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Who would you cruise? Quin Quire, Sumner Blayne or both?

RAGING STALLION: After putting on a record to set the mood, muscle jock Sumner Blayne makes his move on pal Quin Quire. This afternoon delight between the two fuck buddies starts with Sumner sucking and rimming his friend before using his bareback cock to fill Quin’s hole. Eager to swap positions and flip-fuck the day away, Quin reciprocates by swallowing down Sumner’s big dick and using his own hard rod to fill up the hottie’s thick cakes. 

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UMMMMMM… WOW!!!

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What’s your gay travel tribe?

It doesn’t matter if you’re a Gemini, a Scorpio or even if you’ve got a moon rising. That’s not going to help you find your tribe when you’re on the road.

We’ve devised a new system for dividing guys by gay travel tribe, depending on their passions. Here are the descriptions of who belongs to which tribe, along with suggestions for destinations where each tribe should feel most at home…read more.

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Noise police, rising commercial rents and restrictive city bylaws have stifled nightlife in Toronto and Montreal

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Let’s have fun in the kitchen. Christopher White submits to Crush Daddy

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THE BRO NETWORK: I’m Coming Over: It’s not quite the kind of chill-and-hit session Chris had in mind, but one thing is sure – he needs to start coming by more often!

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Visit a friend and fuck them! with Jonathan Tylor, Jacob Acosta

NEXT DOOR TWINK: Jacob Acosta comes over to visit his friend Jonathan Tylor. Jacob’s plan is to get Jonathan out of the house and go out for a fun night partying, but Jonathan claims he’s ‘exhausted’ from work and the gym to go out. Jacob doesn’t want to take no for an answer, and insists he join him. Jonathan won’t budge, and that’s when the bargaining starts. Finally, Jacob makes him an offer. Jacob proposes if he can fuck him good enough to get him up, then they can go out after. This is music to Jonathan’s ears, and they have an amazing fuck! But after they’re done, Jonathan still doesn’t want to go out and lets Jacob know that takeout is on the way.

Top Five Best Gay Sex Lubes from a XXX Onlyfans Performer

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Hi! I’m Dallas Knoxxx, your go-to-gay for all things wild and straight-up real. I’m 27, reside in West Hollywood, and get to live out my sexual fantasies every day. I’ve starred in a studio scene (go check it out) and have an OnlyFans (I’m also on Twitter!) I’m constantly posting and spending nights cruising and hooking up in the city of angels. 

As a horny gay OnlyFans creator that is constantly getting railed as much as I am, you know that lube is so important to have during sex. 

If you’re new to the scene or just have little knowledge of the world of lube, or have only really relied on spit and courage to get you through the more enormous dicks, hopefully, this will help you navigate your slippery hole. 

Why is there confusion about gay sex lube and the best picks?

The reason why shopping for lube may be so confusing comes down to the fact there are so many brands, and it’s not really a conversation you can have with your barber (maybe you can?) on which lube gives you the most comfort and ease during hard gay bareback sex.

From silicon to water-based lube to gay fisting lube to ones that are perfect for gay sex toy fun.

There are countless brands of lube that are in the market right now, but what do most gay men go for? It all depends on what you might be using this for. Are you going to be getting fucked by your neighbor’s twelve-inch dick? Using some gay sex toys? Getting fisted hard and ensuring no ouchies later? We’ll get into it all and your needs in the bedroom. First, we have some ground to cover. 

More about types of lube: what’s the difference between water-based, silicon and oil?

Lube can come in many different varieties, mainly water-based, silicone, oil, or powder. 

If you’re going the water-based route, clean-up should be a breeze. Water-based is great for penetration, making sliding in and out effortless. 

If you’re feeling more silicone, you might be scrubbing with soap and water for a while to remove it all, as it is known to stain the sheets, so avoid those high thread count Frette linens if you’re going to get nasty with a hot guy and some silicon lube. However, silicone is a great lube to use for toys or larger cocks and tends not to dry out as quickly as water-based; but be warned, silicone lube tends to stain sheets and clothing almost instantaneously. 

Powdered lube tends to be for the committed pigs who need an hour-long steady rhythm. Powdered lube is great because you can control how much you want to make at a time, making traveling easy. Powder lube is amazing for gay fisting for hours and taking massive toys… which I’m starting to get used to. 

Cleanup might be a bit more tricky because this lube gets sticky, so invest in a nice scrubber when you are in a rush to get it all off. 

Now that we got most of that out of the way let’s see what lube would work best for that fat cock or tight hole!

In no particular order, starting out strong is…

Swiss Navy

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Swiss Navy is one of those brands that you’ve definitely seen around before, whether you know it or not. Swiss Navy comes in tons of different varieties and price points, meaning they cater to all lube needs. (They even sell a gallon bottle, as you see above!) This brand also has any type of lube you need but mainly specializes in water-based and silicone lube. This is not the most affordable option on our list, but definitely a great option for your first bottle. 

Boy Butter

Boy Butter is one of those brands you’ve always wanted to try but never got around to. I’m here to tell you–you definitely should. I gave this a go a couple of months ago and was pleasantly surprised! Specializing in either water-based or oil-based lubes, this glide will feel extremely natural and gripping. Be aware, though, because oil-based lube will not come out of fabrics unless you’re quick with that Tide To-Go stick. Boy butter looks and feels a lot like body lotion and really delivers in the butter category. 

X Lube

Don’t let the gooey goodness of the clear liquid above fool you; this German lube is a powdered lube that dissolves easily in water, producing a clear gel.

X Lube is crystal clear and free of any odors or tastes, so you can get as close to the action as you want… meaning you can rim while it’s on, and you don’t have to worry about that “tacky” chemical taste in your mouth. I always hate when you have to time the lube action to the fellatio and tongue portion of the program so you get the hot man taste without any of the lube taste.

Sign me up! It’s easy to mix, easy to clean, and very economical—one bottle makes 20+ litres, so you know it’s a cheap, cheerful and horny option for those who get it on aplenty.

How do I mix a powdered lube for gay fisting play?

For those who are new to the experience of powdered lube, don’t get uptight; here’s all you need to know to make it happen and how I mix my powdered lube for a brand like X Lube, for example.

  1. Add one cap full of powder to 500 mL of water in a sports bottle.
  2. Shake the bottle vigorously for ten seconds. It helps to use your hand to cover the opening of the bottle, or the powder could become lodged in the nozzle. 
  3. Cap the bottle and wait ten minutes. 
  4. Shake the bottle for twenty more seconds and leave the cap on. 
  5. Wait twenty more minutes for the lube to develop into a good consistency. 

For best results, prepare one to two hours before play. Do not blend your lube in a blender due to breaking down the lube. 

J Lube

J Lube is very similar to X Lube but can be a little bit more affordable. Powdered lubes can take a little while to get the right blend, but once you’ve practiced and figured out your perfect recipe, you can just about shove anything you want inside you. 

If you’re using powdered lube, a squeeze bottle or plastic travel water bottle is a good thing to have on hand. You’ll need something to house all the lube you just made, and something with a nozzle at the top works wonders. 

Gun Oil

Gun Oil is also one of those brands that you’ve seen before at your local gay bookstore or video arcade in the front but never got around to seeing what all the hype is about. Gun oil mainly comes in a silicone version, so this lube is great for jerking off or getting fucked by someone off of Squirt!

I want to know which lubes you prefer! Are you more of a water-based or silicone type of girl? Everyone’s preferences are different! Do you really want to use spit for the rest of your life?

-Dallas

French men… discuss! with Guillaume Wayne, Markin Wolf

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Markin Wolf bottoms for big-dicked French stud Guillaume Wayne on Voyr.com.

Who would you cruise? Caden Dior, Jace Starr or both?

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FAMILY DICK: When my stepbrother told me he wanted to get into dating apps, I knew he would get a bunch of men right away because he’s a good-looking guy, but her pics were not helping. He looked too proper. When I suggested he take off his shirt, I knew he was going to look smoking hot, but I didn’t know how much.

Watching those muscles so close and feeling that chest hair got me harder than I’d ever been, and I couldn’t stop picturing his cock.

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At that moment, I didn’t want to help him find guys anymore; I wanted to be the only one sucking his fat dick. I was so horny I couldn’t resist him anymore; I made a move, and let’s just say that his ass was as tight as I wanted it to be.

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Sex in Sauna: Steamy Tips for Maximum Pleasure

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While gay bathhouses near your house may sound like the easiest way to get laid, the sauna is also one place to have a steamy good time beyond just the moisture in the air.

But with the high temperatures comes some risk. While sauna sex can be pleasurable, dehydration or concerns from a long duration in high heat come to mind.

In this article, we provide some safety tips to enjoy the company of another in a sauna.


Is Sex in a Sauna Good?

If you’re wondering whether you should give sauna sex a try, there are plenty of reasons why this is a good idea.

Saunas are hot, steamy places. You’re warm, you’re relaxed, and you’re naked.

Sure, you probably walk into the sauna with a towel wrapped around your waist. You might even keep the towel on while you find a seat on the wooden bench. But it doesn’t take much for that towel to loosen and fall open, right?

The sauna is also a public space – you’ve got that thrill of exhibitionism and watching others stroke off, plus the taboo of public sex going on. That’s pushing some buttons.

Plus, you’re sweating. The sweat is beading on your skin. Rub your hand down your chest – feel the sweat beneath your fingers. Swipe your sweaty palm down your cock-shaft – feels good, right? Sweat is pretty sexy.


Why Do Gay Men Have Sex in Saunas?

Our sexual relationship with saunas runs fairly deep but is not very complicated.

Men have been having sex in the baths since the Roman Empire. In cultures where public bathing is common practice, the sauna is one of those homo-social spaces which are often erotically charged.

The stories about the Ancient Greeks and Ancient Romans informed the designs of the first men-only bathhouses in the US and the UK – homo-social spaces where men came together, got naked, and just hung out.

Obviously, if you’re into guys, or even a bicurious male, and you’re somewhere where guys are getting naked, stuff will happen. Needs are going to be fulfilled.

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Benefits of a Gay Sauna Steam

Some of the health benefits of saunas include:

Feeling alive – There’s nothing like a profuse sweat and a cold plunge to make your senses come alive. During a sauna session, make sure that you stay hydrated. Drinking plenty of water to replenish lost fluids during and after the sauna is very important.

Remove toxins and improve circulation – A good sweat will help you release toxins from your system. A sauna is an easy way to sweat, especially in the winter. The heat from the sauna helps dilate blood vessels for increased circulation and to open the skin’s pores – releasing toxic chemicals from your organs and tissue.

Tone your skin – You might want to give your skin a dry brushing prior to entering the sauna. This removes dead skin and promotes movement of the lymphatic fluid. Always brush in the direction of your heart. By dry brushing, you are circulating your lymphatic fluid thus accelerating metabolic processes such as glucose delivery, removal of carbon dioxide, and oxygenation of your cells. Some guys also try a Venik treatment – birch branches and leaves – to lightly beat each other’s skin. Sounds like a little BDSM fun, right?

Shared community – In Nordic cultures, a sauna is nearly always a family event or something you do with friends. Parents teach their children that naked or partially clothed bodies are natural and need cleansing and care. A sauna is also a common community event, with often a dozen or more people participating. It’s a great time to catch up on the news and what’s happening in the lives of those around you.

Fight infection – Most harmful microbes can’t survive hot temperatures, so they don’t stand a chance in the sauna. Heating up your body with regular saunas has been shown to fight infection by killing off microbes such as viruses, bacteria and fungus.

Relaxation – The sauna heat easily lulls your senses and relaxes tense muscles. This profound heat drives your thoughts away, allowing space for deep solace and inner calm.

Intimacy – If you want to spice up your relationship, some sauna time with your partner is a great way to turn the heat up. Just make sure you stay hydrated.


Cruising Tips in the Sauna

If you’re sitting in a sauna at a gay bathhouse, then you won’t need any gay cruising tips. Everyone there is already cruising for sex; there’s not really any danger of misinterpreting the signals.

If you’re in a relatively public sauna, you might need to tread more carefully.

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Can You Have Sex in a Sauna?

If we’re talking about the legalities of a sauna fuck-down, then this really depends on where you are in the world.

If you’re in a gay bathhouse, then it’s game on. But in most other sauna situations, you’re probably running a bit of a risk. You could potentially be charged with offences such as public indecency or indecent exposure. You may also find yourself banned from your gym or the local swimming pool.

The main thing is to ensure that everyone is consenting to what’s going down – that’s not just the guy you’re getting it on with, but also anyone who might be watching the fun.

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Safe Sauna Sex Tips

From a health perspective, there’s nothing particularly risky about fucking in the sauna, but there are probably a few things to be aware of.

Because of the heat, you could potentially dehydrate. Sex in the sauna usually happens pretty quickly. If you’re planning an extended session, remember to take regular breaks – cool down in the shower, drink some water, then get back in there and get at it.

Are you ready to turn the heat up?

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