslow, who has a brother, Jacob, also gay. “My brother and I both studied queer theory.”

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