2017 is a chance to expand your sexual horizon. Do you have a fuckbuddy who just isn’t making the cut? Do you have a deadbeat boyfriend who won’t beat that ass up? Meet someone else this January to start spicing up the new year. To help you with this process, we’ve put together some key tips for meeting and getting to know your new fuckbuddy. Check them out below!
1. Find out their top to bottom ratio
When it comes down to it, less people are total-tops and total-bottoms than you’d think. Finding someone who has a ratio that compliments yours is a great start to a new friends-with-benefits relationship. If you want to bottom most of the time, it’ll get frustrating if he’s already bent over and waiting when you get there.
2. Ask if he prefers giving or receiving head
Some guys love the hard day’s work in sucking a guy off, but others just want to lay back and nut on a handsome face. This one is quite easy to figure out – ask them straight up! Communication is key even in the most casual relationships.
3. Always have condoms and lube ready
You’d be surprised how many guys will have someone over without being fully prepared. Even if the other guy is hosting, bring some supplies to make sure you can make the sexy times happen. Bring at least 2 condoms because – hey – you never know!
4. Meet him in public the first time
Let’s face it – some people are crazy. And others will lie or use old pictures to try and get a hookup. These guys, “catfishers” if you will, often bank on you feeling too awkward to call them out on it. To avoid these situations, meet them in a public place first, then walk them back to your place. This makes an escape easy if it turns out you don’t like what (or who) you see. Plus you never know – maybe it will turn into some public fun.
5. Put yourself out there
If you’re having trouble meeting someone new the old fashioned way, turn to online means. Use your Squirt.org account to meet hot guys in your area. If you don’t like the idea of chatting online then check out the cruising listings and discover the best places to meet strangers in person. Next thing you know you’ll be sucking all the dick your heart desires.
6. Tell him what you want
There’s no point beating around the bush when you could be beating him off. The whole point of a fuck buddy is to get your sexual desires filled, so someone who can’t do that isn’t worth your time! Be straight forward. If you want to suck his cock – tell him. If you want to pound his ass hard – let him know! There’s no time for games. The year is already in full swing!
What are your tips for a new hookup? Leave a comment down below!
Great tips! Now, do you have a tip for getting YOUNGER! Have had a great sex life, and at 70 I love the memories, but they are…just that, memories! WHERE IS THE FOUNTAIN OF YOUTH!!! LOL
There is a cult of youth in the gay scene now. I am have always been attracted to guys older than myself, but now that I am classed as an older guy myself ( and rightly so ) I find that the very guys I am looking for don’t advertise.
Horses for courses.! 😉
Hey, Rodman, accept you’re a daddy a I’m sure younger men and even boys shall like and love you again.
I’ll defo ride the last guy the Belami model .. what a cock.. lush
Damn, some of these guys are some of the hottest and some of the hottest action seen here in months!
Luv the cum shots ,totally agree that last guy flipping his cock is hot a very cute. Super looking cock. His partner is also cute. Let’s see more of them.
tips? I don’t have any. I need all the tips I can get, it’s been over 4 years since my pink pucker ass had dick inside it!
So if anyone has any tips that actually work, please let me and others in the same situation out there know what they are.
Ok so I am older but still get my fair share. Let guys know what you are about and always be prepared with all you need before he arrives. That includes a towel and show it is always nice to be spottles
Us old horses can still run in stake races. No problem in getting some. Some of these so called young fellas should be getting my amount of man pussy!
I really need to get plowed! Size isn’t as much as the action! I’m a total bottom living in a rural area and there’s no action around here!
As mature gay man my eyes go to young jocks and twinks.