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Dancing, Leather, Fetish and More! Discover the First Part of Darklands 2025!

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Squirt.org member phil9325, our certified travelling slut, is our regular kink festival goer. He has taken us to Folsom in San Francisco and Pig Week in gay Fort Lauderdale. This time, he made it to Antwerp, Belgium, to celebrate the 15th Anniversary of Darklands, and his second time at the hot and horny event, an event full of fetish and cum.

Hello, my fellow travelling sluts of the world, and welcome back to another accelerating journal on the debauchery that was Darklands 2025, one of Europe’s biggest gay fetish festivals

Since the festival runs for four days, this will be a two-parter to be able to cover every cummy detail of this event. 

Lube up your hole, strap your harness, tie up those boots, and get your whip because you are about to enter a land where kink and fetish are celebrated and enjoyed by everyone. Your hole and cock will need weeks to recover after the four days of celebration and mischief. 

What is Darklands?

Darklands is one of gay Europe’s biggest fetish festivals that happens at the end of February every year in Antwerp, Belgium. The festival provides a space to explore your kinks with like-minded individuals in a safe and sane environment. 

Darklands is all about celebrating the diversity of fetish culture. It encourages people to embrace their sexual identity and explore fetishes in a safe, respectful way. The event brings together a mix of groups in the LGBTQ community, organizations, and clubs from different corners of the gay fetish community, including leather, rubber and latex fetish, army, puppies, and more.

Darklands is a place to let loose and discover how kinky you can get, and it does welcome everyone to its event but don’t get it twisted; if you go, you will notice that a lot of the programming is targeted toward gay men, despite having an inclusive attitude.

When Does Darklands Take Place

This year, in 2025, the festival started on February 27 and ran until March 2. However, the main events and day programs take place on the weekend. The festival takes place at the Waagnatie venue, making it easy to get familiar with the location and venue within the first few hours.

When should I start planning my trip to Darklands?

Darklands releases the information for its festival at the end of the summer, as it expects over 10,000 attendees for the whole week of events. Luckily, you have me as your guide on how to navigate the booking process.

First, you must decide whether to go and, if so, for how long. The main events happen on Friday and Saturday, but parties run from Thursday until Sunday.

I attended the full festival this year, and I can tell you that it is worth it if you have a hungry hole that needs lots of attention. Also, if you are making it to Europe, stay as long as possible, given from the United States or North America, you’ll be on at least a 7-hour flight if you fly out from a gay hookup hub like New York, for example.

Once you determine when you want to go, you can purchase your access pass. There are various options, including day passes, daytime passes (if you don’t want to go to the parties), party passes, and full-access passes. 

For a full access pass (which I recommend if you will be there for the whole thing), you have two options: the Alpha Pass – which gives you some exclusive access to private areas, and the Madness Pass (the most popular option) which allows you to access the whole festival. 

Alpha Passes are very limited and sell fast, and they are not worth the price. I recommend you get the Madness Pass and enjoy yourself—$130 Euros will give you access to the whole event.

The next thing you need to book is a locker. If you are going alone, I recommend you just get the complete festival pass for a small locker; it will fit everything you want to take off so you can walk around the venue feeling your kinky self. You can leave your stuff like lube there for the whole festival so you don’t have to carry it everywhere, especially if you’re not wearing much and don’t have many pockets! 

What Hotels and Accommodations Should I Consider for Darklands?

Antwerp has many accommodation options, but you must book early to secure a good deal. The venue is a bit out of the downtown area, so you will have to walk, take transit, or take a taxi to the venue no matter where you decide to stay. Antwerp is a big city (and beautiful to walk around), so choosing a good location is key.

Darklands also offers “sponsor” hotels around the train station/downtown area so you can find the one that best suits your budget. 

Sponsor hotels offer a shuttle bus for the Friday and Saturday parties to save you a few Uber Euros. The buses, however, tend to be unreliable and infrequent, so I don’t see the value of booking through Darklands (as they charge you a bit more) versus just booking something on my own. 

Another thing to note is that you may have to take the train or bus to get to Antwerp. The best option (if you are flying into Europe) is to arrive in Paris, Brussels or Amsterdam and take the EuroStar to Antwerp. 

Once there, how do you get access to the Darklands festival?

Once you have chosen when you will arrive and where you will stay, you will first need to “check in” at the venue to get your wristband, which will give you access to your chosen tier of areas. 

This year they offered two different kinds of wristbands, a normal non-removable one and a gay fisting one that you can take on and off (you can imagine which one I got). 

Please note that you can only get one wristband, and if you lose it, you cannot get another one besides getting a whole new ticket for the event, so safeguard that with your life.

Once you have registered, strip to your gear (you must wear some sort of gear, be shirtless or naked to gain access – this is where lockets come in handy) and explore the entrance. You will find a bar, social area, and food truck here. You could say this is the more PG area, but you will still see a lot of dicks.

Should I carry cash or a credit card when walking around the gay fetish Darklands festival?

One thing Darklands does is that you cannot use cash or cards to get food or drinks. This year, they implemented a digital wallet on each wristband, so you just have to scan a QR code and load Euros. 

Make sure you do this at the beginning because you don’t want to waste precious penis time later while at the party. Also, it is part of the law in Belgium to charge for cups so be ready to pay for each cup you use for drinks – one way to save some money is always to bring your cup back.

What will I see after I get my access pass to Darklands?

Once you have passed the registration area, you will go through a large hallway with the “Welcome to Darklands” sign leading to the main party and market area. 

You will find the different stages, markets, play areas, and more here. I recommend exploring during the first day before the party begins so you get familiar with where to go later. It is a massive venue, and there are different areas to explore. It can be scary and overwhelming initially, but it will become familiar after the first night. 

One significant thing to note is that if you are a bottom, there are no douching stations, so you have to come VERY prepared. Since the venue is far from the downtown core, returning to your hotel to prep is not an option unless you want to waste precious time.

Another thing, on Thursday and Sunday, the main dancefloor and the “specialty” darkrooms are closed, so take those two days to party, make friends, and suck some cocks around. Leave Friday and Saturday to unleash your kinkiest devil and get your cock worked and hole used. 

The first day is your time to find friends, get familiar with the city and the venue, and test the waters as to how kinky you will get. The weekend is for you to get as wild as you can imagine, and Sunday is your last hurrah before heading back with a cummy hole.

A map of the venue – so you can get the idea of how much there is to explore.

I must say that Darklands is a place that celebrates all kinks, yet, the main kinks that I indulge in are leather and fisting, so I will concentrate more on these for all my stories. That is not to say that other kinks were absent; let’s just say I was very “hands-on” in my interest in focusing on the other kinks at the party.

Thursday – The Opening Party “Mayhem” 

The opening party of Darklands is called Mayhem, and no, it is not because of Lady Gaga’s album.

The first day only offers two out of the three stages to party since it is not expected that everyone will show up this day. You have two options to party, the House of Riegillio Stage – which has more Top 40 music – and the Mr. S Stage – which has more techno and circuit-style music.

Both areas are great for dancing with sexy daddies, but Mr. S is where you will find the most action. From here, if you don’t feel like dancing (like me) and just want to get dirty, the gay play darkrooms are just on the second floor. 

For this stage, you have two options (both equally active). If stairs are not an issue for you, you can go back and forth and see which one has the best cock for your hole and mouth. 

Make sure to select a sexy outfit that showcases your best sexual features. In my case, I always need something that showcases my ass so everyone knows what they are getting and where they can put their cocks.

Navigating these two darkrooms is like navigating a maze, which makes it hotter, as some areas are tighter, darker, and seedier. There are also gay sex slings if you want to have your hole used or fisted.

As usual, I headed to the sling area as I walked into the party and found an empty one to start getting my hole used. From the start of the party at 9:00 PM until the end at 3:00 AM, I was here playing non-stop. My hole got loaded, fisted and used by every hung daddy I could find. I put on a show and made every second of the opening party a moment to open my hole for the weekend. 

If you like to be watched, the darkroom has a balcony so you can hold onto the railing and get railed (which I also did); this also allows you to see the dancefloor so you can be part of the party while also getting fucked. I am unsure how many cocks and fists I took on this first day, but I can tell you that the quality was 10/10 and you will find the sexiest and horniest men here. 

How about the afterparty?

One thing about Darklands is that there is always something happening, whether it is a social, a party, an orgy, or an afterparty. 

One of the main spots to keep the party going is the cruising bar Boots. One sentence you will often hear at Darklands is: “See you at Boots.” And no, this has nothing to do with the house-down boots (but it would make it funnier).

Boots is a gay cruising bar between downtown and the Darklands venue. It is open until 9:00 AM so you can always come here after any Darklands party to keep the night (or morning) going. 

I recommend going to this place on Thursday or Sunday after Darklands, given that on those days, the parties end early, and people are still horny for more. 

I attended both of those days, and the crowd was not disappointed. Once you arrive, you will see a boot hanging from the entrance so you know you found the place. Also, try to come before the Darklands party ends to avoid the long lines. 

To enter, you must become a member (free) and then coat-check everything. I recommend going fully naked. This place has five floors for play, each one kinkier than the next one. 

The first two floors are just a bar and some small play areas. The third floor has a very dark area and a piss play zone (so this floor smells a bit). 

The top floor is filled with sex slings and fuck benches, but it also is the smoking floor, so if you don’t like the smell of cigarettes, I would say avoid this area.

The basement is more like a labyrinth, and not many people play there, so your best bet is the second and third floors. I stayed here a very long time just having drinks, making out with daddies, and having my hole used by different guys. I also took a sling room and had guys take turns fisting me while a crowd watched from outside of the room.

What do I do when I leave Botts after fucking and sucking gay local men?

Before you leave, you must present your membership card to the cashier, and then you will pay for everything you consume and use. You must spend at least $8 (which is how much the coat check costs), so keep that in mind. You will still pay the minimum if you don’t consume anything, so you should get at least one drink. 

If Boots is at capacity, don’t worry; you can walk one more block down the street and go to Club Random, which is open 24/7 during Darklands. 

This place is like a regular bar with play areas on one floor. It does not get as busy as Boots, but it provides you with a second option if you are still horny for more.

Stay Protected when hooking up abroad with men

Slutty events and trips are fun, but one thing to always remember is to be a responsible slut. Before going to Darklands, ensure you get tested and fill all your PreP and Doxy prescriptions for safe gay bareback sex. You don’t want to be the reason the whole party gets an STI. 

Remember that you are putting a lot of random cocks in your mouth and ass, and you don’t want to put others and yourself at risk. 

Another thing to keep protected is your ears. Remember to bring earplugs, as you will be hearing very loud music for four days. Unlike other festivals and gay parties, Darklands provides some earplugs, and the music is not as loud. You can actually have a conversation on the dancefloor without having to scream. 

This was just the beginning of how Darklands starts and where to begin your visit. I can’t wait to tell you more about Part II and all the mischief I got into for the next three days. 

I met a lot of cool people last time I was here, and this year I was lucky enough to attend the festival with them, so stay tuned.

Until the next cummy hole,

Phil XO

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Explore Sauna San Ciprian in Mexico City for Hot Gay Sex Hookups

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Tracey Parker is a gay cruising fanatic who travels around the world; after sharing with Squirt.org members the steamy hookups in his last piece about gay sauna cruising in Medellin, Colombia and the hottest gay cruising woods famous in Mexico City, Tracey takes us to another gay cruising hookup bathhouse spot in Mexico City, Baños San Ciprian, for to check out.

It was Sunday afternoon, and I was wrapping up my errands early. I hadn’t made any plans for the day beyond what I had already finished doing, so I started thinking about what to do. I decided to go to Baños San Ciprian, a small, old-fashioned gay bathhouse and sauna in Mexico City‘s storied downtown neighborhood, La Merced. 

When should I head to gay sauna Baños San Ciprian for the most action?

Baños San Ciprian is a place where, no matter what time I go, I almost always have a great time. The busiest times to go are Wednesday and Sunday afternoon/evening. I used to go early afternoons sometimes as early as 1 PM, and I’d always be lucky enough to find another young guy there to fuck around with. 

The facility has a cool, otherworldly vibe. It is dated and a bit of a monument to a gay past that still exists but is endangered. It is tucked away anonymously into a chaotic neighborhood bursting with commerce, where you can go unnoticed. To many, that is a significant plus. 

What is the dry section like in the gay bathhouse Baños San Ciprian in Mexico City?

The dry section of the bathhouse has two floors. The first floor has small rooms surrounding it, and there is a hallway in the middle. Each room has one cot. The guests could use these rooms to fuck or to rest alone. When you ascend a small steel spiral staircase to the second floor, you get more straightforward private rooms. 

Ages ago, someone had the idea of removing the walls between several small rooms and making another gay dark room. Only this one, upstairs, wasn’t heated or filled with steam, so it became a cool place to fuck. 

One of the best Sundays I remember a wet sweaty orgy broke out in this upstairs improvised room. There were 20 or so guys packed in there. We all fucked each other until we ran out of energy and then we stood back and watched the rest. I fucked and then got fucked by several whom I had had my eye on the entire afternoon and it was a memorable time. 

What are the wet sauna areas like in Baños San Ciprian in Mexico City?

The wet areas or gay sauna section consists of two rooms. One shower room has four tiled walls and six shower heads. On busy days, 20 guys can be in this room, showering, flirting, and sipping beers out of cans or large plastic cups, with squeezed lime and salt on the edge. 

There is an oddly placed massage table toward one side. It’s a tiled surface currently serving as the only surface in the room to place shower items, beers, and towels that aren’t hanging off a beautiful brown body. One door opens into a dark steam room with tiled benches on three of the four walls. The benches are deep and can accommodate sitting or fucking.

When I walked into the shower room, it was full of about 15 guys. Many were clustered up in groups of three or four chatting, and the others were showering alone. 

Inside of the steam room there were about six couples paired up and fucking against the wall, or standing up in the middle. I settled down and took a seat among the rest of them. 

I sat along a row of men who were sitting naked on the tiled bench. Through the steam beside me, I caught the eye of a tanned, toned male and almost immediately, he began sucking me off. His wet, steamy, sweaty mouth sucked me off vigorously, as if he was starving for it, and I smiled, not looking to push him away, but instead welcomed the assertiveness of the horny lad. He had an appetite that could never be satisfied, and I was the next course on an already full meal. I let him continue. The darkness and the steam made it hard to see in front of you, but you could see shapes, hear the sound of sex in the air, and your imagination could fill the rest.

Then the door opened. The bright light from the shower room outside illuminated the sauna for a moment. Everybody continued along uninterrupted, but I wanted to take advantage of being able to see. The first thing I noticed was the guy who opened the door. He was the one who stuck out to me in the shower room. He was the youngest in the room. He had a youthful optimism in his eyes and a slim, tight body dripping with water. Steam wafted toward him as he slowly walked into the middle of the room, paused, and stood there momentarily. His cock hung from his slender muscled body. His lines on his abdomen glistened in the steamy, sweaty room. Soon, he sat on the bench two men over from me. 

I stared, but he didn’t return my gaze. As the hot man sucked on my dick vigoriously like a lollipop,  I reached over and gently touched this young stud’s body across the steam and darkness. He didn’t stop me, but he didn’t move closer either. He looked at my eyes directly and then looked away. 

He seemed lost. I saw him drinking a beer outside, but he wasn’t sloppily drunk. In the haze of booze, steam and sex, he seemed relatively sober compared to the rest; not as relaxed as others letting the sleaze and sluttiness in the air get the best of them.

I noticed he and the older man beside him allowed their hands to wander all over each other’s bodies. Like many, I’m turned on by watching guys get it on, but especially sex between younger and older men. 

The toned young man now stood before the hairy daddy. He pressed his slender slippery body against the older man’s hairy chest; he placed himself between the older man’s two large legs, now spread wide open, ready to give or take whatever the young male had in mind. 

They each began holding the other’s cocks in one hand and were rock hard; both with cocks that hung from their bodies, massive members that seemed destined for public sex so hot creeps like me could get turned on by their dicks.

I watched as the hungry cocksucker still devoured my cock, hungry for me to cum, but me not being anywhere close; he didn’t seemed to mind that my attention was elsewhere. 

He seemed turned on that he was pleasuring me, while I discarded him, allowing him to feel like a dirty sex toy for me to take. He still furiously went to town on me, I’ll admit giving me an amzing gay blowjob that I’m sure had me dripping precum if I wasn’t already cake in sweat and moisture. 

The daddy and the young hottie jerked each other off, breathing heavy and deep into each other; this went on for a while, both seeming oblivious to how much they were turning me off. Eventually, the two got up and disappeared. 

After the two men left, presumably to go to a private room, I saw another dark skinned, dark-haired young guy through the steam. Despite his feminine face, he was quite masculine in his body; he was scrappy. He had a thick hairy forest of pubic hair covering his sturdy thick dick that rose above all of it; his dick was probably more significant than it looked if it wasn’t for the dense brush of pubes. His manhood and hairy treasure trail dripped with sweat and steam. The head of his cock was as red as his lips. 

I wanted to fuck him, to stick my cock between his small ass cheeks and hold him by his sturdy back and go crazy on him. But he was already playing around with a guy sitting next to him. 

The guy beside him was about his age, in his late twenties, and tattooed. I watched as they both began jerking each other off. My hungry dicksucker friend still was going at my dick, making me question if his mouth was part mechnically. His stamina was impressive, and I had to admit I was getting close.

All of a sudden, the tattooed guy playing with my young lust object across from me lay on his back and lifted his legs into the air. My hairy-dicked twink, casually slid his dark, hairy, rock hard cock into his hole and began fucking him slowly. 

He had a beautiful back. The light from the door would illuminate his body on and off again. He was so nonchalant, and as he fucked the tattooed guy, I couldn’t help it; I finally shot my big thick load into the mouth of my Energizer bunny cocksucker friend; he eagerly licked up his meal, his apparent desire for this award since he started the endeavour. I let the pleasure envelop me, closing my eyes for only a moment. I didn’t want to miss the action before me.

He just stood on top of this carcass beneath him, fucking the life out of it slowly, letting the sweat and steam drip onto him like rain. 

Across from me, the young male began taking his cock out of the tattooed stud’s hole and then sticking it back in again. At first, he used his hands to line everything up, but eventually found a rhythm and just kept riding his horny hole over and over; there was a thumping noise of his mat meat hitting the butt of the male that echoed inside the steam room; the slapping sound of sex, and the accompanying moans that reverbarate off the bathhouse sauna that makes things fascinating, and gets you hard. You know the sound. It would be the sound that would make me cum again if I didn’t just finish shooting a massive load inside this anonymous’ hookup’s slutty mouth.

The smallness of Baños San Ciprian gives its visitors the feeling that they are all doing something together. I don’t know if they designed it that way. Today’s clubs can sometimes be so big that people get lost inside, no matter how many are in attendance. 

I always leave Baños San Ciprian feeling I can’t associate with any other place: otherworldly facilities, otherworldly rugged men, and steamy sex.

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Hooray for great sex! Braxton Cruz fucks Flynn Fenix

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COCKY BOYS: Braxton Cruz and Flynn Fenix are so hot for each other that they almost cum before full-on sex and when they do it’s very intense! Just sitting on Braxon’s lap and his big bulge while they make out gets Flynn close and Braxton helps by fingering him.. When they suck each other, they seem to get close too, especially Braxton, who keeps it together long enough to take charge.

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Braxton eats out Flynn’s hole, with some acrobatic maneuvers, before pounding him, using the chair to bear down hard. They get close again when Flynn rides Braxton who does a reach around then takes full control fucking Flynn on his back. Intense passion rules here as Braxton finally fucks the cum out of Flynn then shoots a huge load on him, leaving them spent from holding out so long.

Who would you cruise? Quin Quire, Sumner Blayne or both?

RAGING STALLION: After putting on a record to set the mood, muscle jock Sumner Blayne makes his move on pal Quin Quire. This afternoon delight between the two fuck buddies starts with Sumner sucking and rimming his friend before using his bareback cock to fill Quin’s hole. Eager to swap positions and flip-fuck the day away, Quin reciprocates by swallowing down Sumner’s big dick and using his own hard rod to fill up the hottie’s thick cakes. 

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Let’s have fun in the kitchen. Christopher White submits to Crush Daddy

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THE BRO NETWORK: I’m Coming Over: It’s not quite the kind of chill-and-hit session Chris had in mind, but one thing is sure – he needs to start coming by more often!

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Visit a friend and fuck them! with Jonathan Tylor, Jacob Acosta

NEXT DOOR TWINK: Jacob Acosta comes over to visit his friend Jonathan Tylor. Jacob’s plan is to get Jonathan out of the house and go out for a fun night partying, but Jonathan claims he’s ‘exhausted’ from work and the gym to go out. Jacob doesn’t want to take no for an answer, and insists he join him. Jonathan won’t budge, and that’s when the bargaining starts. Finally, Jacob makes him an offer. Jacob proposes if he can fuck him good enough to get him up, then they can go out after. This is music to Jonathan’s ears, and they have an amazing fuck! But after they’re done, Jonathan still doesn’t want to go out and lets Jacob know that takeout is on the way.

Top Five Best Gay Sex Lubes from a XXX Onlyfans Performer

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Hi! I’m Dallas Knoxxx, your go-to-gay for all things wild and straight-up real. I’m 27, reside in West Hollywood, and get to live out my sexual fantasies every day. I’ve starred in a studio scene (go check it out) and have an OnlyFans (I’m also on Twitter!) I’m constantly posting and spending nights cruising and hooking up in the city of angels. 

As a horny gay OnlyFans creator that is constantly getting railed as much as I am, you know that lube is so important to have during sex. 

If you’re new to the scene or just have little knowledge of the world of lube, or have only really relied on spit and courage to get you through the more enormous dicks, hopefully, this will help you navigate your slippery hole. 

Why is there confusion about gay sex lube and the best picks?

The reason why shopping for lube may be so confusing comes down to the fact there are so many brands, and it’s not really a conversation you can have with your barber (maybe you can?) on which lube gives you the most comfort and ease during hard gay bareback sex.

From silicon to water-based lube to gay fisting lube to ones that are perfect for gay sex toy fun.

There are countless brands of lube that are in the market right now, but what do most gay men go for? It all depends on what you might be using this for. Are you going to be getting fucked by your neighbor’s twelve-inch dick? Using some gay sex toys? Getting fisted hard and ensuring no ouchies later? We’ll get into it all and your needs in the bedroom. First, we have some ground to cover. 

More about types of lube: what’s the difference between water-based, silicon and oil?

Lube can come in many different varieties, mainly water-based, silicone, oil, or powder. 

If you’re going the water-based route, clean-up should be a breeze. Water-based is great for penetration, making sliding in and out effortless. 

If you’re feeling more silicone, you might be scrubbing with soap and water for a while to remove it all, as it is known to stain the sheets, so avoid those high thread count Frette linens if you’re going to get nasty with a hot guy and some silicon lube. However, silicone is a great lube to use for toys or larger cocks and tends not to dry out as quickly as water-based; but be warned, silicone lube tends to stain sheets and clothing almost instantaneously. 

Powdered lube tends to be for the committed pigs who need an hour-long steady rhythm. Powdered lube is great because you can control how much you want to make at a time, making traveling easy. Powder lube is amazing for gay fisting for hours and taking massive toys… which I’m starting to get used to. 

Cleanup might be a bit more tricky because this lube gets sticky, so invest in a nice scrubber when you are in a rush to get it all off. 

Now that we got most of that out of the way let’s see what lube would work best for that fat cock or tight hole!

In no particular order, starting out strong is…

Swiss Navy

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Swiss Navy is one of those brands that you’ve definitely seen around before, whether you know it or not. Swiss Navy comes in tons of different varieties and price points, meaning they cater to all lube needs. (They even sell a gallon bottle, as you see above!) This brand also has any type of lube you need but mainly specializes in water-based and silicone lube. This is not the most affordable option on our list, but definitely a great option for your first bottle. 

Boy Butter

Boy Butter is one of those brands you’ve always wanted to try but never got around to. I’m here to tell you–you definitely should. I gave this a go a couple of months ago and was pleasantly surprised! Specializing in either water-based or oil-based lubes, this glide will feel extremely natural and gripping. Be aware, though, because oil-based lube will not come out of fabrics unless you’re quick with that Tide To-Go stick. Boy butter looks and feels a lot like body lotion and really delivers in the butter category. 

X Lube

Don’t let the gooey goodness of the clear liquid above fool you; this German lube is a powdered lube that dissolves easily in water, producing a clear gel.

X Lube is crystal clear and free of any odors or tastes, so you can get as close to the action as you want… meaning you can rim while it’s on, and you don’t have to worry about that “tacky” chemical taste in your mouth. I always hate when you have to time the lube action to the fellatio and tongue portion of the program so you get the hot man taste without any of the lube taste.

Sign me up! It’s easy to mix, easy to clean, and very economical—one bottle makes 20+ litres, so you know it’s a cheap, cheerful and horny option for those who get it on aplenty.

How do I mix a powdered lube for gay fisting play?

For those who are new to the experience of powdered lube, don’t get uptight; here’s all you need to know to make it happen and how I mix my powdered lube for a brand like X Lube, for example.

  1. Add one cap full of powder to 500 mL of water in a sports bottle.
  2. Shake the bottle vigorously for ten seconds. It helps to use your hand to cover the opening of the bottle, or the powder could become lodged in the nozzle. 
  3. Cap the bottle and wait ten minutes. 
  4. Shake the bottle for twenty more seconds and leave the cap on. 
  5. Wait twenty more minutes for the lube to develop into a good consistency. 

For best results, prepare one to two hours before play. Do not blend your lube in a blender due to breaking down the lube. 

J Lube

J Lube is very similar to X Lube but can be a little bit more affordable. Powdered lubes can take a little while to get the right blend, but once you’ve practiced and figured out your perfect recipe, you can just about shove anything you want inside you. 

If you’re using powdered lube, a squeeze bottle or plastic travel water bottle is a good thing to have on hand. You’ll need something to house all the lube you just made, and something with a nozzle at the top works wonders. 

Gun Oil

Gun Oil is also one of those brands that you’ve seen before at your local gay bookstore or video arcade in the front but never got around to seeing what all the hype is about. Gun oil mainly comes in a silicone version, so this lube is great for jerking off or getting fucked by someone off of Squirt!

I want to know which lubes you prefer! Are you more of a water-based or silicone type of girl? Everyone’s preferences are different! Do you really want to use spit for the rest of your life?

-Dallas