GAYGUYS.COM: Let’s get honest here. However pleasurable it is to have a man please us, there’s something about being alone in your bedroom with no one else around that is more freeing. You’re less self-conscious, less pressured to please someone else and more focused on you. But when it slowly becomes a replacement for one-on-one action with your man, perhaps it’s time to read just your priorities.
When your man doesn’t know how much you’re masturbating without him, chances are it’s starting to become a problem. Sure, he might be at work or out running errands. Sure, you might be home alone, super horny and can’t wait a few hours for him to return. There’s nothing wrong with having a little “me” time in your chamber. But how much is too much?
If you’re masturbating a lot more than you’re having sex, it’s not something you should feel guilty about. But it IS something you should investigate. I know couples who have sex two, three, four times a day. When you find someone who has the same sex drive as you, it’s a win-win. When you’re masturbating a lot, it’s clear you have a high sex drive and maybe you’re too embarrassed to tell your partner you need more out of him. What’s to be ashamed about?