Porn is often kinky. It shows gay men’s sexuality at its extremes. How many videos have you seen of a daddy elbow deep in boy, or of a stud tied up having his ass passed around the room? The truth is that gay porn is often people’s desires played out and exaggerated. Now, don’t get us wrong. Kink is hot. Kink is the spice of life, or should we say sex life. It’s where people lose their inhibitions and experience true pleasure.
That in mind, today is National Vanilla Cupcake day, and it reminded us that sometimes we need to appreciate the simple things in life. Not every hookup we have is going to involve getting pissed on, spanked, or having our nipples clamped. Sometimes vanilla sex is what happens and is exactly what we need.
That’s why we’re celebrating some of the best parts of vanilla sex. Here are just a few reasons vanilla sex can be great, too:
1. It’s intimate
Sometimes you don’t wanna get wrecked, you just want a good steady pounding. Vanilla sex can be intimate and sometimes we just need a little tender touch. Even if it’s a hook up, there’s nothing wrong with a tender moment between (relative) strangers.
2. If you’re bottoming it leaves you less sore.
Taking a tough pounding is just as tough on your body as you’d expect. Sometimes vanilla sex means you can have more sex, more often. If you don’t need time for your ass and legs to recover, you can use that time having more sex. It’s simple math, guys. Get with it.
3. Missionary is underrated
Sure, doggystyle is hot. The bottom gets to feel sexy with their ass out and gets to hear the sound of their ass slapping. The top gets a great view of their partner’s ass and back muscles. And cowboy is great too. The bouncing motion is satisfying, and the angles fit just right. All that said, missionary is still pretty awesome. First of all, you get to make out, and making out during sex can make it that much more intense. Second, the angle makes it easy to get nice and deep. Third, you get to watch your partner’s face as your rock their fucking world.
4. It’s Good Starting Ground
You don’t learn to ice skate and start with a triple axel. You don’t learn to swim by diving into the deep end. You don’t ace a test without studying. You get the idea. Before you can start tying people up, or sticking your fist in them, you need to learn the ropes (pun intended). Vanilla sex is a great way to get to know your partner a bit before you move on to more exciting things. More importantly, vanilla sex is a chance to get to know your own body and your own sexuality. You need to start with a foundation, then build from there.
5. Kink Wouldn’t Be Kink Without Vanilla Sex
If you didn’t feel sad would happiness be as enjoyable? Similarly, would kink be as fun and exciting if vanilla sex didn’t exist? Probably not. Kink is the spice of life, or in this case of sex lives, and vanilla sex is the less intense but more digestible base dish it gets sprinkled on. Not everyone is all-kink all-the-time, so vanilla sex makes every kinky experience that much more exciting and new. Isn’t that as good of a reason to appreciate it as any?
All positions are fine with me as long as I am on the bottom, gentle to rough just fill me with your cum men. woof woof!!!!
I just love it all vanilla to wild!
no such thing as a bad position
I concur with NC Strip Search
I’d much rather have a long and enjoyable vanilla session than anything else.
Lotta hot men. The best position to me will always be the one I call fuck-n-suck….you’re suckin’ him while fuckin’ him. It’s pretty vanilla…with sprinkles!??
Missionary position under-rated? I prefer it! It’s more personal and sexier.
I like all photos. For me the suitable position would be as in photos #1. I like to feel the man’s whole sexy body on top of me when I do the bottoming. Great sensation and a real turn on.
Daily squirt asked –
“How vanilla do you consider yourself?”
Well I’m less than vanilla, I’m somewhat tasteless – as it’s been almost five years since my tight ass had any dick in it, let alone any vanilla sex!
While the edge is fun, vanilla can be the ultimate turn on with the right partner.
Missionary best … love looking into my bf’s eyes while fucking