Anyone can have sex. But not everyone can have good sex. Sometimes being a good lay means being able to pick the right positions for the right moments. It means knowing when to slow things down and when to speed things up. You need to know when to have passionate face-to-face moment or when to have a less intimate, more rugged fuck. Ultimately, you need to have a good repertoire of positions you can whip out. Since Friday is national sex day (6/9 – get it?), we thought we’d look at what makes each different position so damn hot.
1. 69
69-ing is a foreplay staple. It’s the best of sucking dick and having your dick sucked, all in one. Plus, the angle is perfect for deepthroating, since your throat lines up perfectly with dicks that have a slight upward curve. If you’re not already warming up with a 69 then you’re missing out!
2. Missionary
Missionary has a reputation for being boring. Sure, it can be a bit vanilla and a bit too romantic for some hookups, but when used at the right moments it can be a great tool in the bedroom. Missionary is great if you want to turn up the passion a little. If you want some intense making out or you want to slow it down. Are you getting too close to orgasm? Switch into missionary and give them a slow, steady fuck that will have them begging for more.
3. Cowboy
You haven’t ridden a dick well until you’ve, well, ridden a dick. Cowboy is one of the positions where a bottom can really take control. He can control how fast the fuck is, and put on a little show for his top. You can ride the top’s dick aggressively, or slow it down a bit to tease them. The power is in the bottom’s hand (or in this case, ass).
4. Reverse Cowboy
Reverse Cowboy is the more scenic view. It appeals to the top’s fascination by the fact that his cock is inside of his bottom. He can watch the tight hole wrap around the cock, stretch and pull a little as his partner straddles and rides him. From the bottom’s perspective, there’s something so sexy about showing off your hole and what it can do.
5. Doggy Style
Arguably one of the less intimate positions, doggy style is great for a good, hard pounding. The top can grip his bottom’s hips and really get in there. The bottom gets to show off their sexy arched back, and also gets to be dominated a little. A great way to switch up this position is for the bottom to put their chest against the bed, with their ass still in the air, or for the top to kneel on one knee and have one foot flat on the bed.
6. Standing
This position is height dependant. It can be tough to pull off if there is a huge difference between the two parties (or more). But, when the proportions work out, it can be extremely sexy. The top can have a solid footing to thrust from, and the bottom can easily control how deeply they get pounded based on how they position their body. If you want to make it even sexier, stand in front of a mirror.
7. Reverse Bulldog
This position isn’t easy to perfect. It requires a bit of effort and a bit more coordination. But, if you do it just right, you can find the sweet spot in someone’s ass. By reversing the way that a dick usually hits the prostate, you can hit new, sensitive areas that are just as pleasurable.
8. Double-Ended Dildo
You didn’t think we’d keep this list vanilla, did you? Why not celebrate National Sex Day by bringing some toys into the bedroom. A double ended dildo is a great way for two bottoms, or two vers people, or for that matter – one vers person and one bottom, to enjoy prostate pleasure together. Figuring out how to use a double ended dildo is a bit of a learning curve, but it’s well worth it. It’s pretty damn hot when you do it right!
9. Fusion
Sometimes you’re doing the classic Cowboy, and the bottom needs to readjust his legs. By putting his weight and balance on his feet, he can leverage his weight to better ride dick. The top also gains more control of his thrusts, so you can really go hard in this position. Fusion combines the visual stimulation for the top by watching his dick slide into the hole (depending on how you position yourself) with the mobility of other positions, like Missionary or Doggy style.
10. Spit-Roast
For this one you’ll need to bring a friend. Spit-roasting is the total bottom’s dream. It’s the cloud 9 of cum lovers. It’s name is pretty indicative of what it entails, but basically it involves sucking dick while being pounded doggy style. It’s hot for all parties. The top gets to see a sexy ass and back, while watching a blowjob. The blowjob receiver gets to see a horny guy’s mouth around his cock while his ass ripples from getting plowed. Lastly, the bottom gets to enjoy the two things he loves most: sucking cock and riding cock.
Which of these positions have you tried? Leave a comment down below!
