BUTT: 29-year-old Andrew is from Richmond Hill in Ontario, Canada, which is about thirty minutes north of her more popular sister city, Toronto. Andrew has cerebral palsy, by the way, so naturally he’s concerned about accessibility for disabled gay guys, and how gays with disabilities are portrayed — or are completely absent — in fagmags and porn. I Skyped him to talk about men in chairs and, forward guy that Andrew is, he ended up sending pictures of his dick. It’s rather thick, and fully functional.
Are you sexually active?
I had a lot of sex during my early twenties. I was kind of a whore… I’ve had a lot of one-night stands, but nothing long-term. I want to be in a relationship. I’ve had guys say to me, ‘I can’t date you because of your chair.’ They have no frame of reference for the situation.
You mean they don’t know where to start?
Yeah. Men are visual, so for them to understand something, they need to see it. People assume that my body doesn’t work, and they don’t know how to approach me. Like, how are you going to bring up sex with potential partners? There are only certain things you can physically do. How do you talk about that? How can a person in a chair be sexually appealing if people are afraid to ask questions about them?
I know that cerebral palsy affects different people in different ways. How does it affect you, personally, physically?
I can’t walk. Cognitively, I’m okay. I need help getting up, getting dressed, getting into my chair, toileting — all that stuff. That’s been the case since I was a kid, so all of it is second-nature to me. But I don’t want to ask my carers for help when I’m going to have sex with someone, because that would be really awkward! I don’t want to have to call them and be like, ‘Hey! I’m about to fuck some random guy. Would you come and set me up?’ I put a lot of trust in the person I’m hooking up with, because they’re going to be helping me get undressed and all that stuff.
Are you a top or a bottom?
I have never bottomed, because the muscles in my body are so tight that I don’t think it would be possible. I would try it, if I met someone that I really cared about, and we both felt we wanted to explore that.
What positions can you do?
I can top somebody, but they have to ride me. I can give a blowjob if they move to this end of the bed, you know? But basically, when I’m on my back, I’m in what I like to call ‘The Dead Turtle Position’. I can’t move too much. The person that I’m with has to do the moving around for me. I can’t do any porn positions…
One last question: can you describe your penis in detail?
It’s thick. I don’t know how long it is because I’ve never measured it. Like, how the hell am I supposed to do that? I wouldn’t want to be like, ‘Excuse me sexual partner, will you measure me?’ That would be weird. I’ve been told it’s roughly eight inches. I don’t shave down there. I’m cut, obviously… I wouldn’t say my balls are low-hanging. They don’t have that ‘too much skin’ thing. They’re nicely proportioned.
Photography by Drasko Bogdanovic
Interview by Zac Bayly
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What brave guy……..all of us with fully functioning bodies should be so grateful for what we have.
Way to go Squirt(more than over due to cover Andrew’s Beautiful body)……..Andrew,Congratulations!!!!! Hats off to you!!!
Courageous! Great to see you here, Andrew. And thanks, Sgt Coach for showing men who are not straight from the gym, but are hot too.
Thanks guys for the support! I really appreciate it. It’s about time gay men with disabilities were given the exposure we deserve. You can check out my profile on here as well.
Hit me up!
Handsome, hairy, hung and confident. What a lovely guy. Can I be your sex surrogate please Andrew, no charge of course ;0)
More people like this please! Really good story, and I wish more guys would tell theirs. THANK YOU.
Andrew, you are to be commenced for your bravery, bottle and brawn for having youself featured on Squirt. A beautiful man with a warm, inviting smile and a body I could worship for hours. Sgt Coach, thank you for featuring Andrew and for showing that Andrew, with a self-disclosed disability is even sexier than those of us who are able-bodied (and we should count our blessings). Way to go, Squirt – thank you, thank you, THANK YOU!!!!
God bless you Andrew for being so courageous in featuring yourself. I hope these debilitations don’t impede you from carrying on a happy and fruitful life, you are truly a survivor and keep on smiling that gorgeous smile. =)
Since Daily Squirt began, this is the most original focus to date. Very well done! These bodies are only our shell on Earth. What one’s body might be incapable on Earth, their soul is still pure perfection.
WOOF! What a handsome, hairy and hung guy with an infectious smile! You know he’s just a party waiting to happen. There’s some great guys here on Squirt that have some disabilities, but are so sexy, a hot time and have become good buds.
I was an only child blessed with progressive parents, who in some ways didn’t know what to do with a kid, and raised me as a miniature adult. I went everywhere with them and was rarely shielded from life even though they could afford to do so. Instead, each new experience was explained and it developed in me a strong sense of empathy from an early age. Most mainstream parents try to shield their kids in a Disney-like dream of perpetual Spring, bluebirds and flowers. Its a charming conceit that should be indulged, but not to the exclusion of the real world. I think that this ‘perfect world’ view cripples so many people in their upbringing, by a lack of experience and understanding, that when they meet someone different latter in life, they have no skills to deal with the situation and go to avoidance as a default approach. Their comfort zone is too narrow for the real world. People with disabilities are not just like us, the ARE us. They’re not a subspecies. So many judge so quickly. In the recent post about Alex Minsky, he went from wacky tattoo guy to hero once you took the time to learn his story and that takes a little time and an open mind. As gay men, we have a taste of being marginalized everyday. Though many of us will never have kids, we can help instill these values of empathy,understanding and inclusion in our extended families’ children by example and explanations.
Thanks again to Sgt. Coach for posting another hot guy while expanding our world view. Great job!
Andrew, you are truly gorgeous INSIDE and OUT! Hats off to you man! You are the true WINNER in life, forget that not! I see beauty on everyone, no matter what! Stay strong, shine, the right guy will show up! I would totally date you, but that means you would have to be a total bottom for me! Hehehe Love, Peace and Blessings!!! TIGHT HUGS!!! XXXXX
Thank you, Andrew — and thank you, Squirt — for reminding us ALL that having (or not having) tattoos and shaved body parts is not what’s truly important in this amazing life.
What an inspirational post. We’re the better for it.
The male is having fun in his bed in his bedroom at home to be safe .
I am haooy to hear his story 2, we don’t have 2 all by gym stars!
I am touched
Thanks Andrew for sharing and educating. Ignorance is an enemy.
That attitude of focus on what I can do, is important for all of us.
This is why I love Butt Magazine and good for Squirt for picking up on Andrew.
Excellent Andrew!!!
You’re a Hero for ‘coming out’ and proving the inadequacy and lack of freedom of expression in human “society”.
You are a Hot looking dude with a Top package. I would be happy to milk it for ya.
A truly genuine…open and thought provoking article…Further proof that our society is no where near as enlightened or free and accepting as it should be….
If ‘carers’ were truly carers they would or should be catering to your natural needs…..
Cheers Andrew I hope you are regularly cared for…
If I could I would like to shake all of the above hand… We need more of this, we are and all have been made different, and to enjoy each other in every way. I had a very dear friend that had ms and let me tell you he didn’t stop for and body, I one time was driving on the highway he looks at me and say’s, hey stop at the next rest I want to see what’s out there!!! I thought hey good for you! So I did.
what a very interesting article, I learned something today that I was always wondering
and what might that be @oxfguy?
wow you are really cute and a nice cock. i would love to hookup with you if i lived closer to you. and i wouldnt mind doing most the work. i’d rock your world.
you are so brave I agree with all the guys on here we able bodied guys take forgranted that we can care for ourselves with no help.
good for you
thanks mate, we all need it hey, I have had a few very satisfying times with a guy who needs a wheelchair to get around – nice bloke
Positive attitude and a great smile! Kudos Andrew!
thankyou Andrew for having the courage to appear here, you are commended for having a very positive attitude and work with what you have.
A great story to share.
There are millions of people who are in this guy’s situation both due to illness, injuries from things like auto accidents and now–many men and women who lost limbs or had other damage done to them thanks to having gone served in the military in one of our recent, decade long wars.
Just like those of us who blessedly don’t have to deal with a situation like Andrew faces.
I am glad that there are great people out there who will be with someone like an Andrew and do what is necessary for the both of them to have fulfilling and enjoyable sex.
Great and inspiring story.
I have to say, how great it is to see a great looking guy with quantities of courage and charisma to spare! I can’t really add anything to all the positive thoughts, words and vibes coming from my fellow gay brethren. However Andrew if you ever come to this side of ‘The Pond’ on your travels… would be great to have a coffee and a chat at the very least 😉
I wish you all the joy and happiness in the world mate 😉
Andrew: From my heart to yours, thank you so much for taking the time to share your thoughts. Your warm smile and good looks embraced me entirely. Many hugs and kisses to you. Cheers.
Thank you for all the kinds words. Keep em coming 🙂
Sexy is sexy.
just so lovely, and he is a bear too! YAY 😀
I never post anywhere but Andrew is the best and you are smart to feature him. We should always always remember that we are brothers. Brothers that love each other and care for each other. Never forget that.