2017 is a chance to expand your sexual horizon. Do you have a fuckbuddy who just isn’t making the cut? Do you have a deadbeat boyfriend who won’t beat that ass up? Meet someone else this January to start spicing up the new year. To help you with this process, we’ve put together some key tips for meeting and getting to know your new fuckbuddy. Check them out below!

1. Find out their top to bottom ratio

When it comes down to it, less people are total-tops and total-bottoms than you’d think. Finding someone who has a ratio that compliments yours is a great start to a new friends-with-benefits relationship. If you want to bottom most of the time, it’ll get frustrating if he’s already bent over and waiting when you get there.

2. Ask if he prefers giving or receiving head

Some guys love the hard day’s work in sucking a guy off, but others just want to lay back and nut on a handsome face. This one is quite easy to figure out – ask them straight up! Communication is key even in the most casual relationships.

3. Always have condoms and lube ready

You’d be surprised how many guys will have someone over without being fully prepared. Even if the other guy is hosting, bring some supplies to make sure you can make the sexy times happen. Bring at least 2 condoms because – hey – you never know!

4. Meet him in public the first time

Let’s face it – some people are crazy. And others will lie or use old pictures to try and get a hookup. These guys, “catfishers” if you will, often bank on you feeling too awkward to call them out on it. To avoid these situations, meet them in a public place first, then walk them back to your place. This makes an escape easy if it turns out you don’t like what (or who) you see. Plus you never know – maybe it will turn into some public fun.

5. Put yourself out there

If you’re having trouble meeting someone new the old fashioned way, turn to online means. Use your Squirt.org account to meet hot guys in your area. If you don’t like the idea of chatting online then check out the cruising listings and discover the best places to meet strangers in person. Next thing you know you’ll be sucking all the dick your heart desires.

6. Tell him what you want

There’s no point beating around the bush when you could be beating him off. The whole point of a fuck buddy is to get your sexual desires filled, so someone who can’t do that isn’t worth your time! Be straight forward. If you want to suck his cock – tell him. If you want to pound his ass hard – let him know! There’s no time for games. The year is already in full swing!

What are your tips for a new hookup? Leave a comment down below!