FAMILY CREEP: Benny Fox has had a horrible first date after being talked up by his step-dad Ty Roderick about all the right things to do. Ty goes to check on his step-son and as Benny opens up to him, he lets Ty know that he didn’t have a bad date, but when itcame to the sex, Benny didn’t know what he was doing! Ty, being the great step-dad that he is, is more than happy to give his step-son guidance in all the right ways.
In our transactional relationship with intimacy, we tend to automatically assume that sex means fucking – someone is going to get penetrated and someone is going to be doing the penetrating.
Sex means butt-fucking, right?
Obviously it can, but anal sex is just aspect of the broad range of sexual experiences that are available to us.
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What is gay non-penetrative sex?
If you’re talking about gay non-penetrative sex, it’s kind of the long way of saying “no anal”.
A strict interpretation of non-penetrative sex could theoretically include “no oral” as well, but the general assumption is that non-penetrative sex means that you can do pretty much anything except butt-fucking.
Why would someone want to avoid gay penetration sex?
If you’re searching for your latest gay hookup partner on Squirt.org for anal sex, you might find yourself chatting with guys who are keen to connect but want to avoid gay penetration sex. There’s a few reasons why they might be in that headspace.
Trust and Consent
Lots of guys want to know something about you before they’ll have anal sex with you.
The fantasy of being fucked by an anonymous hot muscle jock or a gay leather daddy is one thing, but anal sex generally requires a level of trust and that’s something that everyone has to navigate in their own way.
Getting fucked by someone requires to be vulnerable – physically and emotionally. That can be a bit challenging if you’re meandering through the local cruising park near you.
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Sexually Transmitted Infections
STIs are also top of mind for some guys. While you can look after yourself to some extent through PrEP and Doxy PeP, you might feel that anal sex exposes you to a higher risk of STI transmission.
That’s often a particular concern for guys who are in monogamous relationships and perhaps aren’t being totally transparent with their partner about down-low hook-ups.
That concern around STIs seems to have become a little more pronounced now that most guys are having gay bareback anal sex. Insisting on condoms for gay hookups can often be a deal-breaker, so non-penetrative sex might be an effective compromise.
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Not feeling fresh
If you’re a 100 percent hot bonafide top you may not realise what’s required to prepare for anal sex – even certified power-bottoms can’t always be fresh and confident. If your bottom tells you that anal sex is off-limits until the next gay douching session, you need to respect that.
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Here are ten ways to have non penetrative gay sex near you
Kissing
Making out with a guy is hot. Let your tongue do the talking.
Dry Humping
This is where the clothes stay on – there’s a lot of rubbing and a lot of friction.
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Frottage
This is similar to dry humping but the clothes come off – you get to go dick-to-dick with your hook-up.
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Handjobs and Mutual masturbation
Find yourself a bate buddy, grease up and get to work. Read how to give the ultimate gay handjob here.
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Gay Footjob
If you’re into feet, this is a lot of fun – hold the soles of his feet together and fuck that. Read on how to give the ultimate gay footjob here.
Circle jerk
Circle jerks are an old-school way of getting off without touching anyone else but they’ve had a bit of a resurgence in an increasingly solo-sexual world. The good thing about organising a circle jerk is that you get to set the rules – if you don’t mind being a bit flexible with how much touching is allowed, a circle jerk can help you to get a great gay orgy going.
The structured intimacy of a man-on-man erotic massage is an ideal way to get all the pleasure of sex without any penetration. Read our gay tantric massage article, heat up the oil and get down to business.
Different STIs are transmitted in different ways. Sure, you’re unlikely to acquire HIV if you limit yourself to oral sex, but there’s lots of other STIs out there that can easily be acquired if you put your mouth on his cock.
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Gay Dildo Play
Does dildo play count as non penetrative sex? It probably depends on what your motivation is for avoiding getting fucked.
Being able to communicate openly with your sexual partners is what’s important – the more you can talk about what you’re into and the kind of sexual experience that you’re looking for, the easier it will be to navigate the boundaries that you’ve both set and maximise pleasure for everyone.
CARNAL+: Dylan Tides is very comfortable hanging with his friends at the Carnal House. When Legrand tells him that he should get out more, he takes it the wrong way until Rocky steps in to make him feel wanted again.
Rocky is a mysterious presence in the house. He’s Legrand’s good friend and assistant, as well as a quiet, brooding, presence, hunting boys when his massive uncut dick needs some ass. This week, Dylan needs his confidence boosted and Rocky needs a tight hole to fuck.
One might say, “Killing two birds with one load.” What Rocky wants, Rocky gets, and his butch charisma and big dick make it almost impossible for twink boys to say, “no.”
Dylan certainly doesn’t want to, as he eagerly gives up both his throat and his ass for the big man’s pleasure, getting his own load fucked out of him at the same time.
Falcon Studios’ “Bred & Breakfast: The Push It Inn”, sparring couple Sir Peter and Derek Kage, owners of Southern California’s premier bed & breakfast, have for the first time decided to close during Christmas week. Sure, the hospitality industry is particularly lucrative during the festive season, but reconnecting as partners has become their top priority.
Fate and the FAA have other plans though, as hundreds of flights have been diverted to Los Angeles due to a wide-reaching computer system outage. With hotel rooms hard to come by on such short notice, stranded travelers scrambling to find accommodations put a twist in the tinsel for Sir Peter and Derek.
Scene 1: “B&B owners Sir Peter and Derek Kage planned to close The Push It Inn for Christmas, but Seth Peterson and Sean Xavier’s unexpected travel interruption has them opening up their bed & breakfast for the holidays. Once Seth and Sean are shown to their room, they make themselves at home by sucking each other off and fucking bareback across their lush bed.”
As the holiday hookup continues, Seth’s hot jock body is tossed around, and his ass is filled with everything from a nearby nutcracker to Sean’s big throbbing cock.
TIM TALES: Sunny Barcelona got one last warm day for dominant top Leandro HairyDomXL to breed the hole of Mr.Roger on the famous Timtales terrace. That thick Venezuelan cock is ready to be worshiped by a mountain of muscles. 6’3” of golden perfection to be exact.
Bodybuilder Mr. Roger is glorious from every angle. Watch this stud ride that big dick like a real champ. Let that Barcelona sun warm your hole and soul. Enjoy 😉
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CARNAL+: After Andolini chooses Hugo to fuck, Guillaume is left to break in Occitan, the second French Connection fuck toy. Unlike Hugo, who’s father Apolo is in deep, the Cabal doesn’t have a hold on Occitan yet, beyond some sexploits that he would really rather not go public. Guillaume needs to teach him what his place in the pecking order is with a hard fuck from both ends.
Guillaume gets Occitan undressed, on the sofa, ass out for use, then Apolo shows up and joins in. The two men alternating, face fucking the twunk and having him ride their dicks, before they start to spit roast him, working hard and changing ends. They end up with him on his knees, tongue stuck out, ready to catch their loads when they come.