Many countries around the world will be celebrating Father’s Day on Sunday 16 June.
Father’s Day is something that has been celebrated for centuries – honouring fathers and celebrating fatherhood, paternal bonds, and the influence of fathers in society.
If you’re into guys, then you’ll be acutely aware that there’s an inherently sexual edge to inter-generational encounters – a role-play that’s universally referred to as Daddy/Son.
If you look at the data for any gay porn platform, or read a bit of gay erotic fiction, or just spend a bit of time immersed in gay Twitter, you’ll appreciate that Daddy/Son scenarios are often at the top of the list of what fuels our fap fantasies.
But what draws a lot of gay men to explore a Daddy/Son role play in their relationships and their hook-ups? What is it about inter-generational encounters that excites us and turns us on?
Daddy/Son
“Just because the body ages, that doesn’t mean that we stop desiring healthy bodies…” explains sexologist Justin David Duwe. “ This is programmed into our DNA. Humans are attracted to healthy bodies. Younger bodies tend to be healthier than older ones, so that’s probably one reason for why older men are attracted to younger men. In terms of younger men, they tend to look at older men as a replacement father figure, or see them as having a characteristic that they don’t possess.”
Two dads are better than one
One fantasy that seems fairly common, is when a gay couple - who might be in their mid-40s or older – decide to bring a younger boy into their relationship to spice things up a bit.
I asked sexologist Justin David Duwe why that scenario might be appealing to the couple.
“Because they’re probably very bored with one another and are hoping that bringing in a distraction will fix their issues with desire and sexual functioning…” explains Duwe. “Most gay men have tremendous difficulty with conflict resolution, or the creation of emotional connections – which we generally refer to as intimacy.”
“In terms of why that scenario might be appealing to the boy involved…” continues Duwe. “He may feel special, or feel as if the arrangement offers him the opportunity for financial gain or social status. He may think that it’s possible that one of the couple will have a relationship with him. It may be just plain sexual attraction and nothing more.”
Real life
We asked our readers to share with us their experiences of Daddy/Son role-plays or encounters.
“I’ve always been attracted to older guys. They’re more mature - in and out of bed. The biggest age-gap relationship I’ve had was 22 years – he was 22 years older than me.”
“When I first moved to San Francisco, in my early 20s, I needed someone to show me the ropes. I got involved with two leather daddies – big mistake, that wasn’t for me - I wasn’t into obeying rules. I eventually found an older guy who showed me the ropes and I didn’t have cater to his ego.”
“We met on a dating app. I’d specified the age group range of 28 to 35. For me, it was about having sex with a ‘man’ – muscle, chest hair – at that time I’d never found boys my age attractive. He messaged me and had said on his profile that he was 38. We met and really got on. We ended up seeing each other every day for a week, then he told me he was actually 44 – by that time it didn’t really matter as the sexual attraction was there, and he looked a lot younger than he was. I wasn’t really conscious of the age difference at all, I wasn’t really thinking about having a long-term relationship, it just happened.”
“I’m generally more attracted to guys who are the same age or older than me, rather than guys who are younger. The oldest guy I ever dated was in his early 50s when I was 33, but everyone else has been within around 5–10 years of my own age.”
“My husband is 16 years younger than I am - he keeps my perspective on life fresh, and he doesn’t use age as an excuse not to try something new.”
“I’ve always found older men attractive. Before my husband, when I was in my early-20s I dated men who were in their mid-30s, I found that age group to be my sexual ideal of a masculine man.”
“My husband’s father was emotionally absent, so I try and provide that emotional support that he didn’t get and always make him feel loved.”
“We’ve been together for sixteen years and married for six years. I was 23 when we first met, and he was 44.”
“I started dating younger guys when I turned 35 - I started to grasp my own mortality.”
“I think my husband likes younger guys because at the time he grew up, it wasn’t really possible to have a relationship with another guy. Knowing he was gay from a young age, he never felt like he got to explore that side sexually - so his sexual age range in guys didn’t mature at the same rate he did.”
Who gives good Daddy/Son porn?
Maverick Men
Cole and Hunter are masters at creating amateur-style porn where they work over young horny boys.
Family Dick
It does what it says on the tin, delivering incest-themed fantasies day in and day out.
Missionary Boys
Mormon men who take a very hands-on approach to instructing the younger members of their congregation.
Hot Dads Hot Lads
This ticks a lot of boxes.
Icon Male
Bringing high-quality production values to your incest fantasies.
Great post, Gareth. A lot of hot pics and a text that just read matter of fact – a perfect way to handle the subject in my opinion.
Minor point (and one that Gareth may not even be aware of at all): the pic for the FAMILYDICK site.
We’ve seen PLENTY from that set. Dale is hot. Bar is hot below the neck, i.e. excluding the face and vocal chords (voice). The place where
it was shot is cool. I don’t ever need to see anything from that set again. LOL
Excellent, thanks for the feedback hrychstlvr69! Gareth.
Be nice to see lads on lads
Yeah, because we NEVER see anything like that.
Seriously, dude. You should’ve figured out this was going to be anything but “lads on lads” with a title like “Happy Father’s Day, Daddy!” And, as I snarkily noted above, you can find plenty of “lads on lads” everywhere on this site, pretty much every single day of the year.
Luv the whole daddy fantasy. Even tho I’m daddy aged myself, I get off on doing it with silver foxes.
Very hot for Daddy is very special Dad’s Day.
Always liked the contrast between young and “old.”
Would like to read real stories where a dad introduced son to man sex.
Check out the Cock Tales section on Squirt.org! I’m sure you’ll find something to fuel your fantasies! Gareth.
Never been a fan of the father son scenario. Secondly, some of these guys are not old enough to have sons that age
Good point, down_to_earth_man – it’s just a fantasy role-play. Gareth.
mostly no
Some of the best sex I’ve had has been with daddy-types.
The dads are hot and would love to hook up with them. The sons are nice, but too young for me
Ideal hook of lads and dads. Dads are experienced in art of gay sex and lads are eager to learn. Happy fathers day.
love the Mormon porn the young guys in that underware such a turn on.
Yes – totally agree gayplaygay! Gareth.
IMO we’ve seen better daddy/son pairings.
Haha – fair enough, SicilianMikey. It wasn’t meant as a definitive list – just a few images to illustrate the words. Gareth.