Are you one of many men with a secret foot fetish? Maybe it’s not so much a secret, and when you get on the gay hookup websites and bring a guy home, you can’t wait to suck on his toes and worship his feet.

Or, maybe you’re looking at your fave OnlyFans star’s posts and notice that their hard cock is in one hand, and their bare feet are in the foreground. Does that turn you on? Is it his feet that get your attention?

If you’ve never dabbled, this kind of kink or fetish may be a bit hard to get your head around, but being turned on by a guy’s feet is very common. Interested? Intrigued? Let’s get up close and personal with this topic.

What is a gay foot fetish?

Sexual kinks and fetishes come in all forms. Here at Squirt.org, we respect and celebrate kinks of all sorts – there’s no kink-shaming here. Some men are into gay bondage, others want role-playing and dressing-up in costumes such as lace panties or stockings.

When it comes to a foot fetish, the clue is in the name, but to spell it out – a gay foot fetish describes those of us who are turned on by a guy’s feet. You might be all about foot massages, or maybe it’s the smell of the feet, or maybe you want to lick his soles, suck on his toes, or slurp your tongue over every inch as you worship your man.

There’s no wrong way to explore your foot fetish. For some guys, it’s the footwear that’s the turn-on – it could be sexy stilettos, leather boots, or sneakers – while for others, it’s socks and stockings, or it could be all about bare feet.

Why Do People Have Foot Fetishes?

The psychology of a foot fetish is a bit of a mystery. There are some theories that it relates to our perception as feet being unclean. This is particularly evident in a dom/sub dynamic – a sub demonstrates his subservience by worshiping his dom’s feet.

A Freudian perspective is that a guy’s toes can be seen as penis substitutes.

In MedicalNewsToday, one researcher proposes that the fetish is due to sensory input in the brain. PubMed Central, a highly respected medical database, suggests that the part of the brain that processes the sensation people get from feet is next to the area that perceives genital stimulation. From an arousal perspective, you’re not differentiating between a guy’s cock and his feet – both are a turn on.

Another theory relates to reflexology. Reflexology is a form of therapy that uses pressure points in your feet to support your overall health. Reflexology maps demonstrate that your feet are full of muscles, tendons, and ligaments that are all connected to the rest of your body. If you get turned on by having your nipples played with, or ears licked, it’s the same principle – your body will let you know what feels good.

Can Straight Guys Have a Foot Fetish?

As with any fetish or kink, anyone can have a foot fetish – sexuality and gender are generally secondary considerations. A foot fetish is not just something that gay men enjoy – straight men and bisexual men can also be very into feet.

How Do I Explore My Foot Fetish?

Explore your fetish by noting it as a turn-on in your fave hookup website. On Squirt.org, adding “foot fetish” to your list of turn-ons is a great way to find someone who shares your interest and is keen to explore it with you.

Watch Some Hot Gay Male Porn

There is a ton of porn out there that caters to people with foot fetishes. Whether you’re into videos of people getting their feet worshiped or prefer to watch people using their feet during sex, there’s sure to be something out there for you. Twitter is a good starting point for finding content creators who tailor fan-subscription posts to guys with a foot fetish.

Look for a Reflexologist

While reflexology is generally a nonsexual activity, some reflexologists are open to providing services to people with foot fetishes. If you’re interested in trying reflexology but don’t want to go to a traditional reflexology spa, you can search online for someone who provides “erotic reflexology” services; this can be a great way to get a foot massage from someone who knows how to push all the right buttons and give you a happy ending.

How Can I Find Gay Sex for My Gay Kink?

Use Squirt.org and find members and gay and bisexual males near you who understand precisely the tingle you feel when you see or touch a guy’s feet in a sexual encounter.

Men like you who love a foot massage, a foot job or other types of hot kinky play are closer than you think! Log onto Squirt.org and get ready to find males down to fuck, suck or maybe just cuddle. Many men and all types of males in the community want precisely what you do.

Get started today and get off with Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now with a swipe or a tap. When it comes to hot gay sex, don’t walk away from a good time.

Written by Gareth Johnson

In our transactional relationship with intimacy, we tend to automatically assume that sex means fucking – someone is going to get penetrated and someone is going to be doing the penetrating.

Sex means butt-fucking, right?

Obviously it can, but anal sex is just aspect of the broad range of sexual experiences that are available to us.

What is gay non-penetrative sex?

If you’re talking about gay non-penetrative sex, it’s kind of the long way of saying “no anal”.

A strict interpretation of non-penetrative sex could theoretically include “no oral” as well, but the general assumption is that non-penetrative sex means that you can do pretty much anything except butt-fucking.

Why would someone want to avoid gay penetration sex?

If you’re searching for your latest gay hookup partner on Squirt.org for anal sex, you might find yourself chatting with guys who are keen to connect but want to avoid gay penetration sex. There’s a few reasons why they might be in that headspace.

Trust and Consent

Lots of guys want to know something about you before they’ll have anal sex with you.

The fantasy of being fucked by an anonymous hot muscle jock or a gay leather daddy is one thing, but anal sex generally requires a level of trust and that’s something that everyone has to navigate in their own way.

Getting fucked by someone requires to be vulnerable – physically and emotionally. That can be a bit challenging if you’re meandering through the local cruising park near you.

Sexually Transmitted Infections

STIs are also top of mind for some guys. While you can look after yourself to some extent through PrEP and Doxy PeP, you might feel that anal sex exposes you to a higher risk of STI transmission.

That’s often a particular concern for guys who are in monogamous relationships and perhaps aren’t being totally transparent with their partner about down-low hook-ups.

That concern around STIs seems to have become a little more pronounced now that most guys are having gay bareback anal sex. Insisting on condoms for gay hookups can often be a deal-breaker, so non-penetrative sex might be an effective compromise.

Not feeling fresh

If you’re a 100 percent hot bonafide top you may not realise what’s required to prepare for anal sex – even certified power-bottoms can’t always be fresh and confident. If your bottom tells you that anal sex is off-limits until the next gay douching session, you need to respect that.

Here are ten ways to have non penetrative gay sex near you

Kissing

Making out with a guy is hot. Let your tongue do the talking.

Dry Humping

This is where the clothes stay on – there’s a lot of rubbing and a lot of friction.

Frottage

This is similar to dry humping but the clothes come off – you get to go dick-to-dick with your hook-up.

Handjobs and Mutual masturbation

Find yourself a bate buddy, grease up and get to work. Read how to give the ultimate gay handjob here.

Gay Footjob

If you’re into feet, this is a lot of fun – hold the soles of his feet together and fuck that. Read on how to give the ultimate gay footjob here.

Circle jerk

Circle jerks are an old-school way of getting off without touching anyone else but they’ve had a bit of a resurgence in an increasingly solo-sexual world. The good thing about organising a circle jerk is that you get to set the rules – if you don’t mind being a bit flexible with how much touching is allowed, a circle jerk can help you to get a great gay orgy going.

See more about arranging a gay circle jerk in our previous article and the best places to find a circle jerk near you.

BDSM Play

The power dynamics of gay BDSM are perfect to explore everything beyond anal sex.

Whether it’s gay bondage, humiliation kinks or whips and chains in the farthest extreme, it’s always a good time to get your kink on.

Roleplay

Your sexual encounters are only limited by your imagination. Whether it’s men in suits or the classic casting couch you see in many gay porn scenes, lean into role-plays that don’t require penetration.

Gay Tantric Massage

The structured intimacy of a man-on-man erotic massage is an ideal way to get all the pleasure of sex without any penetration. Read our gay tantric massage article, heat up the oil and get down to business.

Oral sex

How’s your head? You can improve your gag reflex for gay oral sex and get him off without anyone being fucked.

Is transmission with oral sex less than anal sex?

Different STIs are transmitted in different ways. Sure, you’re unlikely to acquire HIV if you limit yourself to oral sex, but there’s lots of other STIs out there that can easily be acquired if you put your mouth on his cock.

Gay Dildo Play

Does dildo play count as non penetrative sex? It probably depends on what your motivation is for avoiding getting fucked.

Being able to communicate openly with your sexual partners is what’s important – the more you can talk about what you’re into and the kind of sexual experience that you’re looking for, the easier it will be to navigate the boundaries that you’ve both set and maximise pleasure for everyone.