In this day and age, all you wanna do is jerk off and have some fun! Watching porn is a fundamental right and the easiest way to get off when you have a phone screen, and you and your hand tonight. 

However, some governments are making it harder to have a good, legitimate, and age-appropriate time alone, as evidenced by the challenge to Age ID verification in the US Supreme Court, which the Supreme Court has upheld despite the problematic elements to individual freedoms. Meaning that any chance of keeping what you’re browsing private without showing your ID to an online entity has become much more complex.

Our last VPN 101 article discussed the reasons you should use a VPN, including this law, but now, we’re breaking down six trusted VPN brands that you can go with to keep the stroking action going. Let’s get into it.

Why Use a VPN to Access Gay Porn?

As we mentioned in our previous article, there are two main reasons why VPNs have become hugely popular in the internet age.

Firstly, it’s a way of concealing what you’ve been looking at online. For example, if you don’t want your browser history to document that you’ve been searching for hot submissive horny femboys, a VPN will help keep your secrets.

Second, VPNs can help people bypass censorship by making it appear as though they are accessing restricted content from a country where it is not banned.

Does It Matter If I Use a VPN Provider Based in the US Versus Another Country

Yes, it does matter; while we aren’t legal experts, countries in systems like Five Eyes, Nine Eyes, or Fourteen Eyes (including the US) may have government laws that could force you to hand over your data, whether you like it or not.

Yes, a VPN headquartered in a privacy-friendly country means that country’s strong privacy laws could benefit you. 

This is why, on this list, we recommend only VPNs based in those countries or VPNs with strong encryption practices to help you make the right decision.

What Are the List of the Best Privacy-Focused VPN Countries to Consider When Browsing Gay Porn?

We get it, if you’re browsing some kinky gay porn and you’re investing in a VPN, you want it to work. 

And sure, a hot and horny gay orgy full of consenting adults isn’t a crime, but considering a VPN is all about futureproofing your innocent jerk off sessions, in case someone later decides to tell you it is a crime.

For optimal privacy, consider the following countries when evaluating a VPN purchase, as these are the countries where the VPN company should be based.

Switzerland

We discussed the Five Eyes, Nine Eyes, and Fourteen Eyes above, and Switzerland is not part of any of these alliances. Additionally, with its robust privacy laws, there’s a reason why many banking, securities, and VPN clients are based in this country.

Romania

As an EU Country, and with the 2014 historic decision that the European Union’s Court of Justice has ruled that a directive authorizing the retention of data was unjust, Romania also is deemed a reliable place for VPN server locations, and for good security laws that make it hard for your data to be accessed later.

Panama

With no data-retention laws and strong privacy protections, it’s no surprise that many VPN companies have their headquarters in Panama, where they can protect their business and your data.

British Virgin Islands (BVI)

Similar to Panama, BVI has no logging or data retention requirements, making it a haven for VPN servers and companies to protect your data.

Iceland

Not just a place for beautiful stars, mountains, and refreshing mountain air, with no formal alliances with countries, pro-privacy laws, and Iceland’s Data Protection Authority (DPA) consistently challenges authorities to relinquish data, it’s a great place to watch porn, we believe. We love a dominant force in the bedroom, but standing up to federal courts is also a boner-maker, too.

Singapore

In Singapore, the PDPA is the Personal Data Protection Act 2012, which regulates the collection, use, and disclosure of personal data. Part of the Act places a strong emphasis on the ability to opt out of data collection, making it a favourable country for hosting VPN services.

Norway

Norway is another country with strong privacy laws and high judicial oversight, which is a fancy way of saying that the laws prioritize the rights of citizens over those of corporations or entities. 

One company that falls within our recommendations is based in Norway, due to its advanced technology and these laws. Read on!

Given the Above, What VPN Companies Do You Recommend to Browse Gay Porn?

Given the above details and why you should seek a VPN for your viewing pleasures, let’s get into the top, notable brands that made our list of top VPN providers.

Varying in price, individual reviews and each having their pros and cons, we chose these for their availability and notability in the market (for those who use VPNs regularly already), and also the fact that they mention they are hosted or run their servers in many of the “haven” countries we mentioned above. Let’s get into the list.

NordVPN

Developed by a team of Lithuanian developers and legally based in Panama, the company is incorporated in the Netherlands. It has a global presence, with offices in Lithuania and the UK. 

While some users report hit-or-miss experiences with NordVPN, the tech is solid and reliable, even with a steeper price tag than most (but good introductory deals for those who shop with savvy).

They’ve also introduced post-quantum encryption for VPN users, which sounds fancy, but essentially, for an end-consumer, it means a VPN option that ensures a future, scary-smart computer (we’re looking at you AI; hot gay AI porn now, yes, but bad reputation of maybe taking over the world in sci-fi movies, later) couldn’t potentially hack your data.

When you think of bad actors using your data for harm, you’re probably thinking your gay porn history will be the last of your concerns, but really, using a VPN for all types of online activities means any hackers getting a complete profile of who you are is mitigated. 

Don’t just stop at porn, use the power of good VPN technology for all everyday web things.

Surfshark

Whether it’s your fave YouTuber plugging this brand in a sponsored post or you’ve seen a promo code or referral link floating around, Surfshark is a Netherlands-headquartered VPN (with roots in Lithuania) offering robust privacy and security tools. 

Their introductory pricing makes them a competitive choice, and their location also makes them an alluring option for securing your privacy.

Proton VPN

A secure, privacy-focused virtual private network developed by the team behind Proton Mai, which is already very privacy-focused.

Based in Switzerland—known for strong privacy laws—Proton VPN offers strong encryption, a no-logs policy, and advanced features like Secure Core (routing traffic through multiple servers) and NetShield (ad and malware blocking). 

It supports streaming, torrenting, and access to censored content, so much so that they even have a whole page on bypassing censorship, so we know they are allies in finding ways to look at gay smut on your own time and your devices without harm or unnecessary intervention.

Express VPN

Founded in 2009 and now operated by Kape Technologies, ExpressVPN is based in the British Virgin Islands (BVI)—a jurisdiction renowned for its privacy-friendly nature, characterized by the absence of data-retention laws and no major surveillance alliances.

CyberGhost VPN

A privacy-focused VPN service based in Romania, a country with no mandatory data-retention laws, making it a strong jurisdiction for digital privacy. Launched in 2011, it’s now part of Kape Technologies (also behind ExpressVPN and Private Internet Access).

OVPN

Operates physical, diskless (RAM-only) servers in Oslo, Norway, providing strong data security and fast speeds.

But wait, are RAM-only servers critical? Yes! However, while those in high-security jobs or environments prefer these servers, they might not be needed for everyone.

Still, these servers boot entirely from RAM and don’t use hard drives, meaning none of your data is logged onto physical media that could be compromised, shared, or hacked later.

With everything wiped from the start, or never logged to begin with, it makes it an excellent choice when you’re firing up multiple tabs of smut in your browser.

Are you into fisting? It’s not for everyone, but there’s something incredibly intimate about being fisted or being able to sink your fist into a guy’s ass – it’s the ultimate trust exercise.

Let’s take a look at the allure of fisting and how you can level up your fisting fun.

Why Do Gay Men Fist?

“Fisting isn’t for everyone…” advises Luka Sage – a certified fisting specialist. “It’s not something that everyone has to try. But if it is something that you’re interested in trying, you should definitely research it and learn about it before making an attempt. If you like the feeling of being stretched out, or if you’re into really big dicks, or big dildos, or depth play, then it’s probably something you might want to take a look at.”

How do I navigate my first gay fisting experience?

There are lots of factors at play when you’re navigating a fisting session – different aspects of the experience will appeal to different guys, depending on what pushes your buttons.

Extreme anal stimulation is definitely one of the main drivers. If you’ve been working your way up the dildo sizes, doing your gay anal training sessions, or you’re with a guy and a few fingers or a girthy dick ain’t enough anymore, a fist is definitely going to be on your to-do list.

If you’re watching a lot of fisting porn and your hole is aching to be worked over like the fist-pigs on your screen, then anal stimulation and a good rectum punch are going to be high on your wish list.

Why else do guys engage in gay fisting sex play?

Control and submission is another important aspect of fisting that appeals to a lot of guy. If you are giving a guy the green light to grease up his fists and get to work ruining your cunt, then that’s a pretty big deal. The power dynamic that’s at play is pretty intoxicating for everyone involved, and it’s hard not to consider the gay BDSM and power plays happening when you’re giving and receiving a good ol’ fist.

Intimacy is another thing that lots of fisting experts will talk about.

Plain old barebacking can sometimes feel a bit transactional – fuck, cum, go. But fisting is a whole other ball game. You’ve got to be a bit slower with fisting; you need a fair bit of communication when you’re fisting; the foreplay and initial stretch to the final goal is there. Plus, you’re also getting lots of eye contact. There’s possibly nothing quite as romantic as being fisted.

Is Fisting Dangerous?

Some people describe fisting as a bit of an extreme sexual sport – a pursuit that inevitably comes with some risks.

While it’s true that if fisting goes wrong, then you can do some damage but that is pretty much true of anything that you tackle.

Your body copes surprisingly well with having a guy’s fist stretching out your sphincter. There’s nothing inherently bad about fisting – you’re not going to do your body any long-term damage. Your sphincter is totally used to stretching and contracting as the situation requires.

The main risks associated with fisting are when you’re not using enough lube, or you’re taking things too fast.

It’s a good idea to be sober when you’re fisting. If you’re intoxicated on something, then you won’t be as in tune with your body if something starts to hurt or feels uncomfortable. As we mentioned above, fisting is an intimate experience, so you want to be present. Drugs and alcohol may make you loose and ready, but may also lead to you not picking up when a love fist becomes one of anger. If you have Rocky going to town on you like you’re Apollo, and you’re inebriated, it could be bad news.

How Do I Practice Fisting Before Gay Sex?

It’s pretty much impossible to have a conversation at a gay bar without someone giving you anal sex tips, but if you’re a bit fist-curious, then here are some easy steps to get you started.

Slow and steady wins the race

Before you take a fist up your ass, you’re going to need to practice, and you’re going to need to research. Get comfortable with ass play. Watch lots of fisting porn – get a feel for how fisting works.

Of course, if you’ve never bottomed before, fisting may seem like a foreign curiosity. But if you’re into it, get going with some gay dildo play at home, phone a friend for some fingers, and eventually get to that point where the whole hand eventually is just a familiar pleasure choice.

Become a size queen

Reinforcing the above, make sure that you’re feeling confident about taking a fist by slowly working your way up in the size of the dildos that you’re bouncing on. Think about girth – that’s what is probably going to test you the most.

Fisting foreplay

If you’re ready for some fisting fun, grab that partner and their helping hand, and don’t forget to warm everything up with some extended foreplay. You want to feel relaxed, you want to feel turned on, and you want your fuck-hole twitching in expectation of being properly worked over.

Lube it up

Fisting specialists will generally have a unique fisting lube brand and mixes that they swear by. If you’re starting, you’re probably still experimenting with the different lube options. The basic rule is to use plenty of lube. Really go to town with the grease and ensure everything is sliding smoothly. When it comes to fisting, there’s no such thing as being too liberal.

First Time Fisting with a Friend? Follow These Tips.

Because of the intimacy required by fisting, you generally want to make sure that you’re doing it with someone that you know and trust.

A fuck-buddy is ideal because you’ve already established that you work together sexually, and then adding fisting into the mix is taking things that step further.

You need to keep reminding yourself to take it slow. Sure, the experts in fisting porn are taking a guy’s arm up to the elbow like it’s nothing. It’s not a competition. Just do what feels right for you.

Communication is absolutely vital. That doesn’t mean that you have to give a running commentary on the experience—your communication may be mostly nonverbal. But use plenty of eye contact. Let him know when you’re feeling good and when you need to slow down or take a break.

Written by Gareth Johnson