Is 2025 a year when you do things differently? Or are you already smashing it?
The beginning of a new year is as good a time as any to reflect on who you are and what’s important to you – particularly when it comes to our need for intimacy and sexual fulfilment.
Where does safe sex fit into that picture?
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Why have safe gay sex in 2025?
The starting point for this conversation really needs to be establishing what we mean when we talk about safe sex.
If you’re old-school, you’ll know of condoms as the foundation of the sexual health campaigns that shaped us for generations.
With the emergence of PrEP and TasP, we’ve now got much more effective tools to prevent the transmission of HIV, but the safe sex conversation is a lot broader than just one specific virus.
Thinking about safe sex in its broadest sense is not only important self-care, but it’s also ensuring that you’re bringing good karma to all of your sexual encounters.
Being informed about the latest developments in sexual health also helps to engage meaningfully with people who appear to have misinformed opinions about tools such as PrEP, or insert value-judgements in how gay men choose to have sex.
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Do I only have to have non-penetrative sex to practice safe sex?
While gay non-penetrative sex does lower your exposure to some STIs, it seems self-defeating to base your choice of sexual experience based solely on a risk-calculation.
If you’re opting to stick to handjobs, footjobs, or gay circle jerks because you’re worried about STIs, you’re missing out on all sorts of sexual pleasure. Don’t allow yourself to be limited by anxiety or shame.
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Should I still use condoms for gay sex hookups in 2025?
Condoms do provide some protection against some STIs and there’s a range of reasons why someone may want to use condoms during a sexual encounter.
However, with the protection provided by PrEP and TasP against the transmission of HIV, most guys are choosing not to use condoms – you may find that suggesting a condom is considered a deal-breaker or at least a boner-killer.
If you’re wanting to use a condom, some situations will be more suited to that than others. For example, a one-on-one hookup where you can have a bit of a conversation about sexual health will be more conducive to condom use than anonymous encounters at gay bathhouses or rest stops.
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How do I have safe sex, taking bareback loads in group sex hookups?
It might sound like an oxymoron – you want to be bred by multiple loads but you’re also focused on safe sex.
The reality is that those two mindsets are compatible.
Whether you’re arranging a house-party for group sex hookups or you’re climbing into a sling in a sex-on-premises darkroom, it’s still important to be thinking about your personal health and wellbeing.
Each of us needs to take personal responsibility for our sexual health. The foundation of that is regular testing, and then knowing which tools best suit our needs. For example, it could be PrEP or TasP, and you may plan a course of DoxyPEP to minimise the risk of STIs.
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Should I Consider PrEP in 2025?
PrEP stands for Pre-exposure prophylaxis. This is a medication that you can take to prevent the acquisition of HIV.
You may see PrEP referred to as Truvada and Descovy – these are the brand names of the medication that has been approved for PrEP use.
PrEP is more effective than condoms – this has been confirmed by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention – the US agency responsible for controlling the introduction and spread of infectious diseases.
Studies have confirmed that instances of PrEP failing to protect against HIV are very rare. Researchers have also found that condom use errors – such as breakage or slippage – occur in up to 40% of sexual encounters.
Is generic Truvada just as safe as a gay safe sex option?
The generic equivalent of Truvada is just as effective as the branded option in terms of preventing the acquisition of HIV. The generic or unbranded medication will be less expensive which means that it is more accessible for those that have to pay for medication or who may not be as financially secure. Accessibility is particularly important for queer youth and communities where there is socio-economic inequality.
What is the 2-1-1 Method for PrEP?
If you’re taking PrEP, there are two ways in which it can be taken.
The simplest way is to take it every day. That way, whenever you have a sexual encounter, you know that you’re covered.
However, it has been shown that taking an on-demand dosage is equally as effective. This is sometimes referred to as the 2-1-1 method.
If you’re just wanting to take PrEP on demand, the 2-1-1 method requires you to take the medication as follows:
Before Sex: Take two pills between 2 and 24 hours before anticipated sexual activity. Taking the pills closer to 24 hours before sex is preferable, but they can be taken as early as 2 hours before.
After Sex:
Take one pill 24 hours after the initial double dose.
Take another pill 24 hours after the previous dose (i.e., 48 hours after the initial double dose).
Should I use DoxyPEP and PrEP for Double Protection?
A DoxyPEP routine involves taking a single 200 mg dose of Doxycycline, an antibiotic, within 72 hours after unprotected sexual activity to reduce the risk of acquiring bacterial sexually transmitted infections (STIs) such as syphilis, chlamydia, and gonorrhea.
This is using doxycycline as a post-exposure prophylaxis, which is why it’s referred to as DoxyPEP.
DoxyPEP can help protect against some STIs, but not all of them.
You may find that your doctor is hesitant to prescribe you doxycycline as overuse of antibiotics can contribute to increasing resistance to antibiotics. When discussing your sexual health with your doctor, it’s important to be up-front and transparent about what you’re asking for and why you believe it is appropriate for you.
Is Doxycycline safe and effective?
Yes! In fact, a recent study found that individuals receiving doxycycline postexposure prophylaxis (doxyPEP) experienced significant declines in bacterial sexually transmitted infections (STIs) outside of clinical trials, suggesting that broader implementation of doxyPEP may help decrease population-level STI transmission.
Among doxyPEP recipients, the study saw some sexy results that makes doxy and Truvada or generic PrEP together a horny combo to get you fucking all night with less worry about the next STI panel at your local STI doctor; quarterly STI positivity significantly declined from before to after starting doxyPEP by 79% for chlamydia, 80% for syphilis, and 12% for gonorrhea.
Don’t wait; get fucking and sucking by thinking about your health and being proactive about how to keep yourself in tip-top shape when planning your next orgy, risky hookup, or cum dump at the bathhouse.
You have the power to be a slut, a totally gooned up fuck toy, without fear or anxiety. Get into it!
SEAN CODY: Bearded hunks Hayden and Xander are hungry after their workout, but as they chat in the locker room about where to get dinner, they decide they’re even hungrier for each other!
Hayden sucks the tall blond top, and Xander rims the hairy bottom before fucking him doggystyle. Hayden gets in some extra squats as he rides Xander till he cums, then it’s his turn to top as they flip fuck.
He drills Xander on all fours, then on his back till he cums again, and gets on his knees to take Xander’s load.
SEAN CODY: Zak sees Scott check him out as he walks into the gym, so he makes sure to give him a good view of his ass as he bends over a block to start stretching.
Zak sucks the top, and Scott gets him naked and bent over the bench to rim his hole before penetrating him.
The horny bottom gets fucked in missionary and then rides the top. Scott pounds Zak doggystyle till he cums, and the bottom stretches out on the floor to stroke himself off.
FALCON STUDIOS: Just as Johnny Ford is about to drop a huge pipe, Logan Stevens rushes over to help Johnny keep it from falling. When they realize they’re all alone, Logan whips out his cock and tells Johnny, ‘get down on that too.’ Johnny does as he’s told and hits his knees to suck on Logan’s girthy uncut cock. Sucking Logan off is fun, but Johnny wants some too. He bends over to let Logan lick his hole from his crack to his sack. It’s not long before Logan stands up and mounts Johnny’s tight ass.
Logan starts off slow, but gradually turns it up to an all-out, relentless pounding of Johnny’s asshole. Going ass to mouth, Johnny gets down and deepthroats the cock that was just deep inside of him. With Johnny on his stomach, Logan gets behind and mounts up again, drilling Johnny’s prostate as he fucks down into him. After a few more intense exchanges, Johnny lays back to let Logan drill some more until he covers his ass with cum. When Logan shoves the load back in, Johnny goes over the edge and nuts on his abs.
Cruising for some man-on-man action is one of the primal ways in which horned-up men have connected with each other through the ages.
In this production from Raging Stallion, the art of cruising and the encounters that follow are expertly narrated by Derek Kage in podcast mode. In real-life, Derek has a podcast called My Sultry Stories so this is a smart cross-over as art imitates life.
Written by Ben Rush (who did our fave Christmas gay porn a few years back) and directed by Tony Dimarco, Cruising Confidential gives us five separate scenes, linked together by Derek’s narration – it’s a bit of a retro device that we often saw in straight porn in the VHS era, but it also works perfectly in this context.
As you’d expect from a studio of Raging Stallion’s calibre, all of the action is presented with top-tier production quality, unlike the gay homemade porn we see in the OnlyFans era. The porn lighting enhances the actors, shots are framed so we can see exactly what’s going down and get as close to the action as possible, and the sound design gives us a cinema-level experience – this is professional porn in every respect. Two and half hours of professional porn featuring some of the biggest names in the industry. You’re going to want to grease up and put some time aside to really enjoy this one.
Let’s break down the scenes included in this production.
Scene 1: Drew Valentino and Ian Holms
Scene 1 gives us Drew Valentino cruising for cock in an industrial estate car-park where he soon finds Ian Holms ready for some action.
Both Drew and Ian have the kind of deep voice and simmering sexual energy that make anonymous gay hookup encounters so addictive.
After a bit of eye contact to confirm that they’re both on the same page, Drew has his cock out stroking as Ian approaches the car.
Ian reaches through the window and gets a feel for Drew’s cock but soon can’t resist opening the car door and putting his mouth to work.
Ian gives Drew a wet, sloppy blow-job while Drew gets verbal and urges him on.
“Suck that fucking cock…” growls Drew, pushing Ian’s head down hard.
Confident that they’re not going to be disturbed, Drew and Ian pull their t-shirts off. These lads have clearly been spending time in the gym cruising for dick and Ian is keen to get a taste of Drew’s musky pits while continuing to give his cock plenty of attention.
What really turns me on is watching horned-up guys making out. Drew and Ian give us a bit of that but Drew is more interested in burying his face into Ian’s hairy ass. This man does not trim and he does not wax. He’s got the kind of ass that you just want to immerse your entire body in and that’s pretty much what Drew does – eating Ian’s hole like it’s a sloppy In-N-Out burger.
I could probably get off just watching Drew rimming Ian, but when Drew started to use his fingers as well as his tongue it was clearly just going to get better.
“Uh huh – open it up…” moaned Ian. “Get in there!”
I love it when a dude is in total slut mode and just wants his cunt used.
Watching Drew sink his cock into Ian’s ass nearly pushed me over the edge but I was determined to try and extend my bate for as long as possible.
This kind of gay car park sex is hot to watch – Ian supporting himself on the passenger seat while Drew was standing outside the car fucking him hard. They switched positions so that Drew was leaning back against the car – thrusting into Ian’s ass like he was some kind of fuck-toy.
Ian jacked his cock while being fucked – shooting his load over the ground, the camera giving us a POV shot as the cum rained down.
Finally ready to cum, Drew pushed Ian to his knees – blowing his load all over Ian’s face so that Ian could lap it all up. I came as Drew and Ian kissed hungrily – the taste of Drew’s load still on their tongues.
Buck invites Zachary in to watch a football game. As the beer flows, the sexual tension increases.
Making his move, Buck flips the channel from football to gay porn and it is game on.
The fantasy here is that Buck is a straight dude who knows that Zachary is hungry for cock. As Buck pulls out his hefty schlong and guides Zachary down onto it, it’s clear that both these guys know the deal.
“Suck that cock…” growls Buck, as Zachary gags on the veiny member.
Buck signals that he isn’t going to be satisfied with just a quick gay blow-job – reaching down the back of Zachary’s jeans and exploring his ass.
“Fucking slutty neighbour…” grins Buck, stripping off his shirt and giving us an opportunity to admire his signature headphones tattoo.
It’s hot to watch Zachary tonguing Buck’s ass while Buck strokes his big cock. Buck’s hole has been shaved smooth and looks like an absolute treat.
For a “straight” dude, Buck seems to be pretty bicurious. Not only does he really get off on having his ass eaten, he’s soon sucking on Zachary’s cock and it’s clearly not the first time he’s had a cock in his mouth.
Soon enough, it’s time to put Zachary’s ass to work. Buck uses his tongue and his fingers to get Zachary wet and ready for cock.
Bent over a small table, Buck pounds Zachary. Shifting position, Buck sits back on the sofa and Zachary straddles him and rides his cock.
Flipping the script, Buck offers his ass up to Zachary and Zachary’s cock slides in balls-deep. Buck’s cunt looks so good taking cock!
“Pound that hole…” moans Buck, his face pressed into the sofa. “Fuck me harder!”
They flip again and Buck is back fucking Zachary.
“Fuck me like a whore…” urges Zachary.
Eventually, Buck blew his load – spraying his load all over Zachary before pushing his greasy cock back inside Zachary’s stretched hole. That pushed Zachary over the edge, and also me – both of us blowing our loads across our stomach.
It was a nice touch that the porn kept playing on the TV in the background of the scene.
The scene kicks off with Luca in the shower while Rodrigo is getting changed. Luca is washing himself like he’s headlining a boylesque revue in Vegas. Rodrigo joins him in the shower and provides a bit of a soap and suds show of his own.
Rodrigo has the kind of cock that makes everyone stop and stare and soon enough Luca makes a grab for it while Rodrigo is clearly more interested in Luca’s butt.
Pushing Luca up against the shower wall, Rodrigo dives his tongue deep into Luca’s cunt.
Turning the water off, Rodrigo seems pretty confident that they’re not going to be disturbed so he takes his time pushing his tongue in between Luca’s muscular cheeks.
Rodrigo gives Luca a chance to gorge on his cock – it’s got the kind of curve that means it goes all the way down your throat, really testing the gag reflex.
It’s while Luca is noisily trying to deep-throat Rodrigo that Derek Kage walks into the locker-room. Derek wastes no time in getting naked and getting in on the action – presenting his cock for Luca’s attention.
As Derek pulls Luca up for a kiss, Rodrigo takes the opportunity to drive his cock deep into Luca’s ass.
Maybe Luca is a particularly good actor but it looked like he was struggling a bit to take every inch of Rodrigo, or maybe he was just really enjoying it – panting and moaning as he held on to Derek for support.
As he got used to the way that Rodrigo was stretching him open, Luca was able to turn his attention to Derek’s cock – being spit-roasted by these two studs is every slut’s fantasy come true.
Spinning Luca around, it was Derek’s turn to fuck him while Rodrigo thrust his cock deep into Luca’s throat.
The next position saw Rodrigo on his back, Luca sitting on Rodrigo’s face, while Derek sucked Rodrigo’s cock. Luca soon joined Derek to share slurping duties on Rodrigo’s fuck-stick before Derek stepped up to fuck Rodrigo’s face for a bit.
Then it was back to work for Luca who was on his back being fucked by Rodrigo. We got a great view of Luca’s cunt-lips being dragged back and forth by Rodrigo’s thick cock-shaft – this was so fucking hot.
Eventually, Rodrigo blew a big load all over Luca’s smooth balls. Soon after, Derek unloaded on Luca’s tongue, which Luca eagerly swallowed. Rodrigo toyed with Luca’s hole until he came all over himself. Hot.
Luca is a hot slut who looks awesome getting fucked like a whore.
It’s a bit of a complicated set-up which saw two truckers having to unexpectedly share a hotel room.
Alpha had a shower and came out without a towel which was pretty much the green light for Riley to get on his knees and suck cock.
Positioning Riley on his back on the bed, Alpha was able to throat-fuck deep and hard.
Moving into a 69 position gave Riley access to Alpha’s ass and his tongue went exactly where his tongue needed to go. This was an extended gay rimming session, with Alpha really sitting on Riley’s face – urging him to “get on in there” as his tongue pushed in.
Obviously, any porn that you make isn’t going to please everyone. For me, I would have liked a bit more dramatic tension or edge to this scene – something to set it apart from similar scenes that we’ve seen before.
Even though it was Alpha who had all the pre-work done on his hole, it was Riley that got fucked. Alpha gave it to him doggy-style for quite a while, before sliding him onto his side and continuing to drill him deep, then finishing with a wheelbarrow while Riley stroked his hard cock.
Riley came first – blowing his load across himself as Alpha continued fucking. Alpha followed soon after – pulling out so he could spatter his load across Riley’s hairy body.
Scene 5 gives us more of Derek Kage. Cole Connor is his sound engineer and Derek’s stories – and dulcet tone – have Cole all juiced up.
This was a really powerful set-up – descriptive gay audio porn but with the visuals to match. Derek’s narration guiding Cole’s actions.
Cole undressed Derek before dropping to his knees to suck the veiny cock that he’d been fantasising about.
The cock-sucking was wet and sloppy – Cole spitting on the cock, using his hand to get the shaft wet and lubricated. Derek’s cock was so hard it was bouncing.
Cole used his tongue to toy with Derek’s foreskin – a classic move that is always fun to see on camera.
Then it was Derek’s turn to suck Cole – pushing him down onto the black leather sofa so that he could slurp up and down his cock-shaft.
Derek then turned his attention to Cole’s ass – lifting his legs to expose his fuck-hole and then slurping his tongue right in there. Seeing Cole’s hairy hole wet with Derek’s spit was a total turn-on.
Cole was eager to get fucked and Derek teased him with the head of his cock before deciding that he wanted Cole to fuck him him first.
Straddling Cole, Derek lowered himself down and rode Cole’s cock hard.
Taking a break from fucking, Cole repositioned Derek on the sofa and then eagerly rimmed Derek’s stretched cunt before slamming his cock back into him.
Flipping positions, Derek got behind Cole and drove his cock in hard and deep.
This is when Derek came – blowing his load all over Cole’s gaping ass before fucking the load back into him.
Cole got himself off while riding Derek’s still rock-hard cock – the cum squelching in his sloppy cunt.
I really liked the way that the scene closed out with Derek back on the mic, recounting the story for his listeners..
NEXT DOOR STUDIOS: Jayden Marcos heard a lot about the local park being great for some extracurricular activities. He finally gets the gumption up to explore that devious side by him and just as he finds a big dick top hidden in the woods in the form of Kane Fox.
This seasoned vet is more than happy to guide the newbie on the ropes of cruising in the park…
NAKED SWORD: Deep inside this secretive nightclub, businessman Sir Peter is looking to blow off some steam by having a stranger blow his massively oversized cock.
He quickly finds his man, go-go dancer Lobo Carreira, and is soon stretching out the performer’s perfectly accommodating hole with everything from his own big dick to loose pool balls to his burly fist.
Still in the middle of the underground lounge, Sir Peter continues to dominate the first-time fisting bottom until he’s pulling out his massive uncut cock to shoot cum all over Lobo’s newly exposed and bright red rosebud.
