Have you ever wanted to just pull your cock out and start jacking off – in public, not caring who sees you?

Guys masturbate a lot. While it’s generally something that we do behind closed doors, masturbating in public is a surprisingly popular kink or fantasy.

Grease up and let’s get to grips with this important topic.

What is masturbating in public?

While it might seem fairly obvious what we’re talking about, there’s a huge range of variations that can be explored within the genre of public masturbation. Obviously, the more public you are then the “riskier” it gets. There’s a big difference between “someone might see me doing this” to “a lot of people are obviously going to be able to see me do this”.

The risk factor is generally measured by how likely you are to be “caught” or to be seen by someone else. For most public masturbators, the bigger the risk, the bigger the turn-on.

You don’t necessarily need to jack your cock until you cum in order for it to qualify as public masturbation, but you’re probably going to need to have a hard cock that you’re openly stroking in order to take this beyond a simple exposure kink.

This is a fantasy that many gay JustFor.Fans content creators mine for inspiration. The amateur-style filming that accompanies public masturbation set-ups is perfect for fan-subscription channels.

Why is the caught masturbating genre in porn such a turn-on?

There’s something about the flagrant breaking of taboos that makes this such a fantasy for many guys. Even if we’re just exploring the fantasy vicariously through someone else’s content, it’s the brazen disregard for cultural norms that makes public masturbation porn so compelling.

We’re often also looking for the response of people who “catch” the guy masturbating in public. Will they be offended? Will they be turned on? Will they want to join in?

Knowing that you’re being watched by a voyeur is perhaps the ultimate – putting on a bit of a show knowing that you’ve got a very appreciative audience.

Why do I get turned on with the idea of having gay public sex?

Although we’ve developed societal norms that attempt to restrict sexual behaviour to private or non-public spaces, there’s something primal about wanting to express our virility in front of others.

While internalised shame and fear of consequences prevent most of us from actually doing it, it’s not difficult to understand why we might have some urges to showcase our virility to as many people as possible.

However, given the reality of our day-to-day lives, the fantasy of getting “caught” while having sex in public is a lot more exciting than the reality of getting caught. No one wants the embarrassment of being banned from your local gym sauna because the management have you on CCTV being dicked-down in the showers.

How can I maximize my gay public fucking so I don’t get caught?

To a certain extent how you approach public masturbation or public sex depends on the local laws that apply to where you are.

For example, if you’re in the UK, there’s no law against being naked or having sex outdoors or in public spaces, but there are laws about causing “offence”. So, if you’re jacking off in a park and there’s no one else there, that’s generally going to be totally fine. However, if you’re in a park and there’s lots of people around – all it takes is one person to notify the authorities and say that they’re offended by what you’re doing for things to go a bit pear-shaped.

So, as a general rule, context is important. You need to think about your location, you need to think about the time of day, and you need to think about who else is around and what might their response be.

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What are the safest places to fuck in public without getting caught?

You need to use a lot of commonsense when you’re wanting to masturbate in public or fuck in public. The more remote and away from other people you can then the less likely you are to run into any trouble. Places such as mountainous hiking trails, secluded beaches, or densely wooded areas are great but the downside is that if you’re somewhere really remote then there’s probably less of a turn-on if you have an exposure fetish or get off on the thrill of being “caught” or if you’re hoping that a passer-by will want to join you.

If it’s possible, it’s a good idea to tackle this kind of thing with a buddy. That way, you’ve got someone to keep a look-out, to film what you’re up to, or even just to hold your clothes while you get your cock out and get off.

How do I avoid getting caught fucking at a public park while gay cruising?

The bigger the park the more likely it is that you’ll be able to find a quiet corner to get your rocks off. If there’s a wooded area, then that’s going to be popular with guys who are out cruising. Also, a public toilet is also a bit of a magnet for guys that are looking for some fun. Look for parks open late at night as the darkness will mean that there will be less people around and you’ll be less obvious.

Thinking about what you’re wearing is also a smart move. You want something that’s easy to pull up if you need to move quickly – the iconic grey sweatpants or a pair of slutty shorts would be ideal.

How can I avoid getting caught fucking while gay gym cruising?

Most gyms will have rules prohibiting sexual activity anywhere on the premises. Whether they enforce those rules is a different matter, but you have to assume that your gym is probably not keen for their members to be going at it in the locker-room.

Guys that are looking for action at the gym will often eye-fuck you over the weight-rack, but you’ll need to avoid making any actual moves until you’re in the sauna, steamroom, or the showers.

Gyms that are open 24-hours are a good bet – there will be less staff and less supervision, but don’t forget that they’ll probably have cameras everywhere.

If you do get caught, keep calm – this doesn’t have to be a big deal. Remember, this is the gym enforcing their own internal rules. A simple apology and a promise not to do it again should be enough. However, if you’re a repeat offender they may revoke your membership and there’s not much you can do about that.

Written by Gareth Johnson