Have you ever wondered: “What’s the point of pre cum?” I mean we love it, right? But are we conditioned to love pre cum because it’s fetishised in porn and erotic literature, or is there something more primal at work? When the pre cum begins to flow, what messages is that sending to our body? What instincts is that triggering in us?
We’re not doctors, we’re not scientists, but we do aspire to be subject-matter-experts in every aspect of pre cum so we’re going to get into it and hopefully we’ll all be a bit wiser by the end of the article – or at least sufficiently fired up by the illustrative images that the pre cum will be flowing.
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What is pre cum?
When you’re talking about sex in any kind of detail, it’s really helpful to have at least a basic understanding of the male reproductive system. Sure, the cock and balls are the obvious bits, but there’s a lot happening behind-the-scenes that all plays an important role in how your body works.
Check out this diagram – it looks complicated but it gives a pretty clear breakdown of all the internal bits that play a role in your sex-life.
When you cum, you’re ejaculating semen. Semen consists of sperm cells (from your testicals), and seminal fluid (which comes from your prostate and your seminal vesicle).
Pre cum is also known as pre-ejaculate. It’s different to semen – it appears before you ejaculate semen.
Pre cum is produced by your Cowper’s glands. It’s a similar kind of substance to your seminal fluid, but it’s different.
The purpose of pre cum is to maximise the effectiveness of your ejaculation. It lubricates your urethra (through which your semen is going to travel) and it also neutralises acidity, which protects your sperm cells – giving them the best chance possible of impregnating whatever they encounter.
Your pre-cum starts to flow when you become sexually aroused. If your cock starts to get hard then your body is alerted that at some point an ejaculation is going to be happening so the pre-cum is released to help prepare the way.
You could describe it as nature’s lube.
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Why do I pre cum so much?
You might have seen it in your favourite porn or with your last hookup. Maybe it’s you – maybe you’re that guy dripping a flood of pre cum and creating a wet-spot in your briefs or grey sweatpants. Some guys pre cum more than others.
Everyone is different and there’s no hard and fast rules about how much pre cum is normal.
There is some indication that some guys have hyperactive Cowper’s glands, so they just have a lot more pre cum at their disposal than others. More commonly, it’s linked to frequency of sexual arousal. If you’re constantly aroused – even if it’s just thinking about sex or looking at porn or getting horny on Twitter – then your pre cum release is going to kick in, even if you don’t take your horniness all the way through to ejaculation.
If you pre cum a lot then you might have a career in porn ahead of you – your constant horniness, mixed with the primal urge guys feel when they see a flood of pre cum means you may be seeing performance accolades in your on-screen future.
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What does pre cum taste like?
This is a question we get a lot, and it’s tough to answer because it varies from person to person. Although it’s different to semen, it’s a similar composition. Because it’s a fluid generated by your body, your overall physical health may have an impact on what it tastes like.
There is some speculation that what you eat or drink may have an impact on the flavour of your pre cum, but the evidence on that is fairly inconclusive. Maintaining a healthy lifestyle is your best bet for having delicious tasting pre cum, but it’s also not going to hurt to drink some pineapple juice on the regular.
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From ass licking to deepthroating – nature’s lube is your friend
Human sexuality is complex and still fairly mysterious – we don’t really know how our bodies connect all the dots between desire and arousal and orgasm.
From our mouths to pre-ejaculate to those who get super wet between their ass cheeks, we know that our body has natural lubricants that only appear when sex is on the table. When arousal kicks in, our bodies know that it’s game-on for pre cum.
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We can therefore speculate that pre cum also innately triggers other responses from our bodies. We may not be thinking this consciously, but if you see that a guy is leaking pre cum, the sexual energy between you is going to ramp up. Options are on the table: Is he going to fuck me? Am I going to him? Are we both going to fuck someone else? The answers to those questions may not be immediately apparent, but your body knows that fucking in some shape or another is imminent.
Getting a taste of his pre-cum is a good starting point to see what happens next.
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Male chastity cages used to be a bit of a niche within the world of gay BDSM, but it’s fair to say that they’ve now gone mainstream.
Does the idea of being locked up turn you on? Or maybe you’re just a bit curious as to what it might feel like. Let’s get our kink on and unlock the pleasure of chastity.
Whenever we’re talking about a turn-on that falls somewhere in the kink or fetish spectrum, it’s worth reminding ourselves of what these words mean.
In general terms, a kink is something that arouses you, turns you on, and can get you off, whereas a fetish is something that you need in order to be aroused, turned on, and to get off. These are terms that are often used interchangeably because the boundaries often blur.
In this article, we’re going to generally use the word “kink” because it’s the most inclusive for everyone, regardless of where you sit within gay BDSM culture.
While there are lots of variations in how a chastity kink can be explored and experienced, the basic concept is about control and denial.
The classic scenario is that the Dom locks the Sub’s cock in a chastity change – denying the Sub any access to penis-related pleasure. The Dom decides if and when the cage comes off, thereby ensuring that the Dom has control over when and how the Sub receives pleasure.
One common variation is when guys lock themselves into a cage – they become both Dom and Sub, although the psychology of that can get a bit confusing.
If the concept of control in a Sub/Dom dynamic doesn’t automatically get your dick hard, think about the denial of pleasure aspect.
This doesn’t work for everyone, but lots of guys report that if they try and hold off from cumming for a few days, the release that they feel when they do eventually cum is pretty mind-blowing.
A cock-cage can be the tool that helps you achieve that enforced abstinence – denying yourself short-term pleasure so that you can experience maximum orgasmic energy.
Having someone else in charge of when your cock-cage is unlocked is why the control element of a Dom/Sub relationship has such appeal. If the intention is to deny yourself pleasure in the short-term, having someone else in control of when you finally get to take the cock-cage off and let your penis loose – that orgasmic release is extra intense.
We’re so used to having instant access to whatever we want, any form of delayed gratification is pretty powerful – particularly when someone else is holding the key.
The other potential benefit of wearing a cock-cage is that by taking your cock out of the pleasure equation, it heightens the pleasure that you feel in your butt. If you’re into gay ass play, you may find that everything feels more intense if all of the attention is focused on your butt.
Whether they’re called a chastity lock, chastity device, or a cock-cage – this is the bit of equipment that goes over your cock and prevents you from getting hard and getting off.
They come in different designs but many are discreet enough that they can pretty much be worn underneath your regular clothes.
While some guys have a specific kink connected to the risk of getting caught, it’s just inherently sexy to know that you’re walking around the office with your cock locked in a chastity cage, while everyone at work is talking to you about spreadsheets and what they did at the weekend. What would they think if they knew what a horny pig you were?
The mainstreaming of the chastity kink means that we’re also seeing many gay Onlyfans performers incorporate chastity locks into their content – engaging with users about when they plan to unlock their cock, and reinforcing the trust that they are not going to cum until a particular goal, day, or maybe even follower count on their OnlyFans or socials is hit.
Crowdsourcing the control/denial element of the Dom/Sub dynamic is an interesting variation in the BDSM landscape that has really only been possible with the emergence of social media and fan-subscription platforms.
What should I look for in a gay male chastity lock?
This is a pretty intimate piece of equipment so you need something that is body-safe – which means avoiding low-quality options and going for something like stainless steel or silicone.
You also need a cock-cage that can be adjusted. While it is designed to constrain your cock, it shouldn’t be uncomfortable or painful to wear. It should fit snugly and securely. You’re going to be wearing this for numerous days continuously, so you need to ensure that you’re avoiding any chaffing or rubbing.
Remember, you need something that cleans easily in the shower while you’re wearing it. You’re going to be pissing through the cock-cage – it’s going to get sweaty and musky but you’re going to want to be able to keep clean and fresh without taking the cage off.
What type of lock features should I consider with a chastity lock?
The whole point of this kink is knowing that you can’t access your penis until the cock-cage is unlocked.
It completely undermines the whole scenario if you know that you can take it off without the key or somehow slide your cock out without unlocking it.
Some chastity devices include integrated time-locks which are designed to prevent the Sub from unlocking the cock-cage until the set time-period has elapsed. These time-locks can be digital, combination, app-controlled, or physical – such as mechanical timers similar to those used in kitchen timers.
Your Dom may want their Sub to wear a chain locked around their neck. This publicly signifies the control that the Sub has given their Dom. The Dom may choose to wear the key to the Sub’s cock-cage on a chain around their neck, symbolising their connection.
If you’ve just bought a new cock-cage, it’s really important to read the manufacturer’s instructions!
If you’re reusing a cock-cage, make sure that it’s clean and ready for use.
Most cock-cages come in multiple parts – a base ring, a cage, and a locking mechanism.
The general technique is to slide the base ring over your penis and behind your balls. It’s really important to fit the base ring snugly and securely but not too tight.
Next step is to fit the cage over the Sub’s soft cock – connecting it to the base ring.
The final step is to secure the lock – whether that’s with a padlock or an integrated locking mechanism.
Once the cock-cage is in place on the Sub, take some time to ensure that it’s comfortable to wear and not rubbing or chaffing while moving about.
Cock cages are designed for hygiene but it still takes a bit of getting used to.
A good starting point is to have an antibacterial soap that is sensitive to skin but also gives you plenty of lather.
Once you’ve given yourself an initial rinse, lather yourself up and clean everything as thoroughly as possible. Then, ensure that you rinse away all the soap suds.
It’s really important that after your shower, you need to dry your cock and balls – if you don’t dry your cock and balls properly, you could end up with bacterial growth, which is not something you want on your genitals. A blow-dryer on a low setting is an effective way to dry and also feels nice on your cock and balls.
When you’re wearing a cock-cage, you’re going to need to shower at least once a day.
How do I request using a chastity lock with a sex partner?
If you want to explore a chastity kink, you’re probably going to want to lean into the Dom/Sub dynamic and do it with a sexual partner.
Unlike having a man-in-suit fetish or being into role-play, BDSM play works best when you’ve got a high level of trust established between the Dom and the Sub. Random fuck-buddies aren’t ideal for this – if they’re going to be holding the key to your cock cage, you need to know how to find them.
If you’re relatively new to this aspect of kink, communication is really essential. You need to be able to effectively communicate what each of you wants to happen, what the turn-ons are, and what the boundaries are.
Maybe start by watching porn together that features a cock cage – see how you both respond to that. If it’s something that you’ve both got an interest in having some fun with, buy a cock cage and start to experiment. Get your partner to lock you up for an hour or so, maybe before you have sex. See how that feels.
If you’re both on the same page, this could be the kink that you’ve been searching for.
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Take a horny look below, and read on to see some of the answers Mars gave to our horniest questions when we got a chance to chat with him.
How did you get started creating sexy content? I’ve always wanted to try it. I have been in the industry for almost 6 years now and I was nominated for awards many times
What is the hottest piece of content you’ve created? Epic Gay Orgy with 20 guys
Where is your favourite place to go cruising? Montjuic – Barcelona and gay cruising club “Open Mind Barcelona”
What’s your favourite song to fuck to? I prefer without music
You have your dream dick at a glory hole for 15 minutes: what are you doing? I’ll empty his balls.
What’s the most unconventional place you’ve hooked up at? On board the plane
What’s a kink you’ve never tried but have fantasies about? I tried everything I wanted
If you were a lube, what flavor would you be? Without flavor
You can only have one sex toy on a deserted island: which one are you bringing? My favourite dildo
