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As gay men, we’re fortunate that sex toys don’t carry as much stigma as they do for our straight counterparts. Many of us grew up as the “Samantha” of our friend group, and it shows. Gay sex toys should be fun, not messy and complicated.
But I had no clue about what was out there…which is why I decided to write a review of the best gay sex toys for 2024.
Let’s start with a preview of the top 10 sex toys for gay men:
Want more gay sex toys? Let’s dive in deeper, pun intended.
First Things First, What Makes a Sex Toy “Gay”?
Colloquially speaking, some toys are classified as “gay,” and some are “straight.” (And some might be a little bi-curious, [like you?])
Some of the best gay sex toys are often designed for anal stimulation. One of the most powerful orgasms you will ever have is when you massage the prostate gland directly using one of our reviewed prostate massagers.
Of course, gay, bi, or straight men can all use an anal sex toy. Everyone assigned male at birth is born with a prostate gland, and it seems like a shame to let that big batch of sensitive nerve endings go to waste!
Prostate milking is intense!
And, of course, many of these gay sex toys are also designed for penis stimulation too. For example, there are “gay” fleshlights designed to mimic buttholes rather than vaginas.
Here Are the Top 14 Gay Sex Toys in 2024
When it comes to anal play for gay men, the Aneros Helix Syn Trident did not disappoint.
The top-selling anal sex toy is designed to find, press, and start stimulation on your “P-spot” or prostate in just seconds. Simply lube up, insert the toy into the rectum, and clench your anal muscles to feel extra pressure.
The toy is designed to be completely hands-free while also providing anal stimulation in 4 erogenous zones: the anus entryway, perineum, prostate, and PC muscles.
Like the shaft part of the sex toy, the front and back “arms” not only provide vibrating stimulation but also serve as a flared base for safety.
Experience toe-curling prostate orgasms like never before.
The Lovense Gush tip massager is a vibrating penis massager which operates via remote control. Let the arms of the Gush envelope your penis tip and enjoy a hands-free experience.
The Gush has ten different vibrating speeds for your personalized comfort. Along with its adjustable arms, you also get an optional band for additional tightness, which is similar to cock rings.
Use it solo or torture a partner till they squirm. We love to see it.
● A spiraling variation of the STU Fleshlight design
● Nice tight butt exterior
● $70
GayVN Award-winner Joey Millsis a twink porn star and has a youthful body with a boyish charm. His “electric sensation” Fleshlight sleeve is a spiraling variation of the Stamina Training Unit, with snug stimulation chambers filled with pleasure nubs.
You can’t have a conversation about porn star Johnny Sins without talking about his 8.5-inch penis and testicles – and that’s what Fleshlight has created. The Johnny Sins Fleshjack Dildo is modeled after Johnny’s own “Johnson” and is a king among gay sex toys.
Can you take it all? Are you the throat goat? Make Kim proud.
● Firmer arms for the stimulation of erogenous zones
● “Kundalini” K-tab targets your lower back
● $60
The Aneros Progasm Ice is another prostate massager built for anal play, but one built with a fancier chrome-style shine and firmer and rounder flared arms.
The unique design makes it effective in targeting the erogenous zones, like the perineum, testicles, and anus. But the Kundalini “K-Tab is a special addition that sends shivers up your spine!
6. Lovense Max 2 – Most Interactive Male Sleeve Sex Toy
Key Features
● 360 auto-rotating sleeve
● Can sync with other sex toys
● $130
The Lovense Max 2 improves upon the basic sex sleeve design and makes it more interactive, thanks to Bluetooth connectivity, as well as a 360-degree contractions feature.
Whereas other buzzing sleeves vibrate in the same spot, the Lovense Max finds a way to surround your shaft and tip and give it a complete 360-angle massage.
Brent Corrigan is a fairly young and muscular gay porn star, and his Fleshjack toy is modeled after his butt. It has the interior of the popular Fleshlight Bliss texture.
If you’ve ever wanted to have your way with Brent, now’s the time!
The Lelo Hugo is one of the smaller prostate massagers, but it makes up for it in power. Not one but two motors, one on the shaft and one on the base, power the Hugo 2.
The design allows for hands-free operation or easy couple’s play. The app offers four default vibrations or six extra patterns.
You’ll be shaking around on the bed. Trust me, I know.
10. Lovense Edge 2 – Best of the Gay Toys for Online Play
Key Features
● Fun online multiplayer action
● Adjustable shaft for better angles
● Music sync vibrations with the app
● $99
A whole world of online fun is waiting out there, and the Lovense Edge enhances that experience. Two-way interactivity with partners is a blast, and you can even use the toy when going on gay cam-to-cam sites.
The shaft/head is also highly flexible and adjustable for better angles.
I’m just “nuts” about the Lelo F1S V2 masturbator toy. This is an electronic sex sleeve that uses Sensonic Technology, combining sleeve sensation and vibration with sonic waves. The Cruise Control option lets you customize rhythms and feelings you like.
If you want a gay sex toy that’s giving sci-fi realness, look no further.
The Lovense Sex Machine is a powerful motorized sex toy that “thrusts” a dildo at a speed of 300 strokes per minute. You can even put bi-directional dildos on the sex machine and adjust the speed and positioning using an app.
Whether you’re training for anal sex or just love getting your prostate pounded, it doesn’t get much more intense than this.
Manuel Ferrara has a distinctly European charm, and now the porn star is available in sex toy form. His Fleshjack dildo is made from body-safe SuperSkin material and measures up to the real deal.
The LELO Loki Wave 2 is a prostate massager sex toy with 12 pleasure settings, letting you choose between a soft finger-like tease and a stronger pulse. The e-sex toy is also waterproof and safe even to take inside the shower with you.
It also has a “come hither” motion that sensually strokes your prostate, milking you dry. Get into it.
Lube is essential to use during any form of anal sex or anal play because of the risk of damaging sensitive tissue if you go in rough and dry.
For the safest anal play, choose high-quality water-based lube, as it’s completely safe to use and has fewer “interactions” than silicone or oil-based lubricants do.
Silicone-based lube can destroy silicone sex toys,and oil-based lube can destroy latex condoms, so thick water-based lube is an excellent general all-around for gay sex toys.
You’re welcome.
How Do I Clean Gay Sex Toys?
Most gay sex toys can be easily cleaned using warm water and antibacterial soap.
However, some materials (such as Fleshjacks) are sensitive to soaps. In that case, you need to use water immediately after use and a soap-free cleanser.
To be sure, check the gay sex toy’s instructions… especially if it’s an electronic toy or made from an unusual material like wood or glass.
Conclusion – Best Sex Toys for Gay Men
Now you know some of the top-selling prostate massagers and masturbators for gay men. But the real question is, which gay sex toys are best for you?
In my opinion, the Aneros Helix Syn Tridentwas the best technology for the price. I found the Aneros brand of gay toys to be the most sophisticated, easy to operate, and really the toy to beat in 2024.
Why not try a new set of gay toys this month and experience the magic for yourself?
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Whatever kind of sex you’re into, we all know that not all lubes are equal. But when it comes to fisting, making sure that you’re equipped with the right lube is absolutely essential.
Grease up and let’s get into it.
What is gay fisting?
Gay fisting is when a hand goes into the butt. It sounds relatively straightforward but it’s not something that you can rush into – you’re going to need a fair bit of patience, a bit of knowledge and experience, and plenty of lube.
Why is lube necessary for fisting during gay sex?
Unless you’re a self-lubricating anal king, a guy’s butt does not work in the same way as a vagina does. You might be able to get away with some spit and enthusiasm when you’re getting fucked, but most of us are very familiar with slathering on the lube before taking a hot uncut bareback cock up the ass.
The reason we use lube for anal sex is to reduce friction and make it as enjoyable as possible for everyone. The same principle applies for fisting – you need to reduce friction.
What is the danger of fisting without lube?
If you don’t use enough lube when you’re fisting, whoever is getting fisted is likely to experience pain, discomfort, and possibly injury.
You’ll also get frustrated because you won’t be able to get the fist into the hole.
What makes fisting so satisfying?
It’s perhaps difficult to understand until you’ve done it, but fisting someone and being fisted is perhaps one of the most intimate things you can do – it’s one of the most intimate ways that two men can connect.
What makes fisting particularly satisfying for the fistee is the intensity of the physical sensations that are rocking your body as a big hand stretches your hole to its limit.
As our travel slut Phil mentioned in his big Darklands 2024 adventure, fisting had its very own event spot at this dance and sex party, and with Phil’s experience of a fisting teacher in Berlin – a great pickup line, by the way – some people take their dedication to fisting and their capability as fisters very seriously.
What Type of Lube Should I Use for Fisting?
What you’re looking for is lube that enables a smoother, easier penetration as the hand works its way into the hole.
Maintaining viscosity is also essential – you want lube that continues to aid the gliding in and out. If the lube dries out or goes sticky while you are fisting then you risk tearing or irritating the sensitive internal lining of your butt.
Should I use Water Based Lube for Fisting?
The benefits of water-based lube is that it is easy to clean up and is safe to use with sex-toys. However the down-side is that water-based lube loses viscosity quite quickly and you are going to need a lot of it if you’re going to make your fisting enjoyable.
Is silicon-based lube good for gay fisting play
Silicon-based lube is generally a good option for fisting because it will stay lubricating for longer – maximising smooth glide and durability.
The downside of silicone-based lubes is that clean-up is harder – they can stain anything they come into contact with so you’re going to need to put down some towels or a waterproof sheet so you can really get down to business.
Can I use Vaseline or petroleum for lube when fisting?
Petroleum-based products such as Vaseline are not recommended for fisting because they’re more likely to irritate your body.
Traditionally, petroleum-based products also aren’t compatible with safe sex with a condom because they can compromise the integrity of the latex.
Should I use a concentrated powder lube for fisting?
If you’re seriously into fisting, you might want to explore powdered lube.
This is a concentrated version of lube in a powdered form – you need to mix it with water to get the consistency required to get the fist in the hole.
Mixing your own lube takes time – it doesn’t lend itself to spontaneous fisting hookups. But if you are planning ahead and getting organised for a major fisting session, then this could be the lube that you’re looking for – not only are they effective for reducing friction but they’re also good value for money.
