Hi! I’m Dallas Knoxxx, your go-to-gay for all things wild and straight-up real. I’m 27, reside in West Hollywood, and get to live out my sexual fantasies every day. I’ve starred in a studio scene (go check it out) and have an OnlyFans (I’m also on Twitter!) I’m constantly posting and spending nights cruising and hooking up in the city of angels.
By day, I write about my adventures, sex life, and how to navigate the glitz and glam of Los Angeles – one story at a time. Join me on this crazy journey! Today, I’m going to give you all the details about buying toys for some solo masturbation sessions or to enhance your group play.
Buying your first gay sex toy can be a daunting task. The market is saturated with endless options, so it can be challenging to understand where and what you may be looking for when seeking your very first toy.
As someone who loves dildos and ass play, I’ve tried many toys of my own, and there are certain things I know to keep an eye out for and specific things to avoid.
Within the past couple of weeks, I’ve had the chance to try out and test a bunch of sex toys and give you my honest feedback. I definitely have some winners that I’ve found, but most of them don’t have you doing much work.
Some of these toys can be cheaper or more expensive, but I’ve noticed the better ones are somewhere in between, meaning you don’t have to spend a pretty penny just to get off!
Why should I invest in my first gay sex toy?
Using a sex toy is just so exhilarating. Being able to pleasure yourself without using your hand is incredible!
Sex toys aren’t just for pleasure, either. I know a lot of DL guys who want to explore different areas of their sexuality or practice being better bottoms with some dildo anal training, and that’s great!
Sex toys are for everybody. My favorites range from masturbators to thrusting anal plugs, and the list could just go on and on; however, I don’t want to keep you all day, so I’ll just give you my top five faves.
My Double-Handed, Phone Mountable, Cock Masturbator Sleeve
This first one is a mouth full, but all in the right ways. When I’m not choking on cock, I want to be masturbating with my absolute top-of-the-list fave: my double-handled phone mountable masturbator.
This toy has so many different settings making it something you don’t need to take off your cock until you’re ready to bust!
Even if you can’t take the contraption off in time, there’s a convenient opening at the top so all your kids can escape without messing up the device—just the floor!
With the multiple settings comes one that sealed the deal for me, and I did not know I needed it—heating. Having a heated setting changed the entire device for me, so I am adding this to the list.
How do I like to use my double-handed jerk-off sleeve?
Typically I was used to lubing up the masturbator and going to town with the frigid tip, but if you wait about ten minutes for it to heat, there is a world’s difference. The heat changes a lot and makes it feel like a stud’s warm mouth is surrounding your cock making it easy to bust a load.
I used the device’s opening this week and shot a load so far that it almost took my eye out. You’ve got to try it out!
Next: a gay fuck machine
Next up has to be my second favorite of all time – a personal fuck machine. I love a good bottoming moment, and I’ve been embracing my bottom era recently. The toy itself has a very lifelike texture to it making it seem like you’re getting fucked from behind if you didn’t know better.
Having many different thrusting settings and being able to suction itself to most surfaces, this toy is a bottom’s dream if you can’t get the real thing. They come in tons of different sizes, but if you’re buying a fuck machine- I’m sure you are not opting in for the three-incher.
When I get a chance to use the fuck machine, I currently have a ten-inch dildo for the fuck machine. Now, you don’t have to ride it to the bottom of the dildo shaft the first time, but I highly suggest getting a size that you can grow into so you don’t have to keep replacing it, and when you are taking ten inches, you already have the dildo for you!
Most of these toys are water-safe, making them a blessing to use in the shower, but do your research to make sure you’re not going to ruin your brand-new toy.
In the middle again: My Trusty Anal Dildo with Ball Straps
Coming in right in the middle is a thrusting anal dildo that straps into my balls, so it’s not going anywhere!
Now, don’t let the picture fool you; this being a very compact device means this is a fantastic public sex toy if you are trying to get a little freaky with your partner or significant other.
Because it is so small, this device is perfect for use around anyone. However, it can be extremely hot if you are surrounded by a bunch of people being used by a toy at the bar or circuit party!
The best part about this is it comes with a handy remote that you can keep in your pocket or give to a fuck buddy. If you give the remote to someone, make sure you trust this person, and they will not turn it on at any lousy time; this could include ordering a drink at the bar, around family, or near the straights. We don’t want anyone to mistake our orgasm for a drug addict having an episode!!
The dildo itself has a lot of different settings when it comes to thrusting and vibrating, making it pleasurable for anyone looking for something tight to go in your hole. A ball attachment where the vibrations travel through was the right move in designing this product. When you are being thrust by the dildo and having your balls vibrate uncontrollably, it’s a recipe for a quick cum shot.
Back to Basics: A classic gay anal dildo
Second to last comes in with your typical anal dildo. Buying a dildo can be very tricky – especially if it’s your first one. They have many options with many variations, so make sure you check out as many as possible to determine which one is right for you.
I check out many things, such as girth and length, whether it’s ribbed, has balls, or even has a suction cup. I like something that resembles more of the real thing than just a piece of plastic, but you’ll learn it’s all a matter of preference.
For me, having a ribbed dildo also helps out a lot with the feel of the real thing. An excellent place to start playing with this toy for easier use is the shower, so you can loosen up a bit (but poppers will help a lot more).
I have countless times where I can think of when I was pleasuring myself in the shower and hit that g-spot. There’s just something about the steam and heat of the shower that opens you up a little bit more, and the moist air lets the dildo slide in and out perfectly.
Last: invest in a gay vibrating cock sleeve
Last and not least is a vibrating cock sleeve that fits just about everyone. The one I recently got has a geometric design that can cover all bases if you know what I mean.
Like the thrusting anal dildo listed above, this cock sleeve has a ring to pull your balls through so your whole shlong can feel the vibrations. The way this toy is designed is terrific because the silicone is so thin that you can wear this toy while you’re fucking a stud. I have yet to try that part, but I want to do it soon.
Imagine how strong of a cumshot that would be when you’re inside a guy and having strong vibrations throughout your whole cock: I don’t know if I’d be able to have a normal orgasm ever again after that!
Final thoughts when buying your first gay sex toy for anal and jerk-off fun
When using these toys, my last thought is to relax as much as possible. Being super relaxed and zen enhances this experience substantially.
I personally think that it is more pleasurable when you’re in a state of serenity. I want you to try it out yourself and give me your thoughts because everyone’s preferences differ.
Also, while I tried to detail the best way to shop based on my faves, I know everyone is different. Some people like toys on the smaller side, and some people like toys that are gargantuan, but to each their own. You must find your niche and determine what works best for you!
If you are in the market for a new toy, the Squirt.org Store has endless options. Ranging from dildos to fuck machines, they truly have it all, so check it out if you can.
Until next time, sexy!
-Dallas Knoxxx
X/Twitter: @dallasknoxxx
