Something about a muscle daddy just hits different. Especially when he’s strutting around with that thick meat swinging and alpha energy oozing out of every photo. Farm Dad doesn’t just play the role — he nails it — and that’s why he’s our latest Model of the Day. His content is raw, dominant, and sure to make you cum. Whether he’s cruising, gooning, or fucking, like we said, he nails it! Check out the interview, and scroll for the pics and videos that prove exactly why we’re obsessed!
How did you get started creating sexy content? At 42, I would like to think I’ve been at the forefront of the internet as an adult and sexy content venue. I started on CompuServe and AOL and have progressed to platforms like Twitter and onlyfans. My adult content really started in 2023 when I was encouraged by others.
What is the hottest piece of content you’ve created? The hottest piece of content I’ve created so far it’s really hard to judge because I find some of them hot in different ways. I would say recently my collab with @austinlacrosse2 was very hot because we flipped.
Where is your favourite place to go cruising? Before Grindr and scruff, I used to cruise the parks all the time. Like I said I was kind of an early starter. Nowadays I love to cruise the locker room, the sauna, and the showers.
What’s your favourite song to fuck to? Country music.
You have your dream dick at a glory hole for 15 minutes: what are you doing? I’m not really big on sucking dick. But I’ll definitely get it nice and wet before I turn around push back on it. To be honest so I’m worried about the connection of sex than I am about the Anon side.
What’s the most unconventional place you’ve hooked up at? Burger King restroom.
What’s your sexy superpower? I think my sexy superpower is just turning into a different person when it’s time to go. That person’s dominant controlling great at what they do.
If you were a lube, what flavor would you be? Flavored lube is disgusting so I’d be lube flavored.
You can only have one sex toy on a deserted island: which one are you bringing? Pocket pussy, for sure.
None of us really has a “normal” relationship with food. Whether we’re counting calories, or trying to lose weight or gain muscle mass, our low-level body anxiety distorts our perception of what a balanced diet looks like and tends suck the joy out of every meal.
But what if your relationship with food somehow connected with your sexual kinks and turn-ons?
At the vanilla end of that spectrum is probably something like licking whipped cream of a guy’s body – pretty much something that everyone could get on board with, unless you’re lactose-intolerant.
Food often features in the sploshing or gunge kink scene – smearing something wet and sticky all over your body is slutty and horny. Do I want to watch you squishing custard donuts between your thighs? Absolutely.
At the more extreme end of the food-as-kink spectrum is where you’ll find feeders. It’s extreme in the sense that it’s perhaps the most difficult to unpack psychologically, but we’re going to give it a go.
What is a Feeder or Weight Gain Kink?
Whether you describe it as a kink or a sexual preference or fetish isn’t really important, but there’s a definitely sexual edge to this food-based power-dynamic.
A feeder kink is all about gaining weight – gorging on food in order to gain weight.
This can be a solo endeavour – you can be turned on by feeding yourself and watching yourself grow.
More commonly, it takes two to tango – a feeder and a feedee. The sexual arousal is in play for both parties – the feeder is turned on by helping their partner gain weight, and the feedee is turned on by gaining weight. Both of you are also turned on by the elements of domination and submission that characterise a feeder/feedee relationship.
Beyond that, there aren’t really any rules to how this kink operates on a day-to-day basis. For example, your boyfriend might be a horny skinny twink who strokes his own Hot Dog while you feed him a chorizo – you’re both getting turned-on by watching him gain weight, you’re both turned-on by the control you have over him.
Like many gay BDSM relationships, for those who are into a feeder kink, it’s all about control – but you don’t need bondage and gags, food is your weapon of choice.
What’s the appeal of a Feeder Kink?
If you’re drawn to the power dynamics of domination and submission, there’s a broad range of BDSM scenes that you could throw yourself into, so why would you be inclined to explore a feeder kink?
If you’re the feedee, you’re responding to being controlled, to being submissive. While lots of guys pursue gay submissive experiences in relationships or gay hookups, there is something liberating in having decisions about food taken out of your hands. It is a regression role-play to some extent – you’re a big baby who just eats whatever is served to you. You don’t need to worry about anything.
If you’re the feeder, there is a clear nurturing aspect to your power dynamic. You are taking care of your feeder. They rely on you, they depend on you, they need you. There is nothing more nurturing than food.
Is a Feeder Kink Dangerous or an Eating Disorder?
Physically, a feeder kink is only as dangerous as the participants allow it to be. Like all sexual encounters, informed, sober consent should be the foundation of a feeder/feedee dynamic. There should be a clear safe-word in place or some mechanism that keeps everyone on the same page.
Psychologically, it’s a bit more complicated. If your sexual arousal pushes you to eat yourself to obesity, your relationship with food is likely to be a little problematic. Conversely, if feeding someone is your sexual turn-on, where is your head at in terms of nutrition and healthy eating?
Ultimately, these are two adults consenting to explore a power dynamic that appeals to them both. We don’t kink-shame here.
Does a Feeder Kink Have to Translate Into a Force Feeding Kink?
Force-feeding does feature in some feeder/feedee relationships, but you can explore a feeder kink without using force-feeding.
It’s the two people involved in the relationship that set the boundaries and the rules of how the feeder kink is going to work – they’re the ones that have consented to it. If that includes force-feeding, then that’s what they’ve both signed up for.
If force-feeding wasn’t agreed upon then that’s an example of when the safe-word should be used so that the boundaries can be discussed and adjusted as required.
If discussion of boundaries isn’t possible then that isn’t a healthy BDSM relationship and the parties should go their separate ways.
How Do I Know If I Am Into a Gaining Kink?
If you’re asking the question then it’s a pretty good indication that there’s something about this kink that has got your attention.
Take some time to reflect on what aspects of the kink appeal to you. Do you visualise yourself as dominant and taking control and feeding someone, or do you visualise yourself as submissive and wanting someone to feed you?
Put the technology to work and use a hook-up app like Squirt to let guys know what you’re looking for. Make it clear in your bio what role you’re looking to explore. It’s okay to be upfront that you’re new to the kink but interested in exploring – don’t pretend to be someone that you’re not.
If this is a kink that you’ve got some experience in, slide into our DMs and share your insights. We don’t kink-shame here.
West Hollywood is the land of the free, home of the gays, and quite possibly the only zip code in the US where you can order a Hailey Bieber smoothie, get rimmed in a public park, and still make it to drag brunch by noon.
This city isn’t just a place, it’s a vibe. While outsiders think Weho is all reality stars, drag queens, and overpriced cocktails, those of us who live and thrive here know the truth; beneath the rhinestones and circuit parties lies a rich blend of community and, well, some of the best damn cruising in the country.
Let’s not play coy, being gay in West Hollywood is hot like “shirtless waiting in line for coffee”-hot. The entire neighborhood is a buffet of beautiful men with bodies so sculpted you’d think John Reed (gym in Weho) was running a “clone a gay BOGO”.
While the gym is cute and the bars are fun, the real WeHo action happens after dark or frankly, anytime, anywhere with a bit of help from our local hero, Squirt.org.
If you’re not on Squirt, get on it. It’s like Grindr’s older, dirtier brother. The one who skips the small talk knows how to find a public cruising bathroom with a lock and has receipts. We’re talking cruising, reviews of popular hook-up spots, and real-time updates on who’s lurking in the Pavilions parking lot.
Spoiler Alert! It’s probably someone you’ve already hooked up with…
How Can Gay Hookup App Squirt Help Me Gay Cruise in West Hollywood?
In West Hollywood, cruising isn’t just a hobby; it’s practically a sport. There are the classic spots like the Racquetball wall at Poinsettia Park, the shadows behind Plummer Park’s community center, or the delightfully discreet bushes behind OutOfTheCloset on Santa Monica.
Don’t act surprised… you’ve walked by and felt the energy, or at least seen the exposed cocks.
Squirt.org acts like your gay GPS. Not only can you see where the action is happening, but you can read reviews of a local gay cruising or hookup spot like:
“Tall Latin daddy with a monster cock showed up in hotel slippers and changed my life.”
or,
“Hit or miss, but got head in the men’s room while waiting for my venti iced chai latte. 4 stars.”
The beauty of cruising in Weho is its spontaneity. You could be going on a walk, wearing a tank top that says “Don’t bully me, I’ll cum,” when you lock eyes with a stranger in the parking lot.
Thirty seconds later, you’re in the backseat of a car, and fifteen minutes later, you’re back on the sidewalk like nothing ever happened. Nobody bats an eye. This is Weho, babe. We’ve seen worse in the line for the bathrooms at The Abbey.
Are Gay Bars and Gay Cruising Bars Good to Find Sex?
Bars here aren’t just for drinking, they’re for scoping out too. That moment when you bump into a guy at Mickys, realize you matched on Squirt last week, and suddenly it’s like you’re in a very horny version of Love Is Blind. Except you can see each other… and you both lied about being verse…
Hooking up in Weho is easy because everyone’s down. There’s no shame. No need for “what are you into?” small talk. It’s a swipe, a nod, a “sup, you hosting?” and boom, you’re inside each other by the time you finally select a movie on Netflix.
The best part? Everyone knows the code or cruising language. From the way someone stands against a tree in a park, to a bathroom door left just slightly ajar, WeHo men speak fluent cruise.
Here’s the thing, beneath all the filthy fun, Weho is still home. It’s the bartender who remembers your name and your go-to drink. It’s the group of gays who gather every Sunday for brunch and walk each other home when one gets too messy. It’s the HIV testing van parked outside HiTops every weekend because we look out for each other, even while we’re inside each other.
There’s an undeniable sense of chosen family here. Yes, people are horny, but they’re also supportive and protective of their own.
You can spend the morning getting railed in a steam room and the afternoon helping a friend plan a fundraiser for queer homeless community members. That’s the duality of Weho. It’s a city that lets you be slutted out but worshipping at church the next day. Where you can bare your hole and your soul.
Where Squirt.org connects you to anonymous fun, it also occasionally leads you to your new best friend… or at least someone who gives great head and even better movie recommendations.
Being gay in West Hollywood is like being in a never-ending Pride parade where everyone’s a little bit horny and always just a tap away from a quickie.
So, toggle Squirt, it is entirely free to sign up. Keep your lips moisturized, your browser in private mode, and your location on, because in Weho, you never know if your next hookup is in a stall, a sauna, or sitting right across from you at brunch, giving you the ‘eyes’.
FRESHMEN: Austin Black is back to remind us just how skilled he is when it comes to bottoming — this time with the handsome and ever-confident Harry Coleman. This striking blond-and-dark-haired duo wastes no time getting down to business.
Harry keeps impressing with his deep-throating and dominant energy, while Austin proves he’s more than ready to match that intensity. Their mutual blowjob quickly escalates into raw, passionate fucking, with Austin eagerly taking every inch of Harry’s thick cock.
Watching the chemistry between these two unfold is pure pleasure — especially when Austin’s blissed-out face takes every last drop of Harry’s explosive finish.
TIM TALES: Gorgeous newcomer ahead! Meet Tiago and get lost into those yellow green eyes. That Colombian muscular hunk is absolutely stunning. And he’s got a thing for huge dicks. So he’s just perfect for Charlie Cherry and his thick Spanish cock.
In this day and age, all you wanna do is jerk off and have some fun! Watching porn is a fundamental right and the easiest way to get off when you have a phone screen, and you and your hand tonight.
However, some governments are making it harder to have a good, legitimate, and age-appropriate time alone, as evidenced by the challenge to Age ID verification in the US Supreme Court, which the Supreme Court has upheld despite the problematic elements to individual freedoms. Meaning that any chance of keeping what you’re browsing private without showing your ID to an online entity has become much more complex.
Our last VPN 101 article discussed the reasons you should use a VPN, including this law, but now, we’re breaking down six trusted VPN brands that you can go with to keep the stroking action going. Let’s get into it.
Firstly, it’s a way of concealing what you’ve been looking at online. For example, if you don’t want your browser history to document that you’ve been searching for hot submissive horny femboys, a VPN will help keep your secrets.
Second, VPNs can help people bypass censorship by making it appear as though they are accessing restricted content from a country where it is not banned.
Does It Matter If I Use a VPN Provider Based in the US Versus Another Country
Yes, it does matter; while we aren’t legal experts, countries in systems likeFive Eyes, Nine Eyes, or Fourteen Eyes (including the US) may have government laws that could force you to hand over your data, whether you like it or not.
Yes, a VPN headquartered in a privacy-friendly country means that country’s strong privacy laws could benefit you.
This is why, on this list, we recommend only VPNs based in those countries or VPNs with strong encryption practices to help you make the right decision.
What Are the List of the Best Privacy-Focused VPN Countries to Consider When Browsing Gay Porn?
We get it, if you’re browsing some kinky gay porn and you’re investing in a VPN, you want it to work.
And sure, a hot and horny gay orgy full of consenting adults isn’t a crime, but considering a VPN is all about futureproofing your innocent jerk off sessions, in case someone later decides to tell you it is a crime.
For optimal privacy, consider the following countries when evaluating a VPN purchase, as these are the countries where the VPN company should be based.
Switzerland
We discussed the Five Eyes, Nine Eyes, and Fourteen Eyes above, and Switzerland is not part of any of these alliances. Additionally, with its robust privacy laws, there’s a reason why many banking, securities, and VPN clients are based in this country.
With no data-retention laws and strong privacy protections, it’s no surprise that many VPN companies have their headquarters in Panama, where they can protect their business and your data.
British Virgin Islands (BVI)
Similar to Panama, BVI has no logging or data retention requirements, making it a haven for VPN servers and companies to protect your data.
In Singapore, the PDPA is the Personal Data Protection Act 2012, which regulates the collection, use, and disclosure of personal data. Part of the Act places a strong emphasis on the ability to opt out of data collection, making it a favourable country for hosting VPN services.
Norway
Norway is another country with strong privacy laws and high judicial oversight, which is a fancy way of saying that the laws prioritize the rights of citizens over those of corporations or entities.
One company that falls within our recommendations is based in Norway, due to its advanced technology and these laws. Read on!
Given the Above, What VPN Companies Do You Recommend to Browse Gay Porn?
Given the above details and why you should seek a VPN for your viewing pleasures, let’s get into the top, notable brands that made our list of top VPN providers.
Varying in price, individual reviews and each having their pros and cons, we chose these for their availability and notability in the market (for those who use VPNs regularly already), and also the fact that they mention they are hosted or run their servers in many of the “haven” countries we mentioned above. Let’s get into the list.
NordVPN
Developed by a team of Lithuanian developers and legally based in Panama, the company is incorporated in the Netherlands. It has a global presence, with offices in Lithuania and the UK.
While some users report hit-or-miss experiences with NordVPN, the tech is solid and reliable, even with a steeper price tag than most (but good introductory deals for those who shop with savvy).
They’ve also introduced post-quantum encryption for VPN users, which sounds fancy, but essentially, for an end-consumer, it means a VPN option that ensures a future, scary-smart computer (we’re looking at you AI; hot gay AI porn now, yes, but bad reputation of maybe taking over the world in sci-fi movies, later) couldn’t potentially hack your data.
When you think of bad actors using your data for harm, you’re probably thinking your gay porn history will be the last of your concerns, but really, using a VPN for all types of online activities means any hackers getting a complete profile of who you are is mitigated.
Don’t just stop at porn, use the power of good VPN technology for all everyday web things.
Surfshark
Whether it’s your fave YouTuber plugging this brand in a sponsored post or you’ve seen a promo code or referral link floating around, Surfshark is a Netherlands-headquartered VPN (with roots in Lithuania) offering robust privacy and security tools.
Their introductory pricing makes them a competitive choice, and their location also makes them an alluring option for securing your privacy.
Proton VPN
A secure, privacy-focused virtual private network developed by the team behind Proton Mai, which is already very privacy-focused.
Based in Switzerland—known for strong privacy laws—Proton VPN offers strong encryption, a no-logs policy, and advanced features like Secure Core (routing traffic through multiple servers) and NetShield (ad and malware blocking).
It supports streaming, torrenting, and access to censored content, so much so that they even have a whole page on bypassing censorship, so we know they are allies in finding ways to look at gay smut on your own time and your devices without harm or unnecessary intervention.
Express VPN
Founded in 2009 and now operated by Kape Technologies, ExpressVPN is based in the British Virgin Islands (BVI)—a jurisdiction renowned for its privacy-friendly nature, characterized by the absence of data-retention laws and no major surveillance alliances.
CyberGhost VPN
A privacy-focused VPN service based in Romania, a country with no mandatory data-retention laws, making it a strong jurisdiction for digital privacy. Launched in 2011, it’s now part of Kape Technologies (also behind ExpressVPN and Private Internet Access).
Operates physical, diskless (RAM-only) servers in Oslo, Norway, providing strong data security and fast speeds.
But wait, are RAM-only servers critical? Yes! However, while those in high-security jobs or environments prefer these servers, they might not be needed for everyone.
Still, these servers boot entirely from RAM and don’t use hard drives, meaning none of your data is logged onto physical media that could be compromised, shared, or hacked later.
With everything wiped from the start, or never logged to begin with, it makes it an excellent choice when you’re firing up multiple tabs of smut in your browser.
