What we gain, and lose, when a queer party goes sober

-

It’s bodies—sweaty, glittered, exposed—writhing under disco lights. It’s cruising at half-lit bars, sending eyes at someone across a sticky panelled floor. It’s queer bowling teams, T4T speed dating, “gaymer” nights. Even daytime socializing—run clubs and sports leagues—comes with the promise, or rather incentive, of rubbing elbows when the sun goes down.

The spaces these events happen in—bars, clubs, converted warehouses—have a close association with drugs and alcohol. It’s access that we’re certainly taking advantage of. According to the national non-profit Community-Based Research Centre’s Sex Now survey, the largest health survey of queer and trans people in Canada, more than three quarters of 2024 respondents say they’ve engaged with substances in the past six months… read more.

Xtra has you covered with weekly LGBTQ2S+ stories and a breakdown of the news currently impacting LGBTQ2S+ communities around the world.


I had a threesome with my monogamous partner, and it couldn’t have been better

There’s more than one route into opening a relationship—waiting for the perfect moment is a good way to start

Read more


Changing health landscape poses a questionable future for HIV organizations

With the closure of the AIDS Committee of Toronto, public health experts are wondering if this is the beginning of the end for HIV service organizations in Canada

Read more


Latest on Going Xtra Deep

No one knows what ‘masculinity’ is, but it’s killing us

Whether or not we as queer people believe in that kind of “masculinity,” or aspire to it, it’s gunning for us. In the hopes...

What’s your gay travel tribe?

It doesn’t matter if you’re a Gemini, a Scorpio or even if you’ve got a moon rising. That’s not going to help you find...

The ‘secret Sauce’ Behind Salty Travels’ Tours for Queer Black Men

Jay Flynn’s mom used to take his family on trips all over the world. He remembers a trip to Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, when...

How exactly to navigate a gay travel mecca

If you’ve been out for any time at all, your friends and acquaintances have told you about them, or perhaps photos of them have...
- Advertisement -
- Advertisement -

You Might Also Like

- Advertisement -

Popular Posts

UMMMM… WOW!!!!

Squirt Studios: Hair Trap

- Advertisement -