Valentine’s Day is surrounded by a lot of hype. If you have a significant other then you are expected to buy the gifts, do the gestures, and get the flowers. If you don’t, then you have a few more options. You can live an exciting night a single person, live a boring night as a single person, or a very sad night as a single person. Ultimately, Valentine’s Day can only go so many ways. Here are 5 kinds of day you could be having this February 14th:

1. The Romantic Evening

This is for the taken guys out there. You and your partner go for dinner, exchange cards, and hopefully at some point get some love making in. Every year, sex advice columnist Dan Savage gives an important piece of advice: fuck first. Before you go for dinner, before the romantic evening begins, have sex. Otherwise, once you’ve filled yourselves with food and wine, you may be too exhausted to fuck. This can put a damper on the evening – especially if one of you is in the mood, but the other isn’t. So before you go out to eat, eat some ass!

2. The Hookup

You’re not looking for a lovey dovey evening. But you wouldn’t mind a little company. Loneliness isn’t just romantic. Some days you just need a good fuck – and Valentine’s Day is no exception. Plenty of guys will turn to Squirt.org today looking to get lucky. It doesn’t have to be intimate. It can be a raunchy, steamy one-time encounter. Celebrate the 14th with a good 69.

3. The Cruise

Sometimes you don’t want to go through the chitchat required to arrange a hookup. You have to comb through profiles, get a dialogue going, and swap pictures. With cruising you can skip all of that. Just make eye contact, whip out your cock, and get right to it. Some of your best options for Valentine’s day are the bathhouse, the gym, and porn theatres.

4. The Threesome

This applies largely to couples, although single guys – today is a great day for menage-a-trois too. What’s a better gift to your partner than bringing home a sexy stud who is ready to suck their cock? If you want to make it extra special, have the guy be ready, naked, and wearing a bow. Disclaimer: this probably isn’t a good idea unless you’ve openly discussed a threesome before. But, it’s a great idea if you have!

5. The Solo

When it comes down to it, Valentine’s Day is just like any other day. So maybe you’ll treat yourself to some good food, watch some good TV, then rub one out. If you do feel like spicing up your jerk off, you can always cam with someone. Enter one of the Squirt.org video chat rooms and show off what you’ve got, all from the comfort of your own bedroom. But, if you just want to enjoy yourself and your own sexy body, then there is no better day for some self love!

Which kind of Valentine’s Day will you be having?

Today is National Make a Friend Day, but don’t make just any kind of friend; make a new friend with benefits. Fuck buddies represent the best of both worlds. You get the casual component of traditional friendships, mixed with the consistent sex and intimacy of a relationship – no messy strings attached. Today is the perfect day to log in to your Squirt.org and pick up a hot guy. Here’s why:

1. You get laid. A lot.

Relationships can get stale, boring, and dry. Friends with benefits maintain a distance that keeps the sex interesting. You don’t feel suffocated, or like you owe the other person anything. This keeps hooking up exciting. You can spice things up without worrying about how your decisions in bed will affect the rest of your relationship – because you don’t have one!

2. You’re not exclusive. So you can fool around with others.

Why order one main meal when you can have a buffet? Having a friend with benefits means you don’t owe them your full, undivided sexual attention. You can fuck them one day then go blow somebody else the next. You have freedom. The world is your oyster, full of pearl necklaces to be had.

3. Fuck buddies are more open to threesomes.

Everyone needs to have a threesome at some point in their life. It’s a staple of every gay or bi man’s bucket list – and yours is no exception! Who do you think would be more open to a threesome – your boyfriend or your fuck buddy? Think of it this way – who is less likely to get jealous? I thought so.

4. Fuck buddies cum and go.

There’s no big break up. There’s no drama in your personal life. They don’t show up at your workplace unannounced. Fuck buddies are a low maintenance way to let out some sexual energy on the regular. And if you’re not feeling it, you can easily just move along.

5. You have better sex.

Finding someone you’re both emotionally and sexually compatible with is hard. It’s a lot easier to find someone you’re just sexually compatible with, and leave the emotional bullshit for later. Eventually you might choose to settle on the sexual front in favour for an emotional connection, but right now you can just enjoy finding someone who pleases you like no one else can.

It’s not too late to find a fuck buddy. Log in to squirt.org and meet someone new.

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