Matthew J. Dempsey on Gay Men and “Body Image”

1. This can be a serious problem

2. A lot of what he says makes good sense. However the cynic in me thinks that advice about how to be more accepting of our looks coming from a clearly handsome guy comes off as a little difficult to swallow.Could this really good looking guy completely get or understand average guys struggles with body image.

3. I thought the same at first frotbear, but then listened to his other videos that are linked to this one. He himself went through the fat, geek, overly exuberant child that could be made fun of and came out the other end. I think the real beauty in this man is what you see in his eyes and how he owns his own being. Being gay, the process of acceptance in all of its facets can be difficult, as we have an unbalanced perspective of society as a whole throwing in its two cents. I think this man is really trying to make a difference. He made me feel better about a few things, gave me reason to ponder, and I am sixty and have always been out.

4. That’s all well and good, but all I have to say is he should include stills, if not video, on this site of himself naked and with a hard-on

5. fair comment

6. yeah, some nudies would be nice…as for body image, there’s a market for everything…think of your most displeasing body feature…someone out there is getting hard just looking at it…guaranteed…one man’s figure flaw is another man’s fetish…

7. cool

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