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Struggling with chems? Check out these practical tips on how to navigate the festive season.

This time of year can be an emotional minefield for many – particularly if you’re isolated from family and the cold weather is limiting your social options.

Health professionals are particularly concerned that people involved in chemsex are facing a perfect storm that poses a significant risk of harm to our community.

‘Chemsex’ is the term used to describe sexual activity between people who have taken specific drugs (chems) including crystal methamphetamine, mephedrone, gamma-hydroxybutyrate (GHB) or gamma-Butyrolactone (GBL) – these drugs can enable an enhanced sexual experience but they are highly addictive and come with significant health risks. These risks include:

  • Physical health: Accidents and injuries, nutritional issues, lungs and heart diseases, dental problems, disrupted sleeping patterns.
  • Mental health: High levels of depression, anxiety, or psychotic episodes such as paranoia or hallucinations.
  • Emotional health: Issues such as isolation, domestic and relationship issues, low self-esteem or inability to focus or make decisions.
  • Sexual health: High risks of transmissions and infections of HIV, HEP-C and other Sexually transmitted infections such as syphilis, gonorrhoea. Chemsex users are also at risk of poor adherence to HIV medication – potentially jeopardising their Undetectable status.
  • Financial issues and unemployment.
  • Personal safety: such as overdoses, sexual assault, theft, or self-harm.
  • Legal issues – buying, selling, possessing and selling these drugs is illegal.

“Chemsex is more than just a drug problem…” explains Ignacio Labayen de Inza – founder of the harm-reduction charity, Controlling Chemsex. “There is a combination of elements as powerful as sex, gay culture, drugs that can keep people awake for days prioritising sexual urges over any other consideration, internal homophobia and low self-esteem, as well as difficulties with intimacy and isolation.”

“We’re working everyday with people who are struggling with their use of chems…” adds Labayen de Inza. “Many of our clients are worried about the Christmas period, worried that they’ll relapse, and also worried about their friends. That’s why we’re sharing some practical tips that might help you to navigate the challenges of the festive season.”

Tips on how to control your chems use during the festive season

  • Review your bio details on hook-up apps. Be explicit that you’re not interested in chems. Simply putting “No H&H” in your bio will limit the amount of temptation that comes your way.
  • Set limits on your use of hook-up apps. We’re at our most vulnerable when we’re searching for intimacy – particularly when it’s late at night and we’re feeling alone and isolated. If you’ve set yourself a rule that you’re not going to look at hook-up apps after 10 PM, have a plan for other things you can do if you’re awake and can’t sleep. It could be as simple as having some good porn on standby so you can masturbate and get the horniness out of your system.
  • Don’t forget that if you think it could be helpful you can disable your phone to block downloading and use of apps or websites with specific content (sexual, gambling, etc) using parental controls. You can find out how to do this by Googling ‘parental control iPhone’ or ‘apps parental control for Android’, or also downloading specific apps for this purpose, and prevent the cycle of deleting and downloading the apps.
  • Know your triggers.The biggest risk of a relapse often comes from friends or fuck-buddies that we’ve had good times with in the past. Odds are, you’re going to get an unexpected WhatsApp message asking if you’re up for some fun. Knowing that this trigger is going to present itself, have your coping mechanism ready to go – have a “no thanks” reply saved in your drafts, have someone lined up who you can call, have some porn ready to watch.
  • Keep a clear head. This is a time of year when the drinks are flowing, but we tend to make poor choices when we’ve got a few drinks under our belt. Try and minimise your alcohol intake and don’t drink on an empty stomach.
  • Keep yourself busy. If we’re feeling isolated and alone, and it feels like there’s nothing to do, then a chemsex session will seem increasingly appealing. Set yourself a list of tasks for the day. It could be as simple as reorganising your sock draw or as complicated as making some fresh pasta. There’s always something to do, if you set your mind to it.
  • If you do have a relapse, don’t beat yourself up too much. Slip-ups happen. Activate your support network and learn from it.

“This is also a time of year when friends and loved ones might be wondering how to help someone who is struggling with chems…” explains Labayen de Inza. “You can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped, but if you’re worried about someone and you think chems might be the problem, keep the communication open – let them know that you’re on their side, listen and be supportive. Direct confrontations and arguments are counter-productive. Avoid being judgmental. You also need to set some boundaries for yourself – supporting someone who has issues with chems is an emotional roller-coaster.”

Hot Cocktale: Playing with the Professional Wrestler Unknowingly

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by: Caper4Man – check him out on Squirt.org!

I was contacted by Jeff on Squirt, late at night. We had viewed each other’s profiles from time to time, but there was one of his pics that didn’t pique my interest, because it looked like he had blotches all over his belly and chest.

However, the Friday night he contacted me, I was horny and there was no action, and I just wanted to hold and taste some cock and maybe fuck some ass.

After chatting for about five minutes, he shared more of his photos with me, and I realized then the filter he was using changed his tats to look like blotches since his tats would make him identifiable. I didn’t clue into that possibility before I saw that pic.

Of course, that changed everything, and when he asked me to come to his place, I eagerly said yes.

I arrived at his place 20 minutes later.

When he opened the door, even though he shared his private pics, he was nothing like the pics he had shared. On the contrary, he was the type of man I love to hook up with from time to time.

He was definitely a bear, like one of those bearish guys I often see in the porn videos that I love to watch, them fucking other bears.

Jeff as I mentioned, had tats everywhere, I don’t have them myself, but love them on another man. From the tip of his head to his shoulders, chest, belly, arms, and legs, all the way to his toes – his whole body was inked. He also had yummy, huge, wide legs, and a huge belly, but firm.

I loved everything about this guy, and couldn’t believe I had passed on hooking up with him on several occasions in the past.

When we got in his bed, he said on more than one occasion: “You can do to me whatever you want with me.”

I’m in love with this bear’s body, so the first thing I did was get up on top of him and feel his firm, beautiful belly against mine, as I moved my hands all over his huge arms and thighs and pushed our two naked bodies together.

This guy is so hot, with all his tats; this may be the first guy I was with that I’d say was all ‘bear’.

Although he had a really rough exterior and gruff persona that I’d probably be fearful of on the street, he was a real teddy bear in bed and was exceptionally comfortable to be around.

He’s bi and hadn’t been with a guy for a while, so he wanted to suck on my cock.

Never had a guy suck on my cock as long as Jeff did, but his mouth and tongue felt wonderful on my pulsating cock as he would swallow the whole shaft. Other times, he’d be holding it in his hand, looking at it, then sliding his tongue up the side of the shaft, before burying it in his mouth again, sometimes looking up at me with his eyes. It’s hot when a guy sucks on your cock and looks you in the eyes while doing it.

It felt fucking wonderful to have Jeff service me and give that much attention to my cock.

Once, he sucked on my cock for at least ten or 15 minutes, no kidding. I went down on his cock.

His cock is very similar in size to my own cock, only his was uncut – not much different in size or girth between the two.

I’m six inches cut, with an average=size cock and girth.

The one thing that was different was that he had a ring in the hole of his cock-head.

I found it different, sucking him off with the ring in the head of his cock, since it was located directly in the hole of the head, and I was a bit worried I’d make him uncomfortable. But as I was sucking on it, he gave me the nod and said, ‘All good.’

I loved sucking on his uncut cock as much as he loved sucking on mine – licking on the head and sliding my tongue between the head and all the foreskin that was wrapped around it.

It felt wonderful in my mouth, and after a while, he wanted to suck on my cock again, so we changed positions, and he got down between my legs again.

He was jerking my cock, and just by the way he was holding it and looking at it, I knew he wanted to eat my load. His massive, tattooed hand was stroking my cock, and his tongue and mouth hovering just above the head, waiting to take a load.

I’m not used to guys servicing me, but I enjoyed him jerking my cock so much, and his desire to service me, that I just laid back and relaxed and enjoyed the ride, as his masculine hand stroked on my cock.

I’m not a fast cummer, which can be a curse if a guy is looking for a quick load in his mouth or ass, and I told him that. And he said, ‘All good, we got plenty of time,’ as he continued to stroke my cock.

As he was stroking, I told him to put his ass over my face. I knew if my tongue was in his ass, I’d be more likely to cum quicker, so he changed positions, kneeling over my face, and lowered his ass down on my waiting tongue.

I love eating ass, and I loved eating Jeff’s ass as he stroked my cock.

He has a big, husky ass, and he’s wide, so I grabbed his hips as much as I could and pulled his ass as tight on my face as I was able, so I could get as much of my tongue in his hole.

He’s still stroking me; I’m still not coming. So, I suggest he grasped it a little harder and tighten his grip on my cock as he stroked it.

Before he put my suggestion into play, he took some coconut cream he had on the nightstand by the bed, greased his hand and my cock with the cream, and, this time, tighten his grip around my cock as he began to stroke it again.

The harder he stroked my cock, the farther I pushed my tongue up his ass.

Once we got the rhythm going of me shoving my tongue up his ass and licking his hole and Jeff stroking my cock with his firm grip, it wasn’t long before I muttered out, ‘Oh fuck, bud, I’m about to cum,’ as my panting increases and my body begins to rock back and forth and shake, stiffening my legs, getting my cock harder and harder as I’m about to shoot my load.

With that, Jeff’s strokes got faster, and sensing all the body movement and moaning that I was in seconds of cumming, he bent over and took my cock in his mouth as I begin to shoot my load in that warm mouth. And even though it was mumbled, I could make him out saying, ‘Oh fuck, man, that tastes so good, been wanting a load of warm cum in my mouth for weeks.’

After he sucked on my cock and drained out all my cum, he laid down towards the end of the bed.

I moved down towards his cock and took it in my mouth.

I really wanted to fuck him, but I knew from the start that he wanted to swallow my load and also was wanting to be the one to stroke my cock until I did. And even though he said at the beginning of us getting naked together on the bed, ‘You can do anything to me you want,’ which translated, generally means ‘I want you to fuck my ass’, I honestly got caught up in the attention he gave in pleasuring me. That I hadn’t given it any more thought.

However, while sucking on his cock again, my mind is saying, ‘This guy is so fucking hot, I’d do anything for him.’ Wish he had wanted to fuck my ass or even suggested it, but since he hadn’t made any attempts, I was pleased to have his uncut, hard cock in my mouth.

I love to deep-throat cock, so I wasted no time bobbing up and down on his cock, taking it all in my mouth, down to his balls. I love sticking my tongue out and licking on the balls and bottom of the shaft when it’s completely down my throat. I frequently was moaning, ‘Mmmm, fuck, I love that cock, mmmm, shove it down my throat’ as I slurped on his beautiful cock.

Unlike me, it wasn’t long before Jeff was shooting his load in my mouth, filling it up with his warm seed, swishing it between my teeth, tongue and cheeks, so I could taste his creamy load in my mouth before I swallowed it all.

Afterwards, we just laid there for 20 minutes or so, chatting and caressing each other’s body.

I loved his legs – I have a big, big fetish for huge legs -, and Jeff didn’t disappoint in that area. I asked him if I could take one home.

It was only after we got out of bed and began to get dressed that he got around to telling me he was once a professional wrestler.

It was like someone just turned on the light switch, and it all made sense the moment he said that – the tats, the bear-like beard, the unbelievable, huge legs and arms, his firm belly, his size. Everything screamed wrestler.

To me, this guy was the full package. To be with him was like winning the lottery; I even told him that, even before I knew he had been a wrestler.

Jeff told me a lot of other things, like his wrestling name and other activities he was involved in, but can’t say too much more, in order to keep his identity discreet.

We really got along well, and got around to talking about fucking each other next time. So hopefully, when he gets the itch for a man in the near future, he’ll be contacting me again, and we’ll flip-fuck each other.

Can’t wait to bend over for this hot bear and have him put his hard cock in my tight hole and pound my ass.

Want More Hot Gay Action? Keep Your Profile Updated to Get Attention

You’re wanting more action on Squirt.org, but you don’t really know how to get it quick. The best way to start is by giving your profile a refresh: you can update your online status, add new photos or videos (dick pics or ass shots, you decide!), and make updates about your favorite cruising spots!

Sure, it’s not getting a dick in your mouth right away. But by keeping your profile fresh, you’re upping the attention you have on you and getting eyes on you that may not have noticed before. So, want that chat to start blowing up and getting more hookups?

Update Your Online Status for the Gay Men Around You

You can write an online status (a personal message) in the box on your profile page, and let guys know your online or offline status. That way, your potential hookups always know when you’re down! You can also let guys know you’re looking to chat within a certain timeframe (feeling horny at a certain time of night?), or you can appear offline when you’re online.

For more on editing this, make sure to check our FAQ!

Keep Your Content Fresh for Guaranteed Deep Gay Penetration

You have a lot of stuff you can keep updated on your profile. You can always change your location info, such as your city or country. When you’re on the move, make sure to keep it up to date! That way in your travels you can always find new booty. From the USA to the gay Down Under

You can also update your favorite sex positions, your kinks, your turn-ons, your turn-offs, and you can keep your profile headline up to date. This is the place you take the reins and let guys know anything you want: let them know where you’re going to be soon for hooking up, or just update them on whatever you want!

Also make sure to keep your photos and videos updated!

If you’re wanting to get some more attention, what better way than with a sexy pic? You can always add plenty of photos on your profile on Squirt.org and really renew guys’ interest.

Nothing guarantees hot gay anal like an ass shot showing just what they’re missing. Or, maybe your torso is top-notch, but a fella wants to see if you have a face they can to cram their cock into: enhance your odds by sharing a face shot in your photo carousel.

A sexy video can also show a guy exactly what he’s in for by hooking up with you, and uploading them will get their engines revving. Want to check out other guys’ videos? You can see an unlimited amount if you upgrade to your Fan Club membership! Don’t want to upgrade right yet? You can get Free Time right now and try out those features!

If you’d like to know how to upload photos and videos, make sure to check our FAQ.

Update Cruising Spots

You can always add some favorite cruising spots in your profile to let people know where you like to hit up. You can easily add ones on your profile. You can also add details easily to cruising listings and add new ones – even getting free time for it!

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Giuspel tops Joe Sting @ Kristen Bjorn

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KRISTEN BJORN: Giuspel is eager to put his cock to some pleasurable fucking and spins Joe around and begins fucking his smooth ass with his hot tongue! Giuspel tops Joe Sting… a must see!

WHO WOULD YOU CHOOSE? CARTER WOODS OR BRANDON ANDERSON?

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NEXT DOOR ORIGINALS: Carter Woods is back, baby! Back from a long trip, that is. And Brandon Anderson is happy to welcome him back, but when Carter discovers Brandon has feelings for him, it puts everything into a new perspective. So what’s gonna happen next?

UMMMMMMM… WOW!

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Sean Cody’s Axel Rockham & Shawn Brooks

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SEAN CODY: Blond Shawn and buff Axel only have eyes for each other as they enter the studio. “Let’s get this off,” Axel says, tugging the bottom’s shirt off, and quickly strips down so Shawn can suck him. He takes off the bottom’s jeans and bends him over the bed, rimming Shawn and making him moan, before sliding his cock into that hole. “Oh my god, you feel so good,” Shawn whispers, proving his words true when he orgasms as he rides the muscular top. Axel doesn’t break eye contact as he fucks the bottom in missionary and cums all over Shawn’s impressive abs!

Corporate Greed W/Carter Woods, Masyn Thorne

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DISRUPTIVE VIDEO: Rhys Morris (Masyn Thorne) is the entitled boy of a CEO. Working for his dad’s company has some perks. Rhys has more clout than the average employee, and he’s not afraid to flex it. When Rhys feels that his co-worker, Daniel Lindsay (Carter Woods), isn’t giving him the proper level of respect, Rhys takes a new angle.

MODEL OF THE DAY: Crixus Alexander

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Ryan Stanford – an unexpected career behind the camera

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Ryan Stanford may not be a name that you may not immediately recognise in the context of gay porn, but you’ve probably seen Ryan’s work.

Based in LA, Ryan is a photographer and filmmaker – specialising in the men of gay porn. But it’s a career path that Ryan has discovered almost by accident.

I caught up with Ryan to hear his story.

A new creative outlet

“I was working in interior design in West Hollywood…” explains Ryan, when I ask how he discovered his passion for photography. “The firm that I was working for was taken over and became corporate overnight. It made me realise that I needed a new hobby. I started walking through the different neighbourhoods in Los Angeles – nobody walks in Los Angeles. I was focusing on architecture, taking photos on my phone and posting them to Insta.”

“The Instagram really took off, so I decided that I needed to learn how to take photos. It wasn’t even imposter syndrome, it was the reality – I had a successful photography blog on Insta and I had no idea about photography. I bought a real camera and began learning – I taught myself from the ground up. I am an autodidact.”

“I’d taken some headshots for a friend. He was doing a queer cabaret downtown. For one of his performances, the photographer that he normally booked couldn’t make it, so he asked if I could come to the show and take some photos. I said yes, but I had to learn how to do that – I’d really only ever taken photos of buildings, this was completely different. I was really nervous about it, but he liked the photos. That led me to start taking social media photos and head-shots of all the performers at the club – everyone and their dogs. In LA, dogs have head-shots.”

“I submitted some photos to Eroticco magazine. I was so elated when I got their email saying yes, they wanted to feature my work. That was a big step for me – it raised my profile. I started taking more pictures of naked boys. I also submitted to DNA and they published – as a non-photographer who had just sort of stumbled into this, that was huge validation. I’ve always been interested in art and visual imagery – photography was enabling me to explore a creative side of me that had previously been untapped. I was putting my heart and soul into this work.”

Learning on the job

“When Covid hit and everything shut down, I had nothing to do. Joel Someone came to stay with me for a bit and we decided to start an OnlyFans. He helped me to figure out how to film for porn. We started filming with guys in LA. People started asking me to film for them.”

“A porn production company asked me to create some work for them. Freelancing for them got me a GayVN nomination. I’ve earned it but I still pinch myself.”

“I like having my name on the content that we produce, but it sets a very high bar. It’s got to be good. I can see myself getting better and better, but there’s a lot of competition.”

“When I’m photographing guys, I draw on Playgirl and art historical references. In terms of film, I look more to European filmmakers that have more of an art-house approach to sex and nudity.”

“What’s been great has been finding a small group of guys that I consistently work with – this includes Eddie Burke, Brogan, Ian Holms, and Drew Valentino. I know how to shoot them – I know their angles, I know how they move, I can anticipate what they’re going to do. That reflects in the quality of the work that we create – because of the relationships that we’ve built. It’s definitely a collaboration. Working with big-name performers helps to ensure that your work is seen.”

“I love working with Ryan – he’s super-accommodating and easy to work with…” confirms Drew Valentino, when we ask for his perspective. “Our work always feels like a collaboration between artists, and I’m always extremely happy with the results.”

“Ryan is my go-to when I’m filming…” confirms Eddie Burke. “He’s got an eye for what makes great content. I never have to worry about the output when I work with him, I can just focus on what I’m doing and trust he’s capturing the best of it for the audience. He’s got great energy and ideas. We’ve learned how to work together and have a really good groove at this point.”

“The best thing about working with Ryan is the consistency in his professionalism…” says Ian Holms. “He’s always on time, and always shoots quality content and always gets me a solid edit of the shoot back way before I even need it. He’s easy and fun to work with which makes the often quite sensitive work we do a lot less challenging.”

A focus on quality

“I produce and edit my films as if the viewer is going to sit there and watch the entire thing – from the very beginning through until the end of the credits. Every detail matters to me – the transitions, the flow, the story. But nobody watches porn like that – they skip to the bit that they want to see.”

“I want people to appreciate the quality of what we’re producing – that they can see that I care about the content, that I’ve put work into it, that I’ve thought about it. I instinctively follow the action but there’s always an intention – there’s a purpose why I’ve gone with that angle or that shot.”

Plans for the future

“I’d like to get my photography featured in more magazines…” says Ryan, when I ask about his plans for the months ahead. “But publications don’t exist any more like they used to. I’d like to do some more fashion photography, and to incorporate fashion into erotic films.”

“In terms of films, I’d like to create work that is more ambitious and more artistic. Pedro Almodovar is my favourite filmmaker – the colour and pizazz and zest. His films have a lucious and sumptuous earthiness, he has a feel for concepts and character. But I’m also influenced by Madonna’s SEX book, Dieux du Stade, and my study of Art History – so I also want to push in those directions.”

“I have big plans – I’m just getting started.”

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Written by Gareth Johnson