Even a man who thought that women want to have sex with their fathers, and that women spend much of their lives distraught over their lack of a penis is right sometimes. This person, the legend that is Sigmund Freud, theorized that people often have the most hateful and negative attitudes towards things they secretly crave, but feel that they shouldn’t have.
If Freud is right, then perhaps men who are the most opposed to male homosexuality have particularly strong homosexual urges for other men.
One study asked heterosexual men how comfortable and anxious they are around gay men. Based on these scores, they then divided these men into two groups: men that are homophobic, and men who are not. These men were then shown three, four-minute videos. One video depicted straight sex, one depicted lesbian sex and one depicted gay male sex. While this was happening, a device was attached to each participant’s penis. This device has been found to be triggered by sexual arousal, but not other types of arousal (such as nervousness, or fear – arousal often has a very different meaning in psychology than in popular usage).
When viewing lesbian sex and straight sex, both the homophobic and the non-homophobic men showed increased penis circumference. For gay male sex, however, only the homophobic men showed heightened penis arousal.
Heterosexual men with the most anti-gay attitudes, when asked, reported not being sexually aroused by gay male sex videos. But, their penises reported otherwise.
Homophobic men were the most sexually aroused by gay male sex acts.
Or my former BFF who swore he was straight & I did stuff with him that would make Chi Chi herself take notes! Mr. Raised-Holy-Roller swears he went to church and got cured of his urges! More like suppressing them due to his up-bringing! The stuff we did NUMEROUS times is beyond experimentation. How does this relate? Simple, the home environment scares these men & the use of (dis)organized religion & humanizing God has them fearful of male love. But I’ll tell you this, he had NO trouble scoring women & his ability to hold off cuming, he could teach pornstars a thing or two, when I asked him to judge the blowjobs I gave against the many women he had had, he couldn’t look me in the eyes & answer! He stopped short of saying mine were the best! Its all a fear thing. By their peers, parents, kids, etc. As the saying goes, the squeakier wheel gets the oil. The more ya bitch about it, the more it effects you on some level! Imo the most “homophobic” are probably the most curious!
I defenitely believe this to be true. In fact if you read my cocktails I have encountered at least one avowed str8 man that insisted if he only allowed one guy to at first lick his nuts, then progress to sucking his dick to fucking me to finally getting fucked himself he was still str8 because it was only one guy he allowed to do anything with. We probably have met a lot of guys like this and lord knows there are lots of deep in the closet men yearning to be with another male but fear where things could lead.
Hearts, minds and mouths may lie — but an aroused penis never does.
Have had many encounters with so called straight men and do agree with tylerx on this. After fucking or being fucked they shoot their loads and go right back to denial status but are on the phone a week later wanting to hook up.hehe