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Struggling with chems? Check out these practical tips on how to navigate the festive season.

This time of year can be an emotional minefield for many – particularly if you’re isolated from family and the cold weather is limiting your social options.

Health professionals are particularly concerned that people involved in chemsex are facing a perfect storm that poses a significant risk of harm to our community.

‘Chemsex’ is the term used to describe sexual activity between people who have taken specific drugs (chems) including crystal methamphetamine, mephedrone, gamma-hydroxybutyrate (GHB) or gamma-Butyrolactone (GBL) – these drugs can enable an enhanced sexual experience but they are highly addictive and come with significant health risks. These risks include:

  • Physical health: Accidents and injuries, nutritional issues, lungs and heart diseases, dental problems, disrupted sleeping patterns.
  • Mental health: High levels of depression, anxiety, or psychotic episodes such as paranoia or hallucinations.
  • Emotional health: Issues such as isolation, domestic and relationship issues, low self-esteem or inability to focus or make decisions.
  • Sexual health: High risks of transmissions and infections of HIV, HEP-C and other Sexually transmitted infections such as syphilis, gonorrhoea. Chemsex users are also at risk of poor adherence to HIV medication – potentially jeopardising their Undetectable status.
  • Financial issues and unemployment.
  • Personal safety: such as overdoses, sexual assault, theft, or self-harm.
  • Legal issues – buying, selling, possessing and selling these drugs is illegal.

“Chemsex is more than just a drug problem…” explains Ignacio Labayen de Inza – founder of the harm-reduction charity, Controlling Chemsex. “There is a combination of elements as powerful as sex, gay culture, drugs that can keep people awake for days prioritising sexual urges over any other consideration, internal homophobia and low self-esteem, as well as difficulties with intimacy and isolation.”

“We’re working everyday with people who are struggling with their use of chems…” adds Labayen de Inza. “Many of our clients are worried about the Christmas period, worried that they’ll relapse, and also worried about their friends. That’s why we’re sharing some practical tips that might help you to navigate the challenges of the festive season.”

Tips on how to control your chems use during the festive season

  • Review your bio details on hook-up apps. Be explicit that you’re not interested in chems. Simply putting “No H&H” in your bio will limit the amount of temptation that comes your way.
  • Set limits on your use of hook-up apps. We’re at our most vulnerable when we’re searching for intimacy – particularly when it’s late at night and we’re feeling alone and isolated. If you’ve set yourself a rule that you’re not going to look at hook-up apps after 10 PM, have a plan for other things you can do if you’re awake and can’t sleep. It could be as simple as having some good porn on standby so you can masturbate and get the horniness out of your system.
  • Don’t forget that if you think it could be helpful you can disable your phone to block downloading and use of apps or websites with specific content (sexual, gambling, etc) using parental controls. You can find out how to do this by Googling ‘parental control iPhone’ or ‘apps parental control for Android’, or also downloading specific apps for this purpose, and prevent the cycle of deleting and downloading the apps.
  • Know your triggers.The biggest risk of a relapse often comes from friends or fuck-buddies that we’ve had good times with in the past. Odds are, you’re going to get an unexpected WhatsApp message asking if you’re up for some fun. Knowing that this trigger is going to present itself, have your coping mechanism ready to go – have a “no thanks” reply saved in your drafts, have someone lined up who you can call, have some porn ready to watch.
  • Keep a clear head. This is a time of year when the drinks are flowing, but we tend to make poor choices when we’ve got a few drinks under our belt. Try and minimise your alcohol intake and don’t drink on an empty stomach.
  • Keep yourself busy. If we’re feeling isolated and alone, and it feels like there’s nothing to do, then a chemsex session will seem increasingly appealing. Set yourself a list of tasks for the day. It could be as simple as reorganising your sock draw or as complicated as making some fresh pasta. There’s always something to do, if you set your mind to it.
  • If you do have a relapse, don’t beat yourself up too much. Slip-ups happen. Activate your support network and learn from it.

“This is also a time of year when friends and loved ones might be wondering how to help someone who is struggling with chems…” explains Labayen de Inza. “You can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped, but if you’re worried about someone and you think chems might be the problem, keep the communication open – let them know that you’re on their side, listen and be supportive. Direct confrontations and arguments are counter-productive. Avoid being judgmental. You also need to set some boundaries for yourself – supporting someone who has issues with chems is an emotional roller-coaster.”

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Hot Cocktale: Playing with the Professional Wrestler Unknowingly

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by: Caper4Man – check him out on Squirt.org!

I was contacted by Jeff on Squirt, late at night. We had viewed each other’s profiles from time to time, but there was one of his pics that didn’t pique my interest, because it looked like he had blotches all over his belly and chest.

However, the Friday night he contacted me, I was horny and there was no action, and I just wanted to hold and taste some cock and maybe fuck some ass.

After chatting for about five minutes, he shared more of his photos with me, and I realized then the filter he was using changed his tats to look like blotches since his tats would make him identifiable. I didn’t clue into that possibility before I saw that pic.

Of course, that changed everything, and when he asked me to come to his place, I eagerly said yes.

I arrived at his place 20 minutes later.

When he opened the door, even though he shared his private pics, he was nothing like the pics he had shared. On the contrary, he was the type of man I love to hook up with from time to time.

He was definitely a bear, like one of those bearish guys I often see in the porn videos that I love to watch, them fucking other bears.

Jeff as I mentioned, had tats everywhere, I don’t have them myself, but love them on another man. From the tip of his head to his shoulders, chest, belly, arms, and legs, all the way to his toes – his whole body was inked. He also had yummy, huge, wide legs, and a huge belly, but firm.

I loved everything about this guy, and couldn’t believe I had passed on hooking up with him on several occasions in the past.

When we got in his bed, he said on more than one occasion: “You can do to me whatever you want with me.”

I’m in love with this bear’s body, so the first thing I did was get up on top of him and feel his firm, beautiful belly against mine, as I moved my hands all over his huge arms and thighs and pushed our two naked bodies together.

This guy is so hot, with all his tats; this may be the first guy I was with that I’d say was all ‘bear’.

Although he had a really rough exterior and gruff persona that I’d probably be fearful of on the street, he was a real teddy bear in bed and was exceptionally comfortable to be around.

He’s bi and hadn’t been with a guy for a while, so he wanted to suck on my cock.

Never had a guy suck on my cock as long as Jeff did, but his mouth and tongue felt wonderful on my pulsating cock as he would swallow the whole shaft. Other times, he’d be holding it in his hand, looking at it, then sliding his tongue up the side of the shaft, before burying it in his mouth again, sometimes looking up at me with his eyes. It’s hot when a guy sucks on your cock and looks you in the eyes while doing it.

It felt fucking wonderful to have Jeff service me and give that much attention to my cock.

Once, he sucked on my cock for at least ten or 15 minutes, no kidding. I went down on his cock.

His cock is very similar in size to my own cock, only his was uncut – not much different in size or girth between the two.

I’m six inches cut, with an average=size cock and girth.

The one thing that was different was that he had a ring in the hole of his cock-head.

I found it different, sucking him off with the ring in the head of his cock, since it was located directly in the hole of the head, and I was a bit worried I’d make him uncomfortable. But as I was sucking on it, he gave me the nod and said, ‘All good.’

I loved sucking on his uncut cock as much as he loved sucking on mine – licking on the head and sliding my tongue between the head and all the foreskin that was wrapped around it.

It felt wonderful in my mouth, and after a while, he wanted to suck on my cock again, so we changed positions, and he got down between my legs again.

He was jerking my cock, and just by the way he was holding it and looking at it, I knew he wanted to eat my load. His massive, tattooed hand was stroking my cock, and his tongue and mouth hovering just above the head, waiting to take a load.

I’m not used to guys servicing me, but I enjoyed him jerking my cock so much, and his desire to service me, that I just laid back and relaxed and enjoyed the ride, as his masculine hand stroked on my cock.

I’m not a fast cummer, which can be a curse if a guy is looking for a quick load in his mouth or ass, and I told him that. And he said, ‘All good, we got plenty of time,’ as he continued to stroke my cock.

As he was stroking, I told him to put his ass over my face. I knew if my tongue was in his ass, I’d be more likely to cum quicker, so he changed positions, kneeling over my face, and lowered his ass down on my waiting tongue.

I love eating ass, and I loved eating Jeff’s ass as he stroked my cock.

He has a big, husky ass, and he’s wide, so I grabbed his hips as much as I could and pulled his ass as tight on my face as I was able, so I could get as much of my tongue in his hole.

He’s still stroking me; I’m still not coming. So, I suggest he grasped it a little harder and tighten his grip on my cock as he stroked it.

Before he put my suggestion into play, he took some coconut cream he had on the nightstand by the bed, greased his hand and my cock with the cream, and, this time, tighten his grip around my cock as he began to stroke it again.

The harder he stroked my cock, the farther I pushed my tongue up his ass.

Once we got the rhythm going of me shoving my tongue up his ass and licking his hole and Jeff stroking my cock with his firm grip, it wasn’t long before I muttered out, ‘Oh fuck, bud, I’m about to cum,’ as my panting increases and my body begins to rock back and forth and shake, stiffening my legs, getting my cock harder and harder as I’m about to shoot my load.

With that, Jeff’s strokes got faster, and sensing all the body movement and moaning that I was in seconds of cumming, he bent over and took my cock in his mouth as I begin to shoot my load in that warm mouth. And even though it was mumbled, I could make him out saying, ‘Oh fuck, man, that tastes so good, been wanting a load of warm cum in my mouth for weeks.’

After he sucked on my cock and drained out all my cum, he laid down towards the end of the bed.

I moved down towards his cock and took it in my mouth.

I really wanted to fuck him, but I knew from the start that he wanted to swallow my load and also was wanting to be the one to stroke my cock until I did. And even though he said at the beginning of us getting naked together on the bed, ‘You can do anything to me you want,’ which translated, generally means ‘I want you to fuck my ass’, I honestly got caught up in the attention he gave in pleasuring me. That I hadn’t given it any more thought.

However, while sucking on his cock again, my mind is saying, ‘This guy is so fucking hot, I’d do anything for him.’ Wish he had wanted to fuck my ass or even suggested it, but since he hadn’t made any attempts, I was pleased to have his uncut, hard cock in my mouth.

I love to deep-throat cock, so I wasted no time bobbing up and down on his cock, taking it all in my mouth, down to his balls. I love sticking my tongue out and licking on the balls and bottom of the shaft when it’s completely down my throat. I frequently was moaning, ‘Mmmm, fuck, I love that cock, mmmm, shove it down my throat’ as I slurped on his beautiful cock.

Unlike me, it wasn’t long before Jeff was shooting his load in my mouth, filling it up with his warm seed, swishing it between my teeth, tongue and cheeks, so I could taste his creamy load in my mouth before I swallowed it all.

Afterwards, we just laid there for 20 minutes or so, chatting and caressing each other’s body.

I loved his legs – I have a big, big fetish for huge legs -, and Jeff didn’t disappoint in that area. I asked him if I could take one home.

It was only after we got out of bed and began to get dressed that he got around to telling me he was once a professional wrestler.

It was like someone just turned on the light switch, and it all made sense the moment he said that – the tats, the bear-like beard, the unbelievable, huge legs and arms, his firm belly, his size. Everything screamed wrestler.

To me, this guy was the full package. To be with him was like winning the lottery; I even told him that, even before I knew he had been a wrestler.

Jeff told me a lot of other things, like his wrestling name and other activities he was involved in, but can’t say too much more, in order to keep his identity discreet.

We really got along well, and got around to talking about fucking each other next time. So hopefully, when he gets the itch for a man in the near future, he’ll be contacting me again, and we’ll flip-fuck each other.

Can’t wait to bend over for this hot bear and have him put his hard cock in my tight hole and pound my ass.

Want More Hot Gay Action? Keep Your Profile Updated to Get Attention

You’re wanting more action on Squirt.org, but you don’t really know how to get it quick. The best way to start is by giving your profile a refresh: you can update your online status, add new photos or videos (dick pics or ass shots, you decide!), and make updates about your favorite cruising spots!

Sure, it’s not getting a dick in your mouth right away. But by keeping your profile fresh, you’re upping the attention you have on you and getting eyes on you that may not have noticed before. So, want that chat to start blowing up and getting more hookups?

Update Your Online Status for the Gay Men Around You

You can write an online status (a personal message) in the box on your profile page, and let guys know your online or offline status. That way, your potential hookups always know when you’re down! You can also let guys know you’re looking to chat within a certain timeframe (feeling horny at a certain time of night?), or you can appear offline when you’re online.

For more on editing this, make sure to check our FAQ!

Keep Your Content Fresh for Guaranteed Deep Gay Penetration

You have a lot of stuff you can keep updated on your profile. You can always change your location info, such as your city or country. When you’re on the move, make sure to keep it up to date! That way in your travels you can always find new booty. From the USA to the gay Down Under

You can also update your favorite sex positions, your kinks, your turn-ons, your turn-offs, and you can keep your profile headline up to date. This is the place you take the reins and let guys know anything you want: let them know where you’re going to be soon for hooking up, or just update them on whatever you want!

Also make sure to keep your photos and videos updated!

If you’re wanting to get some more attention, what better way than with a sexy pic? You can always add plenty of photos on your profile on Squirt.org and really renew guys’ interest.

Nothing guarantees hot gay anal like an ass shot showing just what they’re missing. Or, maybe your torso is top-notch, but a fella wants to see if you have a face they can to cram their cock into: enhance your odds by sharing a face shot in your photo carousel.

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How to Be a Gay Top: Bonafide Tips for Anal Domination

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Whether you want to be a gay vers pro, or you’re a gay power-bottom who wants to see the other side of things, topping a hot gay date doesn’t have to be rocket science – you just need some willingness to take your red rocket to new terrains.

In this article, we discuss some helpful tips for when you’re topping for the first time. We’ll also look at how you can be a better top when you’re worshipping the hole of a seasoned power-bottom.

How to Top When Gay

For many guys, butt sex is one of the best bits about man-on-man action or a gay anal hookup. When we’re talking about sex, we often use the short-hand terminology of Top and Bottom to clarify who’s doing what to whom, or what we’re feeling like in the moment.

These aren’t binary identities. You might get some guys who describe themselves as “exclusively Top” or “exclusively Bottom”, but you’ll have better sex if you’re open to pleasure from all angles. You really need to have skills that you can adapt to whatever the situation requires.

Sure, you might have a preference. But the more you can understand about how to give and receive pleasure, the more fun you’ll have.

Today, we’re focusing on how to Top another guy. If you’re the Top, that means that you’re pushing your cock into the other guy’s ass. The guy that’s taking your cock is the Bottom.

But there’s more to Topping than just getting hard and sticking it in. Let’s get into it.

Foreplay and Lube!

Foreplay and lube are two essential ingredients for great anal sex.

The objective of both is to make sure that your Bottom is relaxed, receptive, and ready to take your cock up their ass.

Go for a good quality lube and use lots of it. There’s lots of different types of lube out there – experiment and find one that works best for you. Talk about it with your Bottom – they might have a preference. Great lube means great sex.

From a foreplay perspective, your focus – as the Top – should be on your Bottom’s ass. Using your fingers is fine, but you really need to put your mouth to work. You need to be rimming your Bottom’s ass until he’s begging for you to fuck him.

Rimming isn’t just licking his fuck-hole. You want to bring variety to your rimming technique – kiss, spit, bite, chew – work his hole from every angle and get that tongue in deep.

Listen to Your Partner

Communication is really important. Listen for verbal cues and look for visual cues.

At the beginning, your questions might be along the lines of – “Is this okay?” “Does that feel good?”

As your encounter progresses, you might be looking for indicators on how rough you should be – “Like that?” “Harder?”

Equally important is checking in to make sure that you’re both in the same head-space – “Need some more lube?” “Want some water?” “Want to take a break?”

How to Accommodate a Gay Power Bottom

Hooking up with a guy who describes himself as a power-bottom can be a bit intimidating. Often, the temptation is just to try and fuck him really hard – pound him relentlessly like a fuck-machine.

While some guys are into that, and most guys will enjoy a bit of that at some stage, even a power-bottom is going to want some variety from you.

You always want to start off fairly slow. You need to make sure that your Bottom’s sphincter is relaxed and accommodating before attempting anything too intense. The more relaxed your Bottom’s butt gets, the more options that you’ll both have.

Lots of communication is good at this stage. You’ll have a sense of how your Bottom’s body is responding, but listen to his verbal cues – he’ll let you know when he’s ready for more.

Don’t Just Stand There

Just because you’re the Top doesn’t mean that you have to do all the work. You can expect your Bottom to be actively moving into different positions. But you do need to take charge.

Don’t be a passive top. You’re the one delivering the dick-down. Your Bottom is going to want to feel your power and your presence. Spit in his face, slap his ass, and let him feel every inch of you.

Talk Dirty

A bit of filthy talk during sex can be a great way to turn up the heat and make sure that you’re both on the same page.

But it’s probably best to start mild and then crank up the raunch if you see that it’s getting a positive response.

Even if you feel that your pre-hookup chat has set the tone, just because your Bottom DMd you that he wants you to ruin his cunt doesn’t necessarily mean that you open with that as soon as you get down to business. Online conversations are different from real-life conversations.

It’s also important not to impose your fantasies onto your Bottom. It might turn you on to talk filthy about how stretched and loose your Bottom’s fuck-hole is, but that could be perceived as a negative comment or a form of slut-shaming.

Take your cues from what your Bottom is saying. If he’s calling his but tight, go with that. If he’s calling it loose, go with that. Language matters.

Accommodate His Angles

To be a good Top, it helps to have at least a basic understanding of the male body. Anatomy diagrams are a good starting point to understand how everything fits together, but the important thing to remember is that we’re all built slightly differently and so our ass play might need to be adapted or adjusted.

When you’re Topping, it’s a good idea to be thinking about your Bottom’s prostate. This is a major pleasure spot. One of your primary goals when you’re Topping is to try and stimulate your Bottom’s prostate.

Being able to hit the prostate as you fuck your cock into him is one of the reasons that it’s a good idea to experiment with different positions.

Remember, regularly asking: “Does that feel good?” can ensure that you’re both getting what you want out of this encounter and you’ll quickly get a reputation as Top of the Tops.

Giuspel tops Joe Sting @ Kristen Bjorn

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KRISTEN BJORN: Giuspel is eager to put his cock to some pleasurable fucking and spins Joe around and begins fucking his smooth ass with his hot tongue! Giuspel tops Joe Sting… a must see!

WHO WOULD YOU CHOOSE? CARTER WOODS OR BRANDON ANDERSON?

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NEXT DOOR ORIGINALS: Carter Woods is back, baby! Back from a long trip, that is. And Brandon Anderson is happy to welcome him back, but when Carter discovers Brandon has feelings for him, it puts everything into a new perspective. So what’s gonna happen next?

UMMMMMMM… WOW!

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Sean Cody’s Axel Rockham & Shawn Brooks

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SEAN CODY: Blond Shawn and buff Axel only have eyes for each other as they enter the studio. “Let’s get this off,” Axel says, tugging the bottom’s shirt off, and quickly strips down so Shawn can suck him. He takes off the bottom’s jeans and bends him over the bed, rimming Shawn and making him moan, before sliding his cock into that hole. “Oh my god, you feel so good,” Shawn whispers, proving his words true when he orgasms as he rides the muscular top. Axel doesn’t break eye contact as he fucks the bottom in missionary and cums all over Shawn’s impressive abs!

Corporate Greed W/Carter Woods, Masyn Thorne

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DISRUPTIVE VIDEO: Rhys Morris (Masyn Thorne) is the entitled boy of a CEO. Working for his dad’s company has some perks. Rhys has more clout than the average employee, and he’s not afraid to flex it. When Rhys feels that his co-worker, Daniel Lindsay (Carter Woods), isn’t giving him the proper level of respect, Rhys takes a new angle.