Squirt.org member phil9325, our certified travelling slut, has paid a few visits this year (and loads) to multiple gay cities in the US, including his visits to Fort Lauderdale, Florida and recently Dore Alley in San Francisco. This time, he is taking us to New York City, a place where gays can’t get enough dick. 

Hello, and welcome back, my lovely sluts, to another entry of the Journal of the Travelling Slut, your guide to the dos and fucks of gay destinations and events. 

Throughout the summer, I had the chance to visit one of my favourite cities, New York City. A city full of magic, lights, fashion, food, culture and, most importantly, lots and lots of horny gay men.

Buckle up as we explore what the concrete jungle offers for your horny hole, including my fave spots at the Eagle, The Cock and how to find sex parties in the big city.

Where should I stay, and how long should I visit NYC?

The first thing to note is that NYC can be quite an expensive visit if you don’t have a rich daddy to stay with; some of the cheapest months to visit are January and February, but you won’t be able to cruise those outdoor parks and hot spots, such as on those hot summer days. 

That said, if you decide to visit when the gays are out and about at Central Park, I recommend you go during pride or sometime in July when the gays are guaranteed to be horned up from the sun. 

If you have never been to this place, or you are a regular, you need to figure out what your vibe is to find your hotel. I tend to find places close to the theatre and the Eagle so I can do the two gay things I love: musicals and cruising. Your best bets, in my opinion, are Chelsea or the dreaded Times Square (I know this can be busy, but if you have never visited, it is a great way to be close to the main attractions). 

Explore My Fave NYC Gay Hookup Spot: The Eagle

Since this ain’t your usual travel guide, I will just give you the best ways to find yourself the greatest dicks of your life. As I mentioned earlier, the Eagle is a must-visit in NYC. If you like cruising, having sex while others watch, or just dancing with sweaty, hairy, leather daddies, then this is the place to be. 

Located off 11th Street in Chelsea, the Eagle offers a world of mischief and sexiness. The first floor offers you a great dance floor and amazing eye candy. Now, if you are horny after arriving in the city, then you must go to the second floor. This floor is a guaranteed good time. 

Be prepared to clothes check your stuff, and have your ass out in your sexy jockstrap. From here, cruise along the floor and be ready to get on your knees or bend over for all the horny daddies looking to use you. 

I always walk up, and in three seconds or less, I am getting spit roasted by leather daddies. If heaven is a place on earth, I believe it is the Eagle NYC. 

Each side of the floor is a bit “darker” if you want to hook up more in the anon form, or you can go to the main area and go at it. 

As a word of advice, arrive early as the Eagle is popular, and the line can be quite long sometimes. Also, be prepared to pay cover depending on the type of event they have. The best nights to visit this place are Wednesday, as it is jockstrap night, and it is guaranteed that you will see some of the best asses of your life and leave with cum leaking down your leg. 

Friday and Saturday are also great times to go out as everyone will be out to release some steam from the week. Maybe you’ll find yourself a finance daddy to rail you and then pay for your visits. 

Later: Cum Explore The Cock for More Gay Cruising Fun

If your vibe is even more cruisy and dungeon vibes, then you need to head downtown and visit The Cock. There isn’t much advertisement for you to see what to expect but the name should give you a pretty good idea. 

This bar is the definition of a great cruising experience. Very low lights, dark beats, and lots of hungry cocks and holes looking for a good time. Some NYC horny gays recommend that you start your night at the Eagle and then head down to the Cock to finish yourself off. Most horny New Yorkers will be here looking to breed and then head home to sleep and head to brunch in the morning. 

What If The Bar Scene Is Not My Scene? 

NYC probably has one of the best cruising spots I have ever visited. Central Park may be the place to go for a run, see some museums, and go tan in your speedo with no place to go for a swim, but it is also the home of The Ramble, the cruisiest spot in town. 

The Ramble is located in the middle of the park, and it is not hard to find. However, it is easy to get lost once you enter. There are a lot of different trails that you can take and areas behind bushes and trees where you can misbehave. The potential of this area is endless, but make sure you leave a trail so you can actually find your way out at the end.

This place is full of families during the day (when I first visited), so finding someone who is cruising and has the space to do so can be challenging. That said, most gay New Yorkers recommend you visit after sunset as no one is around but horny men looking for cock. 

Wear something comfortable and easily removable so daddies can pound your hole and have an open mind to the potential of finding great sex outdoors. Grab your cock, make eye contact and get on your knees. As a note, the park closes at 1 am, so make sure to cum before then so you don’t get blue balls. 

What Other Options Do Horny Gays Have When in New York City?

The last thing I would recommend are sex parties. Every week, if not every day, there is a sex party happening here. One great way to find these is by subscribing to their newsletter. 

The sex parties I’ve experienced and would recommend are Gush, Pighaus, Scumm, and the Bear Party. Each one of these parties has a different theme and vibe, but it is definitely the place where you will be left with a gapping, cummy hole. Make sure to check where the location is and the theme of the party; some can be kinkier than others. One of the last parties I attended was at a hotel with over 40 guys. I walked in, stripped down and had a daddy bend me over the couch. After that, I didn’t get up for a good hour, just taking everyone’s cock and load. 

One thing that I do, and you can copy as well, is to go to one of these parties as your “pre” and find friends that would be down to go with you to the Ramble or the Eagle after; that way, you get yourself a cruising crew. 

Trust me, most gay New Yorkers are always down to fuck and be friends. It is not an uptight city, so you have to go with an open mind and open hole. 

If this is your first time or your 100th visit to this city, New York never ceases to amaze me about how much cock you can get here. Make sure to make the most of it and take as many loads as possible. The men here are sexy, horny, and friendly (unlike the popular belief that New Yorkers are mean).

Until next time my sluts, stay horny and take as many loads as you can. I’ll continue to report where the biggest loads are at. My goal is to attend Pride here next year, and I can guarantee you, I may not be able to walk after. 

Stay classy yet slutty,

Phil XO 

X/Twitter: @philduchampxxx

Are you a bit of a cum pig? Do you get off on eating a guy’s load?

Wet your appetite and read on to understand why some of your hookups are really going to want to eat your cum.

What is a Cum Eating Fetish?

On one level, a cum eating fetish is pretty self-explanatory – it describes a guy that is really into eating cum.

While most of us are generally enthusiastic about cum, it’s helpful to remember that there’s a difference between a kink and a fetish. A kink is something that you’re into, and it can help you get off, whereas a fetish is something that you need to get off – if it’s your fetish, then you won’t get off unless that particular button is pushed.

So, if you’ve got a cum eating fetish, any sort of sexual encounter is going to be a bit of a let-down if you don’t get to eat some cum.

What’s the science behind a cum fetish?

We don’t need to get all Freudian about this, but the general consensus is that the development of a sexual fetish is probably linked to some formative experience in the early stages of your sexual experience.

It’s not always easy to pinpoint a specific experience or direct cause-and-effect, but it’s likely that there was some really intense moment somewhere around puberty that has somehow translated into a hunger for cum.

There might have been a BDSM element to that formative experience. The power dynamics of sexual encounters could lead you to associate swallowing cum with demonstrating subservience.

Alternatively, that formative experience might have had something to do with the thrill of doing something taboo or forbidden. As we’ve discussed in articles about gay rape play or gay BDSM, if you’re associating cum eating as something taboo – even if that’s a subconscious association – then any opportunity to explore the sensation of breaking that taboo can be really powerful.

Not everyone would see cum eating as something taboo. Early Christian rituals included eating cum as part of ceremonial worship – a man’s cum was described as his liquid soul. Perhaps that’s why the best gay head can sometimes feel like a religious experience.

There are also theories that there’s a physiological basis for a cum fetish. Semen is made up of compounds such as cortisol, progesterone, oxytocin, and prolactin. These compounds could have mood-enhancing and stress-reducing effects when absorbed through the mucous membranes in the mouth. You may not consciously make the connection that getting a hit of cum will effectively be swallowing an antidepressant, but your body intuitively knows what it needs.

How Can I Make My Cum Taste Better?

If you’re regularly having hookups with guys that have a cum eating fetish, then you probably want to ensure that the loads that you’re providing are as tasty as possible.

We went deep on this in our last cum eating article, but the short answer is that the taste of your cum may be influenced by factors such as your diet, your overall health, and your lifestyle choices.

The urban myth that eating pineapple will make your cum taste sweeter hasn’t been scientifically verified, but it probably doesn’t do any harm to add some pineapple and other antioxidants to your diet.

You might want to explore supplements such as wheatgrass or spirulina, as these are high in chlorophyll and may have some health benefits. Fenugreek is another supplement often associated with semen quality, so it’s worth considering.

However, it’s important to distinguish between your cum and your urine. Urine is a waste product of your body – you can see a direct connection between what you put into your mouth and what comes in your urine. For example, if you eat asparagus, you can smell the results, or if you don’t drink enough water, you can see how this is reflected in your urine.

Your cum isn’t a waste product – it’s a substance your body generates. It’s much harder to see any direct correlation between what you put into your mouth and what comes out in your cum because the process of generating semen is more complicated than that.

What Happens When You Swallow Cum?

Even if you don’t have a fully-fledged cum eating fetish, a bit of cum-play is always fun

When receiving cum during oral sex, you can spit it out, swallow it, or snowball it – just go with what feels good to you, don’t overthink it.

Because we’re generally taking our cues from porn, you might want to smear it over the guy’s cock and really make the most of it. That’s the money shot, and you want the camera to capture the action, but even if you’re not filming your encounter, it can still be a turn-on to show your hook-up that you’re into really savouring his load.

If you’re concerned about STIs, your risks are pretty much the same whether you’re spitting or swallowing. As anyone who is sexually active and getting dick aplenty, ensure you’re testing regularly for STIs to stay on top of any issues.

A sexual health strategy called doxy-PEP, which involves taking doxycycline after condomless sex, is highly effective in reducing bacterial sexually transmitted infections. However, it has been associated with a slight increase in resistant strains of bacteria. The strategy was observed in a study of men who have sex with men and transgender women and found to reduce STIs by two-thirds each quarter.

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Written by Gareth Johnson