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Before any official changes are made, Cole needs one more taste of Drew’s hairy dick. The attorney deepthroats Drew’s long cock before mounting the tattooed assistant and riding him. With his hole stretched and serviced, Cole turns the bareback session into a flip-fuck as he rims and drills Drew’s bushy hole. More position swapping between the two has Cole busting all over his fur-covered abs and Drew unloading his nut straight into the open mouth of his boss’ insatiable lawyer.
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If a man in a suit gets your attention then you’re probably very familiar with the work of the MENatPLAY studio – they’ve been fuelling our fantasies since 2004.
I caught up with Hector Camacho – the Executive Producer of MENatPLAY – for a behind-the-scenes look at what it takes to create some of the hottest action in the business.
“I began my career in corporate banking…” explains Hector, as we discuss how he ended up owning a gay porn studio.
“I love learning new things – I worked in operations, security, technology, and sales. Eventually, I got bored with banking and took a job with a gay dating app – that was a whole new industry to learn.”
“The owner of the dating app was interested in acquisitions…” continues Hector. “One of the businesses that we looked at was the MENatPLAY studio. I did all of the due diligence but ultimately the deal didn’t go through.”
“I moved on to other roles and eventually started my own consulting company…” continues Hector. “One of the first opportunities we looked at was MENatPLAY. I knew that it was an interesting business, the owners were looking to sell, and here we are.”
Given Hector’s background in the corporate sector, I was interested in whether he had a kink for men in suits and if that was the driving factor behind his interest in MENatPLAY.
“It’s not my personal fetish…” clarifies Hector. “To be honest with you, I was interested in the business because of the numbers – it was a successful site in a niche with little competition.”
“There is a proportion of our members that love the suit fetish – they understand the lining, the buttons, the shirts, the socks – even the specific way to knot a tie. They will sometimes ask us where we bought a specific pinstripe or something.”
“MENatPLAY is about suits and ties and socks, but it’s also about power play. A suit represents power.”
“The reason that we know that our MENatPLAY members are looking for more than just really nice suits is that we’ve been doing some testing with uniforms. We’ve filmed scenes with doctors and with military uniforms. These scenes perform just as well as the scenes where the guys are wearing suits.”
Talking about the appeal of power-plays led us into a conversation about aggression or coercion and why it’s important to be aware of the relevant regulations when depicting power being displayed.
“Compliance with laws and regulations is the number one challenge – it has been for a number of years…” confirms Hector. “Some of our biggest markets are now also requiring age-verification. It’s not what we want but it’s what the law requires however users understandably want their privacy.”
I was interested in the casting process used by MENatPLAY – particularly in the context of the power-play dynamic that they’re looking to tap into with their scenes.
“We start high-level – what are the scenes that are going to be shot this month…” explains Hector. “I then do some light scripting to help our production team understand the characters, they’ll then try and match that with the available locations and the potential models. We’ve done a much better job lately of connecting the script with the model.”
“I have a great production team that I can trust. Our director, Rex Marco, has been with the company for over 12 years. Alvaro Santana, who’s our chief stylist, really understands that niche and what the customers want in terms of the styling, in terms of the wardrobe.”
“In terms of the performers, we don’t have exclusives, we have headliners – guys like Dato Foland – he’s a great actor, very versatile, very easy to work with. Tom Storm is very authentic, very committed. Dani Robles has been in over 30 scenes. Jay Roberts has recently returned to filming after a number of years – his scenes are very popular.”
“We get about 25 requests each week from guys wanting to work with the studio. A lot of it comes down to logistics but they also need to fit the script.”
“In the beginning, MENatPLAY was based out of London but they subsequently moved operations to Malaga. We then bought the studio. It’s obviously easier to cast performers in the country where your studio is based. We fly performers in from across the EU, but if someone drops out at the last minute, we use local models. That means that where the studio used to use a lot of British models, we’re now using a lot of Spanish models.”
“We build relationships with these models. Our production team is talking to them weeks ahead. They’ll send them the script. We need to do fittings, so they’ll see our stylist and we’ll make any alterations required. Performers who film with us will have seen the team two or three times before they’re on set.”
I was interested in how Hector’s work with MENatPLAY has shaped him personally.
“I’ve always been an introvert…” explains Hector. “After 25 years of doing this, it’s made me more comfortable in who I am – not only as a gay man or an owner of a gay company, but as a pornographer.”
“I grew up in that era where being gay was bad, where the first thing people thought about porn was the really horrible stuff – I’ve always had these reservations.”
“It’s only been since I put myself front and centre with MENatPLAY that I’ve been able to say that I am proud. There’s nothing that I do that I’m uncomfortable with or that I’m not proud of.”
“We’ve only recently started putting my name on our videos – with the credit as executive producer. I would have never approved that three years ago.”
“In a way, that’s my way of being political, of standing up to conservatism, of standing up for our industry. There’s nothing wrong with this industry. There’s nothing wrong with what we do. We are doing it legally and ethically. I don’t need to be ashamed.”
NEXT DOOR BUDDIES: After some time out sweating in the sun, best buddies Jayden Marcos and Eddie Patrick arrive back at Jayden’s house. Jayden decides to go grab a quick shower, and Eddie can’t help but sneak a peek. He clearly likes what he sees while he watches Jayden rub every inch of his sexy body. When Jayden catches Eddie watching, will he send him home, or invite him to come play with a different kind of balls?
FAMILYCREEP: My Step-Bro The Tight End/ Ryder Owens and Miles Fallon have been step-brothers for years and Ryder is happy to have someone in his corner that has always had his back now that he’s playing professional football. Miles is staying with Ryder and attempts to make a move on him, but when Ryder is oblivious to his advances, he figures that sniffing his jock while from practice will suffice. When Ryder arrives home to catch Milesin the act, he jumps at the opportunity for some hole and pole, Ryder gladly gives Miles the fuck of his life.
Sex is great, but when you figure out what your kinks are then you can really take things next-level.
Describing something as a sexual kink is to acknowledge that what turns you on is a bit unconventional – it’s a deviation from the norm. What gets you off is a bit outside the boundaries of what we generally think of as vanilla sexual encounters.
The kink that we’re going to focus on here is erotic humiliation. Are you into it?
Having a sexual kink doesn’t mean that you’re necessarily unique – you’ll probably find that there’s lots of guys out there that share the kink that pushes your buttons. But how do you figure out if the guy that you’re hooking up with will be receptive to what really gets you going? What if he’s turned off by what turns you on?
Let’s get into it.
What is an Erotic Humiliation Kink?
There’s a fair bit of crossover between kinks and fetishes, but the distinction is that a kink is a sexual preference whereas a fetish is a sexual need. For example, if your kink is humiliation then being humiliated helps you to get off. If humiliation is your sexual fetish then the only way that you’re going to get off is if someone humiliates you.
What does humiliation look like in this context? If your kink is being humiliated, then that means that you get off on feeling degraded by your sexual partner. This can include verbal taunts and insults, and various forms of physical or psychological degradation.
Obviously, it’s consensual. Both parties have to be on-board with this type of role-play, even if – in the moment – it feels very real.
How Is An Erotic Humiliation Kink Different from Typical BDSM?
Humiliation falls within the broad umbrella of BDSM play because there’s a power-play at its core – humiliation is a form of domination and submission.
There’s lots of sexual kinks that are somewhere within the spectrum of BDSM encounters – BDSM isn’t all about spanking, bondage and whips. For example, rape play relies on the dominance and submission element of BDSM but may not require physical bondage.
In addition to the power-play, humiliation role-play can also tap into complex emotions such as vulnerability and shame. It’s a potent sexual cocktail that – in the right hands – can be incredibly arousing.
How Do I Tell My Hookup I Have a Humiliation Kink?
The obvious if somewhat boring answer is that it’s all about communication. Having an upfront conversation is the easiest and most straightforward way to share with each other what you’re into and creating the dynamic that can help you both get your kink on.
In reality, it’s pretty rare that we get to have those conversations in a rational and clear-headed kind of way – particularly if you’re using hook-up apps to connect with other guys.
One solution is to use the technology. If you can articulate your kinks in your bio or in your DM conversations with potential hook-ups, then that’s going to increase your odds of having an encounter with someone who gets where you’re coming from.
With any form of kink or gay fetish, consent is essential. If you can cover off the consent question in your DMs before your hook-up, then that will make your encounter much hotter. If you’ve told him that you want to be humiliated and he’s confirmed that he’s up for it, then when you actually get together it’s game-on and you can get down to business.
Once Brought Up, Educate and Normalise
If you’re hooking up with someone who’s new to your specific kink, you may have to do a bit of education and training to get them up to speed with what you need them to do.
Be prepared that you might encounter some kink-shaming in this process, but talking openly about the kinks that get us off is a way of normalising that some of us like our sex a bit spicy.
But you also need to be prepared to make compromises. Maybe the guy that you’re planning to hook up with isn’t into it – that’s cool, you either need to find a different guy or accept that you won’t get to explore your kink in this encounter. You’ve got choices to make.
What Are the Best Ways to Act on My Humiliation Kink?
In a way, physical acts of humiliation are fairly straightforward. Maybe you want the guy to spit on your face, to slap your face, or to force your face into his armpit or whatever. It’s a pretty clear dom/sub kind of dynamic – make me feel less-than, without actually physically harming me. Hot, right?
Psychological humiliation is a bit harder to define but can take you next-level in terms of kink turn-ons.
At a basic level, you can match some verbal insults to the physical humiliation that is being inflicted. If he’s spitting on you and slapping you, it makes sense that he would call you a faggot in that process. Using demeaning and offensive language is another way of illustrating the dom/sub dynamic and demonstrating that you are less-than in this encounter.
Role-plays are a great way to create opportunities for psychological humiliation while also giving clear boundaries as to the form that the humiliation is going to take. For a humiliation kink, the more authentic you can make the role-play – the closer to reality – then the more of a turn-on it’s going to be. For example, it could be a boss/employee role-play, but use the language of your actual job – you really want to tap into whatever vulnerability and shame that you’re feeling in order to really unlock the erotic power of this kink.
Cuckold fantasies often include a strong element of humiliation. The person being cucked is often turned on by being told – and seeing – that their husband is getting more satisfying sex from someone else.
One of the most common humiliation scenarios is Small Penis Humiliation. Obviously, it’s totally fine whatever size or shape your penis is, but some guys really get off on being humiliated about the size of their penis – tapping into whatever shame or trauma they’ve internalised about their dick.
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He’s down on his knees, propped up against my muscular thighs for support opening up his throat to take every inch of it. Looking down at that cute face, completely fixated on taking me deeper, was such a turn on to witness. I could even see the reflection of my hard cock in the boy’s glasses!
I flipped Alex over onto his back, his small frame curling in on itself beneath me, somehow making him look even smaller as I opened up his legs to get my face between his cheeks. The tiny gay bottom wiggled and writhed under the assault from my wet tongue. I grab hold of my hard cock and line myself up to penetrate, our groans matching each other as I close the gap between us.
Alex grabs hold of the back of the chair, his legs thrown over his head as his tight hole slowly loosens up around my invading member. Of course, one position is never enough fucking a pocket gay twink like this little guy. Alex was a guy who was always wanting more and I was willing to offer it.
