For many guys, there’s an undeniable sexual edge associated with public toilets. This is a guy-only space, where trousers are being undone and bodies exposed. For many years, public toilets were one of the best ways to meet other guys who were up for an encounter of some description - even if it was just an anonymous glory-hole, or some under the cubicle-wall or under-stall action. For some guys it still is - a bit of public sex adds an element of excitement, danger, the thrill of getting caught, and the exhibitionism of having an audience.
We conducted a quick survey with a sample of our readers. 55% of respondents confirmed that they found public bathrooms sexually arousing. A further 32% said that it could be, depending on the circumstances. When it comes to the readers of Squirt.org, it seems as if most of us are entering public bathrooms open to possibilities.
The sexual possibilities of public bathrooms frequently move beyond the possibilities of our fantasies, into hands-on encounters. 71% of respondents confirmed that they had experienced a sexual encounter in a public bathroom.
But what is it that excites about public bathrooms. We asked our survey respondents to spell it out for us – here’s some of the most common responses:
- – “Seeing other guys’ cocks.”
- – “Just being around other guys and seeing each other’s dicks.”
- – “The adrenaline. The danger of getting caught. The excitement of not knowing what will and will not happen. The expectation of the unknown.”
- – “The feeling that you may get caught.”
- – “Men showing their dicks.”
- – “Seeing hot guys unzipping.”
- – “Being watched.”
- – “The randomness. The in-your-face, let’s-get-off attitude. No small talk!”
- – “Guys standing around with their cocks out. The mystery of the unknown. You never know what type of guy you’ll see, or what their cock might be like.”
- – “The fact that the penis is already out, instigates or implies that sex can happen.”
- – “The randomness, the anonymity, the no-strings-attached.”
- – “The possibility of getting caught.”
- – “The smell, the danger of being caught, the thought of sex with a stranger.”
- – “The atmosphere can be near animalistic.”
- – “Just seeing men with their penis in their hand.”
One of the most sexually charged urinals that I’ve ever encountered is at Munich’s Oktoberfest beer festival. On the first Sunday of the festival, one of the enormous beer tents gets taken over by the gays. That’s 8,000 gay guys, wearing lederhosen, and drinking a lot of beer. Predictably, everyone needs to urinate a lot. There are two toilets in the tent – both relatively small and cramped spaces given the number of people involved. As the day progresses, everything gets pretty uninhibited – as the lederhosen come down there’s plenty of eager hands and mouths to lend a hand.
The sexual dynamics of public bathrooms and urinals are fascinating. If there weren’t laws against, it I could spend hours just hanging out in men’s toilets, watching what’s going on.
It can be hot but, also very boring. Mood killer, someone stinking it up. Of course that goes with the territory. Bratty/whiny kids who come in with their Dad/granddad/adult male. Those who can’t take no as an answer. I’ve had some fun doing it in the past, seems like it’s becoming less of a thing. I think repercussions from getting caught factors in. Because of sites like Squirt, it’s more widely know what can happen.
Can be very exciting clean toilets and with gay/bi men who are horned up have had good sexual encounters in public toilets in the passed.
I had an experience when i deployed to iraq. I was showering in an open bathroom area. There were seperate showers but, the bathroom itself was open to all.
Anyway, my curtain was slightly open and i noticed this guy across from me showering. Tall, nice body and big dick. We caught each other’s eye and basically starting jacking off watching each other.
After about 5-10 mins, he came over to my shower and we exchanged blowjobs. Probably one of the most erotic experiences I’ve ever had. One, because i had never done that in public. Two, like i said we were on a military base in iraq in the the men’s bathroom/shower area, who knows who could have caught us!!!
There might have been a time that having hook ups in public restrooms was a cool thing to do—-even with more draconian laws and the social disgrace one would have heaped upon you if caught.
With the laws of today, that just merely getting caught taking a piss in public can get you arrested, cost a fortune to litigate and then once found guilty—get labeled a “Sex Offender”—to get caught engaging in an open sexual act now–surely can lead to that and all the negative repercussions–that is all bad enough.
Since the advent of HIV/AIDS, even now with Prep and other drugs that no longer make becoming HIV/AIDS positive a death sentence or even getting it—just health wise with these illnesses and the rise in Hepatitis and Menengitis and other STD’s—for the health risks alone–should make doing anything of this sort a non-starter for most people—hate to rain on people’s parades–but such is the nature of real world consequences of “having a little fun.”
Cruising in toilets and parks etc is virtually non-existent where I live.
Either the places have been shut down and/or guys just aren’t doing it in this area anymore!
Which is a shame!! So to see it is still fairly active in some parts makes me very jealous that the thrill of public sex etc is still being experienced, where as here it virtually doesn’t happen anymore.