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How to Tell Your Hookup You Have an Erotic Humiliation Kink?

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Sex is great, but when you figure out what your kinks are then you can really take things next-level.

Describing something as a sexual kink is to acknowledge that what turns you on is a bit unconventional – it’s a deviation from the norm. What gets you off is a bit outside the boundaries of what we generally think of as vanilla sexual encounters.

The kink that we’re going to focus on here is erotic humiliation. Are you into it?

Having a sexual kink doesn’t mean that you’re necessarily unique – you’ll probably find that there’s lots of guys out there that share the kink that pushes your buttons. But how do you figure out if the guy that you’re hooking up with will be receptive to what really gets you going? What if he’s turned off by what turns you on?

Let’s get into it.

What is an Erotic Humiliation Kink?

There’s a fair bit of crossover between kinks and fetishes, but the distinction is that a kink is a sexual preference whereas a fetish is a sexual need. For example, if your kink is humiliation then being humiliated helps you to get off. If humiliation is your sexual fetish then the only way that you’re going to get off is if someone humiliates you.

What does humiliation look like in this context? If your kink is being humiliated, then that means that you get off on feeling degraded by your sexual partner. This can include verbal taunts and insults, and various forms of physical or psychological degradation.

Obviously, it’s consensual. Both parties have to be on-board with this type of role-play, even if – in the moment – it feels very real.

How Is An Erotic Humiliation Kink Different from Typical BDSM?

Humiliation falls within the broad umbrella of BDSM play because there’s a power-play at its core – humiliation is a form of domination and submission.

There’s lots of sexual kinks that are somewhere within the spectrum of BDSM encounters – BDSM isn’t all about spanking, bondage and whips. For example, rape play relies on the dominance and submission element of BDSM but may not require physical bondage.

In addition to the power-play, humiliation role-play can also tap into complex emotions such as vulnerability and shame. It’s a potent sexual cocktail that – in the right hands – can be incredibly arousing.

How Do I Tell My Hookup I Have a Humiliation Kink?

The obvious if somewhat boring answer is that it’s all about communication. Having an upfront conversation is the easiest and most straightforward way to share with each other what you’re into and creating the dynamic that can help you both get your kink on.

In reality, it’s pretty rare that we get to have those conversations in a rational and clear-headed kind of way – particularly if you’re using hook-up apps to connect with other guys.

One solution is to use the technology. If you can articulate your kinks in your bio or in your DM conversations with potential hook-ups, then that’s going to increase your odds of having an encounter with someone who gets where you’re coming from.

With any form of kink or gay fetish, consent is essential. If you can cover off the consent question in your DMs before your hook-up, then that will make your encounter much hotter. If you’ve told him that you want to be humiliated and he’s confirmed that he’s up for it, then when you actually get together it’s game-on and you can get down to business.

Once Brought Up, Educate and Normalise

If you’re hooking up with someone who’s new to your specific kink, you may have to do a bit of education and training to get them up to speed with what you need them to do.

Be prepared that you might encounter some kink-shaming in this process, but talking openly about the kinks that get us off is a way of normalising that some of us like our sex a bit spicy.

But you also need to be prepared to make compromises. Maybe the guy that you’re planning to hook up with isn’t into it – that’s cool, you either need to find a different guy or accept that you won’t get to explore your kink in this encounter. You’ve got choices to make.

What Are the Best Ways to Act on My Humiliation Kink?

In a way, physical acts of humiliation are fairly straightforward. Maybe you want the guy to spit on your face, to slap your face, or to force your face into his armpit or whatever. It’s a pretty clear dom/sub kind of dynamic – make me feel less-than, without actually physically harming me. Hot, right?

Psychological humiliation is a bit harder to define but can take you next-level in terms of kink turn-ons.

At a basic level, you can match some verbal insults to the physical humiliation that is being inflicted. If he’s spitting on you and slapping you, it makes sense that he would call you a faggot in that process. Using demeaning and offensive language is another way of illustrating the dom/sub dynamic and demonstrating that you are less-than in this encounter.

Role-plays are a great way to create opportunities for psychological humiliation while also giving clear boundaries as to the form that the humiliation is going to take. For a humiliation kink, the more authentic you can make the role-play – the closer to reality – then the more of a turn-on it’s going to be. For example, it could be a boss/employee role-play, but use the language of your actual job – you really want to tap into whatever vulnerability and shame that you’re feeling in order to really unlock the erotic power of this kink.

Cuckold fantasies often include a strong element of humiliation. The person being cucked is often turned on by being told – and seeing – that their husband is getting more satisfying sex from someone else.

One of the most common humiliation scenarios is Small Penis Humiliation. Obviously, it’s totally fine whatever size or shape your penis is, but some guys really get off on being humiliated about the size of their penis – tapping into whatever shame or trauma they’ve internalised about their dick.

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Written by Gareth Johnson

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WHO WOULD YOU CHOOSE? Vincent OReilly 0R Sonny Blonde?

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HOT HOUSE: Vincent O’Reilly is wearing nothing but a revealing thong as he pops a golf ball out of his cheeks and putt-putts around with his hung buddy, Sonny Blonde. The mini-golfing doesn’t last long though and soon, with the Southern California sun beating down, Vincent moves to the center of the yard to suck off Sonny’s impressively big dick.

Sonny reciprocates the summertime oral pleasure by burying his face between Vincent’s cheeks and manhandling his ass before sliding in his girthy member. Vincent takes it from behind and then goes for a bareback ride on Sonny. Then, the duo discovers that both of their dicks are so big that Sonny is actually able to suck off Vincent while the bottom’s hole rides and moves up and down his raw rod.

Once Vincent is on his back, both men begin to nut all over Vincent’s body so Vincent is left lying there covered only in rays of sun and ropes of cum.

UMMMMMMMM… WOW!!!!!!!

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Hot Cocktale: Big Rick’s Video

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When I was 20 I realized there was a whole underground world of men having secret, anonymous gay sex in random locations. They called it cruising and as soon as I found out about it, I was more than intrigued, I was downright hot to trot. I’d been jerking off to the one and only gay porn magazine I had when I finally read one of those funny short stories they put in the back for filler content. It was all about cruising for oral sex at secret glory holes. So I decided to scour my town for similar spots and eventually achieved the three most significant moments in my young life as a gay cruiser. What I call “the three steps to heaven”.

Step one. The gym. I had been going to the gym for a year when I realized guys had sex there. It was late at night and I was alone in the locker room with one other guy, a beefy muscular type. I was of course horny all the time and totally into men, so I used to hang out in the locker room and check out all the naked guys walking around. That’s why I used to go during high traffic times of day, so I could see as many swinging dicks as I could. Little did I know that it was the slow hours, late at night, or early morning when guys found opportunity to play together. 

I was about to head to the showers, standing naked at my locker and wrapping a towel around my waist, when I noticed the guy checking me out. He was across the room, totally naked and sporting a huge erection! I remember feeling shy and embarrassed for whatever reason. So, in an attempt to look away, I accidentally made direct eye contact with him. He smiled and winked then nodded his head indicating I should follow him to the showers. He walked away but before rounding the corner, he looked back and nodded again. As if in a trance, or being pulled by an unseen force, I dropped my towel on the bench and walked naked to the showers. By the time I met up with him, I was hard as a rock, too. We stood there in the group shower area right next to each other. We both lathered up while staring at each other’s big dicks. After a minute he moved closer to me and pointed his dick in my direction so it brushed against mine. We stood there “sword fighting” while showering until he put one hand on the back of my neck.

“Kiss it,” he said. Without hesitation, I leaned down and licked his cockhead. It was amazingly hard and I couldn’t help but wrap my lips around the head while licking it. I had no idea what I was doing but he responded to it. In fact he warned me he would cum soon, “getting close,” he whispered. So I stood upright again and we both jerked ourselves until we came. We shot our loads onto the tile floor where our cum mingled then washed down the drain. He thanked me politely and left. I finished up and left, too. I never saw him again but I kept going to the gym at that same hour in the hopes I’d score again. I never did.

Step two. The park. I was killing time on my lunch break walking around this small local lake. When I got back to the parking lot, I walked by an old man sitting in his car and caught him jerking off. He was smiling at me and totally knew I was watching him. Instead of going to my car I stood nearby and watched him. It was really hot, even though I could tell he was a dirty old man. I watched, inching closer and closer, waiting to see him cum. But he abruptly stuffed his fat prick back in his pants, got out of his car and walked toward the lake. I watched him go into some bushes under a tree and assumed I was meant to follow him. So I walked in that direction realizing that even though it was off the trail, people had been in and out of those bushes a lot. I could see the tall grass was pushed down and the bushes had a small natural opening into a shaded covered area. Sure enough, the old man was standing there with his pants around his ankles waiting for me.

“Come on,” he said in a hushed voice, “hurry up.” Feeling a sense of urgency that could only be matched by my intense horniness, I dropped to my knees in front of him and let him stick his cock into my mouth. I wrapped my lips tightly around his thick shaft and began to suck like I had with the guy in the gym showers. But this old man was more forceful and he shoved his cock deep into my throat. I did my best not to gag, but fortunately he was quick. Before I could even think to react, he began to cum, right down my throat! I pulled my head back enough to catch most of his cum load on my tongue. It was warm, thick and luscious. I closed my eyes savoring the taste as I let the juicy seed slide back down my throat. I licked him clean. Honestly, I couldn’t get enough. It was as if I’d gotten drunk from his cum and all I wanted was to suck on his cock until he produced more. But he withdrew his prick and took off back to his car. I patiently waited, making sure the coast was clear, then left myself.

On the way home I couldn’t stop smiling. I was so happy, so proud of what I’d done. I’d finally sucked a cock to completion. I’d tasted cum and actually swallowed it! But more importantly, I could add the park to my list of cruising spots. I went back to that place as much as I could, but I never saw that old man again. I did jerk off in my car a lot, but I never saw anyone else around. It actually made sense. Summer was nearly over and the trees were losing their leaves, so the cover they provided for cruising was gone. Oh well, I thought, I just needed to keep looking.

Step three. The Rest stop. I’d been visiting my family an hour from where I lived and on the way home I had to stop and take a piss. I was about to burst as I drove down this exit for miles before finally finding the place. It was an old rundown building and I thought maybe it was out of service except that there was at least one other car parked out front. So I quickly went in and found relief at the urinal. Less than a minute later I heard a toilet flush from a nearby urinal. Then a man came out and instead of washing his hands he stood next to me at the very next urinal. And, instead of taking a piss, he stood there stroking a nice, big hard cock.

“Nice,” I said, pleasantly surprised. I shook mine then began jerking with him. My heart fluttered and my ears became warm as I realized I’d stumbled upon yet another cruising spot. We were alone in the middle of nowhere in easily the most private setting I’d been in for sex. I didn’t know exactly what I was expected to do in that specific place, and so I debated internally whether, or not I should reach over and grab his cock. Luckily he took the initiative and rubbed my cheek with the back of his hand. 

“You’re cute,” he said, “wanna play?”

“Yeah,” I said, leaning into his touch. Then he stepped away and went back to the stall he’d emerged from earlier. I took the hint and followed him. Once there he quickly closed the door behind us, pushed me against the wall and kissed me hard on the mouth. I’d never kissed a man before, but there I was with my arms wrapped around his shoulders and letting our tongues swirl. It was a juicy wet slobbery kiss and we began licking each other’s lips like animals. Our hard cocks pressed together and soon he was leaking precum onto my shaft. He used it for lube and began jerking us together as we both produced more drops of precum. He began scooping it up and feeding it to me while we made out, which drove me absolutely wild. It was official, cum is intoxicating. After a while he began smearing cum all over my ass. I’d never even once considered anal sex but I was suddenly more than willing to let him finger my ass.

“I wanna fuck you,” he growled.

“I…I’ve never…” I stuttered, willing, yet nervous.

“Don’t worry,” he assured me, “I’ll make it wet.” With that we tore off our clothes until we were totally naked. I spun around and pressed my hands flat against the wall while he managed his stiff cock into my slimey cum-covered ass. He spit on his shaft as it inched its way in until he was balls deep, then he began steadily fucking me until he finally reached orgasm. I admit, there was a moment of discomfort, to say the least, but eventually it turned into one of the most pleasurable experiences of my young life. The way his meat filled my tender, eager hole was so erotic that it made me practically fall in love with him — a total stranger — right on the spot. “Want it inside,” he asked, “want me to cum in your ass?”

“Fuck yes,” I begged, pushing back into him as he began throbbing and pulsating. He gripped my hips tightly as he emptied his balls deep inside of me. It was fucking glorious and I wanted to stay there in that dirty restroom fucking all day and night with that total stranger and his rock hard cummy cock. But alas, we made our exit and I headed back home with yet another cruising spot added to my list. But I couldn’t see myself driving nearly an hour away for a quickie, so I looked harder locally until I finally realized…the adult bookstore on the edge of town. They sold porn there, so to me, it made sense that horny men would gather there. maybe I’d manage to meet someone inside, or learn about a new cruising spot. I know what you’re thinking, and you’re right…at that time I had no idea what a video arcade was. But I was about to find out.

Heaven. The arcade. I was standing in the DVD section pretending to browse the selection when I noticed the dark entryway just passed the cashier leading to a back room. The sign above the doorway said “ARCADE. $10/HR”. I noticed men coming and going and it struck me immediately that I had to go back there and investigate. I just knew men were hooking up back there! I went straight to the cashier and gave him a ten dollar bill.

“I was wondering when you’d realize.” He said.

“What?” I asked.

“The arcade,” he said smiling, “I was wondering when you’d realize you can watch the porns back there.

“Oh cool,” I said, “yeah I’m a newbie.”

“I can tell,” he said, standing up and adjusting his crotch and I could immediately see why he was called “Big Rick”, apparently he had a big dick. He caught me staring and said, “you’re hungry, huh?”

“I, um,” I stuttered nervously, “yeah, I am.”

“Come on, let me show you the back,” he said, “since it’s your first time, don’t want you to get lost.” Then he turned and called a coworker to watch the desk. He took me by the hand and literally led me into the back room, a dark hallway lined with doors. It was as if he was my guide into an all-new fantasy world filled with opportunity beyond each of those thresholds. We stopped at an opened door and he stepped aside so I could enter. It was a comfortably small booth with a video monitor playing hardcore gay porn. There was a little bench with a vinyl cushion on top. He came in with me and closed the door. I sat down and he stood in front of me unzipping his pants. “So,” he said as he reached inside, “what do you think of the arcade?”

I never even answered him. I just leaned forward at the very moment he whipped out his giant monster cock. Though I had little experience, I grabbed that beast with both hands and began sucking all over it like I was a veteran cocksucker. I licked the shaft up and down and swirled tongue around his juicy piss slit until he was dripping with my spit. I worked on that wet cock for several minutes until he was hard as fuck.

“It’s so big,” I gasped, while sucking, “I love this huge cock.”

“I can tell,” he said, while softly patting my head, “you love to suck don’t you?”

“Oh yes, I do,” I said, “I can’t believe we’re allowed to do this back here.”

“This is why I include the arcade,” he said, beginning to thrust in and out of my mouth, “lots of guys want to score, myself included.” I could tell his big dick was about to cum. He was dripping with pre-sperm and somehow his boner managed to get even thicker and stiffer while I slobbered all over it. “You want it?” He asked me. “You want the load?” Again, without any words, I answered with my mouth by clamping my lips firmly around his cockhead and using my tongue to message his load out. It didn’t take long before that beast of a cock was throbbing and pumping ream after massive creamy ream of cum right into my mouth. “Aw fuck yea,” he moaned holding my head in place, “swallow it, boy, swallow it all up.” I did as I was told and gulp down his plentiful load, although some did manage to run out of the corner of my mouth. I quickly scooped it up, reached down my shorts, and used it on my own stiff prick.

“Thank you,” I said looking up into his eyes as he stuffed his cock back into his pants. “I guess I should go.”

“Why?” he asked, “stay as long as you want. You haven’t even cum yet yourself, man, there’s no rush.” Then he departed the booth but left the door open, “piece of advice…leave the door cracked, guys will be lined up in no time.” Sure enough, before I’d even unzipped my pants there was a man outside my booth peeking in. I gently opened the door a bit, and he came right inside, whipped out his cock and within seconds I was feasting on yet another thick and juicy prick.

Needless to say, it was a long afternoon and not the last time I’d visit Big Rick’s. In fact I became such a well-known regular that Rick let me hang out after hours and suck his cock for him. After a couple of months I lost count of just how many cocks I’d sucked, how many men had fucked my ass, and how many loads I’d swallowed, but I guess that’s why they call it heaven.

Kyle pounds Matty @ Sean Cody

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MODEL OF THE DAY: LUCAS HUXLEY

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