Whether in a shopping mall, park bathroom, the airport or a train station, the basics of bathroom cruising are pretty much the same wherever you go. In this post, we’ll cover the indicators of a “cruisy” bathroom, what to look for in other cruisers, signals to watch out for, stuff to be cautious about, things you can bring, and even what to wear. Let’s cruise!
Does the type of bathroom or public washroom matter for gay cruising sex?
Pretty much any restroom or bathroom can deliver some hot gay cruising action if the circumstances fall in your favour. Still, undoubtedly, some bathrooms develop a bit of a reputation because they lend themselves to anonymous man-on-man action, be a horny husband waiting for his wife at the local shopping mall to a hot male office worker in your work complex prowling the public access bathroom for some cock.
What type of bathroom am I looking for to find some hot male cock?
When it comes to gay restroom cruising, you’re generally looking for a bathroom that is a bit off the beaten track. That doesn’t mean that high-traffic restrooms won’t deliver cruising action, but the strike rate will probably be higher if it’s a bathroom that is a bit out of the way and not being used by lots of random people.
If you’re a horny college student, Maybe it’s in the basement of the library; or on the top floor of the shopping mall, as we mentioned above. Or, in a train station, which doesn’t get used or cleaned often, but has a lot of transient men looking for some brief and horny fun.
It’s the kind of bathroom that if a guy had made an effort to get there, they’re not just looking for somewhere to go to the toilet.
If you’re in a bathroom and you’re unsure about its cruising potential, look around for suggestive graffiti, obscene drawings, or phone numbers. That shows that guys have spent some time in here, and they’ve spent time in here with sex on their minds; mind you, the graffiti may be less likely in this day and age of doomscrolling where the waiting-for-dick male may be scrolling versus doodling. However, gay cruising is an age-old pastime, with certain bathroom hot spots standing the test of time, so look out for it, regardless.
And, of course, if you spot a hot gay glory hole in a cubicle wall, you know you’re in the right spot.
Once I’m there, ready for dick, what should I do next?
Cruising works best when you’re not in a hurry. Be relaxed, take your time, and be prepared to wait around a bit—see if anyone has followed you in or shows up while you’re there.
Use the technology. Use a gay cruising app like Squirt.org – it features cruising directories that will tell you precisely the best cruising bathrooms; these directories are user-generated by horny ready-to-burst males like you, who review the best ones and continue to update you when action is happening at certain hot spots, or when specific locations known for good gay cruising action have become totally deads-ville.
When Will Cruising Bathrooms Be the Busiest? What Type of Men Will I See?
Figuring out the best time to go cruising in a bathroom will depend on where you are and the type of restroom you use.
For example, mid-week cruising will be more popular if you’re at college or university—students and professors are generally elsewhere on weekends.
If you’re in the local mall, then weekends are peak times. You’re looking for the bored suburban dad who’s been dragged on a shopping trip against his will. Catch his eye in the bathroom and see if he’s interested in dropping a load.
Airports are always very transient with an international buffet; for example, a city like New York with many travellers means gay cruising at Newark airport can mean the promise of many types of men.
But remember, busier doesn’t always mean better. You might have a more satisfying cruising experience if not many people are around. You need to catch the eye of a guy who’s got the same thing on his mind as you – you just need to catch the eye of a guy who’s horny-as-fuck.
Also, don’t underestimate the value of Squirt.org; if you’re looking to cruise and have a well-known gay hookup bathroom spot near you in mind, see who else is on your grid eager for some public play and arrange a meet. Order up some of that hot dick through Squirt like it’s a pizza, but the only thing you’re interested in is that hot, long and spicy pepperoni stick!
How to Cruise for Guys in a Bathroom
Cruising requires everyone to be pretty low-key. There will not be a lot of talking—it’s a vibe.
There are two basic scenarios. You’re either in a stall and looking for gay cruising signals from the guys in the neighbouring stalls, or you’re at the urinal or wash basin.
If you’re at the urinal or washbasin, you can make eye contact with the other guys there.
If a guy is taking his time—standing extra long at the urinal, washing his hands extra long at the wash basin, and spending extra long checking himself in the mirror—then he’s not in a hurry to go anywhere and could be up for some fun.
Don’t underestimate eye contact or lingering looks and see when a quick wink could land you; just be careful you don’t misread anything, as that could lead to an argument, fight, or perhaps even mall security or police presence.
Cruising the urinal versus cruising the stall
There are pros and cons to cruising at the urinal or setting up shop in a stall. It’s useful to be experienced in both techniques – that way, you can adapt your style to whatever is going to work best in the bathroom that you’re in.
If you’re standing at the urinal, and there’s a guy next to you giving you all the right signals, then you can reach across and let him know that you’re interested in his cock. You can drop to your knees and suck him off right there.
The downside of getting it on at the urinal is that you’re going to have to be more on guard about who might walk in while you’re sucking cock.
If you’re more interested in anonymous sex, then understall action is ideal. You don’t need to see their face – you just need access to their cock. Without the benefit of eye contact, if you’re in a stall, you’re looking for a suggestive tap of the foot or a finger running around the edge of a glory hole.
Additional Tips for Bathroom Cruising
- Bulky shopping bags can be useful for creating visual barriers, particularly if you don’t want a security officer trying to count how many feet are in a stall.
- Automatic flushing toilets can be a bit of a giveaway, but you can disable these by taping some toilet paper over the sensor.
- You’re inevitably going to be on your hands and knees on the toilet floor. Plan ahead and take some wipes and hand sanitizer with you (unless you like filthy and raw, you little slut, then bend and take it!).
- Think about easy access – sweatpants are ideal. You don’t want anything too tight or restrictive – you’re going to need to be able to get into some compromising positions. Wear something you can chuck straight into the washing machine when you get home.
What are your top tips for cruising for sex in bathrooms? Jump into the comments section below and share your cruising adventures!
