As gay men, we’re fortunate that sex toys don’t carry as much stigma as they do for our straight counterparts. Many of us grew up as the “Samantha” of our friend group, and it shows. Gay sex toys should be fun, not messy and complicated.
But I had no clue about what was out there…which is why I decided to write a review of the best gay sex toys for 2024.
Let’s start with a preview of the top 10 sex toys for gay men:
- Aneros Helix Syn Trident – Best gay sex toy overall
- Lovense Gush – A little “head” for your thoughts
- Pornstar Fleshlight Joey Mills – Gay porn star Fleshjack
- Fleshlight “Guys” Dildo Johnny Sins – Gay porn star dildo
- Aneros Progasm Ice – Intense prostate milking
- Lovense Max 2 – 360 interactive sex sleeve
- Pornstar Fleshlight Brent Corrigan – Best texture for a Fleshjack
- LELO Hugo 2 – Most futuristic of the bunch
- Autoblow – The most advanced sex sleeve
- Lovense Edge 2 – Interactive remote gay sex toy
Want more gay sex toys? Let’s dive in deeper, pun intended.
First Things First, What Makes a Sex Toy “Gay”?
Colloquially speaking, some toys are classified as “gay,” and some are “straight.” (And some might be a little bi-curious, [like you?])
Some of the best gay sex toys are often designed for anal stimulation. One of the most powerful orgasms you will ever have is when you massage the prostate gland directly using one of our reviewed prostate massagers.
Of course, gay, bi, or straight men can all use an anal sex toy. Everyone assigned male at birth is born with a prostate gland, and it seems like a shame to let that big batch of sensitive nerve endings go to waste!
Prostate milking is intense!
And, of course, many of these gay sex toys are also designed for penis stimulation too. For example, there are “gay” fleshlights designed to mimic buttholes rather than vaginas.
Here Are the Top 14 Gay Sex Toys in 2024
When it comes to anal play for gay men, the Aneros Helix Syn Trident did not disappoint.
1. Aneros Helix Syn Trident – The Most Powerful Anal Gay Sex Toy In the Universe!
Key Features
● Hands-free prostate massage
● Angled head for direct prostate stimulation
● Comfortable silicone exterior
● $70
The top-selling anal sex toy is designed to find, press, and start stimulation on your “P-spot” or prostate in just seconds. Simply lube up, insert the toy into the rectum, and clench your anal muscles to feel extra pressure.
The toy is designed to be completely hands-free while also providing anal stimulation in 4 erogenous zones: the anus entryway, perineum, prostate, and PC muscles.
Like the shaft part of the sex toy, the front and back “arms” not only provide vibrating stimulation but also serve as a flared base for safety.
Experience toe-curling prostate orgasms like never before.
Get the Aneros Helix Syn Trident
2. Lovense Gush – Best Penis Massager Sex Toy
Key Features
● Remote control penis tip massager
● Size is not an issue – it surrounds you
● Ten patterns of vibration
● $99
The Lovense Gush tip massager is a vibrating penis massager which operates via remote control. Let the arms of the Gush envelope your penis tip and enjoy a hands-free experience.
The Gush has ten different vibrating speeds for your personalized comfort. Along with its adjustable arms, you also get an optional band for additional tightness, which is similar to cock rings.
Use it solo or torture a partner till they squirm. We love to see it.
3. Pornstar Fleshlight Joey Mills – Best of the Butt Gay Sex Toys
Key Features
● Official Joey Mills Fleshlight
● A spiraling variation of the STU Fleshlight design
● Nice tight butt exterior
● $70
GayVN Award-winner Joey Mills is a twink porn star and has a youthful body with a boyish charm. His “electric sensation” Fleshlight sleeve is a spiraling variation of the Stamina Training Unit, with snug stimulation chambers filled with pleasure nubs.
Dive in deep.
4. Fleshlight “Guys” Dildo Johnny Sins – Best of the Dildo Gay Sex Toys
Key Features
● Modeled after bisexual porn star Johnny Sins
● Made with safe platinum-cured silicone
● $70
You can’t have a conversation about porn star Johnny Sins without talking about his 8.5-inch penis and testicles – and that’s what Fleshlight has created. The Johnny Sins Fleshjack Dildo is modeled after Johnny’s own “Johnson” and is a king among gay sex toys.
Can you take it all? Are you the throat goat? Make Kim proud.
Get the Johnny Sins 8.5-inch Dildo
5. Aneros Progasm Ice – Most Unique Sensation for an Anal Sex Toy
Key Features
● Larger base & angled head
● Firmer arms for the stimulation of erogenous zones
● “Kundalini” K-tab targets your lower back
● $60
The Aneros Progasm Ice is another prostate massager built for anal play, but one built with a fancier chrome-style shine and firmer and rounder flared arms.
The unique design makes it effective in targeting the erogenous zones, like the perineum, testicles, and anus. But the Kundalini “K-Tab is a special addition that sends shivers up your spine!
6. Lovense Max 2 – Most Interactive Male Sleeve Sex Toy
Key Features
● 360 auto-rotating sleeve
● Can sync with other sex toys
● $130
The Lovense Max 2 improves upon the basic sex sleeve design and makes it more interactive, thanks to Bluetooth connectivity, as well as a 360-degree contractions feature.
Whereas other buzzing sleeves vibrate in the same spot, the Lovense Max finds a way to surround your shaft and tip and give it a complete 360-angle massage.
7. Pornstar Fleshlight Brent Corrigan – Best Feeling Fleshlight Sex Toy
Key Features
● Sex toy modeled after Brent’s real butt
● Fleshlight Bliss texture with two patterns in 1
● $80
Brent Corrigan is a fairly young and muscular gay porn star, and his Fleshjack toy is modeled after his butt. It has the interior of the popular Fleshlight Bliss texture.
If you’ve ever wanted to have your way with Brent, now’s the time!
Get the Brent Corrigan Fleshlight
8. LELO Hugo 2 – Best of the Anal Toys for Couples
Key Features
● Bluetooth app-connected prostate massager
● Two motors inside
● Ideal for couples’ anal play
● $180
The Lelo Hugo is one of the smaller prostate massagers, but it makes up for it in power. Not one but two motors, one on the shaft and one on the base, power the Hugo 2.
The design allows for hands-free operation or easy couple’s play. The app offers four default vibrations or six extra patterns.
You’ll be shaking around on the bed. Trust me, I know.
9. Autoblow AI Ultra – Most Intense Gay Sex Toy for Sucking
Key Features
● Hands-free robotic BJ simulation
● AI-fed technology for realism
● Free video-sync library
● $200
The Autoblow is one of the most powerful electronically powered sex toys in the world, which realistically simulates oral sex.
The Autoblow comes in 3 advanced models with different intensity levels, noise levels, and video sync capabilities: AI, AI Ultra, and VacuGlide.
10. Lovense Edge 2 – Best of the Gay Toys for Online Play
Key Features
● Fun online multiplayer action
● Adjustable shaft for better angles
● Music sync vibrations with the app
● $99
A whole world of online fun is waiting out there, and the Lovense Edge enhances that experience. Two-way interactivity with partners is a blast, and you can even use the toy when going on gay cam-to-cam sites.
The shaft/head is also highly flexible and adjustable for better angles.
11. LELO F1S V2 – Most Futuristic of Gay Toys
Key Features
● Innovative Sensonic sonic waves technology
● Customizable patterns
● $200
I’m just “nuts” about the Lelo F1S V2 masturbator toy. This is an electronic sex sleeve that uses Sensonic Technology, combining sleeve sensation and vibration with sonic waves. The Cruise Control option lets you customize rhythms and feelings you like.
If you want a gay sex toy that’s giving sci-fi realness, look no further.
12. Lovense Sex Machine – Best of the Thrusting Sex Toys
Key Features
● Only true automatic “thrusting” sex toy
● App-controlled & adjustable
● Quiet but powerful
● $700
The Lovense Sex Machine is a powerful motorized sex toy that “thrusts” a dildo at a speed of 300 strokes per minute. You can even put bi-directional dildos on the sex machine and adjust the speed and positioning using an app.
Whether you’re training for anal sex or just love getting your prostate pounded, it doesn’t get much more intense than this.
13. Fleshlight “Guys” Dildo Manuel Ferrara – Biggest Dildo Fleshjack Sex Toy
Key Features
● Modeled after Manuel Ferrara’s penis
● 8” length / 6.5“ girth
● $69.95
Manuel Ferrara has a distinctly European charm, and now the porn star is available in sex toy form. His Fleshjack dildo is made from body-safe SuperSkin material and measures up to the real deal.
At a nice 8 inches long, you can’t go wrong here.
14. LELO Loki Wave 2 – Best Shower Toy for Mess-Free Anal Play
Key Features
● Waterproof anal toy with 12 settings
● WaveMotion tech for multiple vibration styles
● $220
The LELO Loki Wave 2 is a prostate massager sex toy with 12 pleasure settings, letting you choose between a soft finger-like tease and a stronger pulse. The e-sex toy is also waterproof and safe even to take inside the shower with you.
It also has a “come hither” motion that sensually strokes your prostate, milking you dry. Get into it.
What’s the Best Lube to Use for Gay Sex Toys?
Lube is essential to use during any form of anal sex or anal play because of the risk of damaging sensitive tissue if you go in rough and dry.
For the safest anal play, choose high-quality water-based lube, as it’s completely safe to use and has fewer “interactions” than silicone or oil-based lubricants do.
Silicone-based lube can destroy silicone sex toys, and oil-based lube can destroy latex condoms, so thick water-based lube is an excellent general all-around for gay sex toys.
You’re welcome.
How Do I Clean Gay Sex Toys?
Most gay sex toys can be easily cleaned using warm water and antibacterial soap.
However, some materials (such as Fleshjacks) are sensitive to soaps. In that case, you need to use water immediately after use and a soap-free cleanser.
To be sure, check the gay sex toy’s instructions… especially if it’s an electronic toy or made from an unusual material like wood or glass.
Conclusion – Best Sex Toys for Gay Men
Now you know some of the top-selling prostate massagers and masturbators for gay men. But the real question is, which gay sex toys are best for you?
In my opinion, the Aneros Helix Syn Trident was the best technology for the price. I found the Aneros brand of gay toys to be the most sophisticated, easy to operate, and really the toy to beat in 2024.
Why not try a new set of gay toys this month and experience the magic for yourself?
