Matt and Dick are a couple of guys who live in New York City and like to share their sexual escapades with the world.
I caught up with Matt and Dick (also known as Richard) to talk sex, porn, and exhibitionism.
What led you to start sharing posting your sex videos online?
Matt: I’ve always loved recording myself having sex. I started years ago on webcams, and before that chat rooms. I remember chat rooms being so exciting – it would get my cock so hard, and I would just gush pre-cum – that random connection to a stranger far away that you had no idea what they looked like, but you knew that they also liked cock. This was in the very early years of the internet, so I was exploring all of this on the family computer – the possibility of getting caught made it extra exciting.
Then, the webcam happened and I was in heaven. But I was caught by a boyfriend once, and he humiliated me about it. It was pretty scary, and I felt guilty that I liked it – sex can be so complicated in our little minds sometimes. But, the love for having sex on camera only got more intense when I got my first iPhone. I think the iPhone changed that for many people.
Richard: I’ve always had a high sex drive and enjoyed fucking, but when I met Matthew I hadn’t done much filming. One time, he took his phone out and started filming himself fucking me in the mirror. Seeing how much it turned him on made me extremely excited, and the rest is history.
Would you describe yourselves as exhibitionists?
Matt: I’m a professional actor and singer, and I’ve always loved being on stage and loved the attention of the audience, I think that just translated to my sex life. I’m a natural performer – when the camera comes on it gets me excited knowing that someone is going to be enjoying it later. It’s even more exciting at sex parties where I can perform for groups of guys live, or on Cam4 where thousands watch live.
Richard: Absolutely! I’ve always loved public sex, watching, and especially being watched. Many of my early sexual experiences were in public – shopping mall bathrooms, buses, trains, and even the parks in Ireland. I just love getting my cock out in public.
Has the dynamics of your relationship changed since you started sharing your sex-vids online?
Matt: Not at all, I think its made it better – we get to be more open about our sex life, and we get to share it with others. We often find ourselves telling the people we meet at bars about it, and they become so fascinated. We hope we can help others lose their inhibitions. I think most people have sex videos on their phone and love to share it with people, they’re just scared of the repercussions from jobs or family, which we totally understand.
Richard: It’s definitely not something we want our families to see, but equally we aren’t ashamed of our content. It’s sex. Everyone does it. No one should be ashamed about it or shamed for it.
Does much planning or preparation go into your videos, or is it generally fairly spontaneous?
Matt: It’s mostly spontaneous. We have some lights that we put up occasionally, because our apartment is pretty dark in the evenings. I definitely want to invest in some more equipment for better shooting, but we also like that it’s very amateur and raw.
What sort of feedback do you get from your fans?
Richard: The feedback has been amazing. We both love hearing from our fans, and getting to know what they like. We get lots of request – mostly for Matt to do more bottoming, which we’re working on.
Matt: It’s interesting to hear about peoples’ likes and dislikes. Richard loves having a full bush, and so do his fans. We get lots request for feet play, more public sex – which we love, of course – and pit play. It’s great because it gives us goals.
Can we talk underwear?
Richard: I like boxer-briefs during the day, and a jockstrap at night. A pair of dad briefs on a guy makes my cock raging hard.
Matt: I’m a briefs guy. I like my cock and balls nuzzled. If I’m feeling especially piggy, I like to wear a cock-ring and no underwear to the gym so that I’m presenting a nice outline of my cock through my gym shorts. I guess that’s the exhibitionist in me.
What’s your exhibitionist fantasy?
Matt: Fuck, there are so many situations that I’d love. One is being on my knees, surrounded by as many guys as possible, jerking and covering me in cum. The second, which I hope we get to do soon, is to be on a stage with an audience full of studs watching while Richard and I fuck – then everyone can join in.
Richard: My ultimate sexual fantasy has evolved throughout the years. Currently, I want Matthew to blindfold and tie me up, set up a video camera, and orchestrate as many guys as he can to come dump their load in my ass. I don’t want to see who any of them are until I watch it later. That’s the fantasy I jerk-off to, even more than porn.
