Sometimes, gay males love the allure of an anonymous, risky and very public gay hookup, and a washroom cruise spot is a great way to stimulate all these kinks, among other things.
If you’re new to gay cruising and want to start, don’t know how to, or want to know how you can tell when another man is DTF, this piece is for you!
Why Start Cruising Gay Restrooms
Cruising for sex can happen pretty much anywhere. Public spaces such as airports, train stations, truck stops, libraries, or parks are all potential hot spots for men that are looking for some man-on-man action.
But it’s in men’s restrooms – the public toilets – where some of the most satisfying cruising goes down.
You might think gay restroom cruising is a thing of the past. Why bother cruising when you can put the technology to work?
But the anonymous thrills of cruising are very much alive and kicking. It’s not just for closeted guys who need to be discreet – once you’ve had a taste of the adrenalin rush of a restroom encounter, there’s no doubt you’ll be back for more.
How to Find a Gay Public Toilet
Let’s be honest; any restroom or public washroom has the potential to be a hot spot for man-on-man action. But wherever you are, there are bound to be some washrooms that are known as the go-to options if you want some cruising action.
Word-of-mouth is really effective, but unless you’re already connected with guys who are into that kind of thing, your best bet is online listings such as Squirt.org.
Generally, washrooms that are a bit out of the way are the preferred option for cruising. You don’t want too much traffic – you don’t want any unwanted attention. You’re looking for a quiet spot where guys can get to business without interruptions.
But the reality is that if you’re wondering – “Is there any gay cruising near me?” – the answer will be yes. You just need to be alert to the signals and open to the opportunities.
How to Tell When Men Are Cruising Toilets
There are a couple of tried and tested signals that you should keep an eye out for regarding gay cruising etiquette.
If the guy in the cubicle next to you taps his foot, that generally means that he’s up for some action.
A swipe of the fingers is another sign to look for. Traditionally, this has been used for glory holes – if you swipe your fingers around the edge of the glory hole, it’s game on. But it also works for understall action; if the guy in the cubicle next to you swipes his fingers along the bottom of the wall, he’s ready to play.
If you’re open to a bit of cruising fun, check out the cubicle that’s furthest away from the door or the part of the urinal that’s obscured. If there’s any action to be had, this is where it will be.
How to Cruise for Guys at a Public Washroom
You need to be aware of the laws in your area. In some parts of the world, there’s no law against cruising. In others, having sex in a public washroom is illegal. Some police forces actively target known cruising spots and will try and arrest men they suspect of cruising. Make sure you know the local rules.
Once you’re up-to-speed with the legal situation, then you’re ready for action.
The main thing about cruising in a public washroom is to take your time. Don’t be in a rush. Observe what’s going on around you.
You might notice a guy or two hanging around the entrance to the washroom. If they’re interested, they might follow you in.
If the washroom is deserted, head to the farthest cubicle and get comfortable. See who else comes in. See if someone comes into the adjacent cubicle and gives you any signals – such as tapping their foot or swiping their fingers.
If a guy is standing at the urinal, and you like his look, stand next to him at the urinal. Take your time, let him take a look at your cock. Take your lead from him; has he got his cock out? Is he hard? Is he jacking his cock?
Once you’ve connected with someone, and it’s clear that you’re both on the same page and up for some fun, then you’ve got a couple of options.
Some guys like an audience – they’ll suck you or want you to suck them while standing at the urinal. Others might want a bit more privacy, so suggest that you head into a cubicle to get it on.
Depending on the design of the cubicles, understall action can be a lot of fun. Get down on the floor and get to grips with each other.
Public washrooms get much more interesting once you appreciate that a satisfying sexual encounter could be on the table.
Yeah, until COVID is more under control, it’s a hard pass these days.
yup cant beat crusing .. always get a cock in me
That’s how I met my Latin lover. Side by side at a urinal and he kept pulling out more of his beautiful cock.
A favorite past time of mine too lately. Love cruising the restroom at my favorite department store. Took a load from a cute businessman one afternoon while 3 others watched the show. Actually ended up getting 3 loads that day in about 45 minutes time
Ya. As if they would be this blatant – C’mon – pass
Your going to the wrong toilets then haha
Nothing is creepier than entering a public washroom and finding someone loitering around hoping for action. Maybe that was done out of necessity in the dark old days when gay men had no other means to connect, but nowadays it’s just disgusting.
I agree that some people are predatory and thats what you should be calling out, calling everyone who cruises this disgusting though, mate what are you even doing on squirt, are you just trolling? Cruising is still a huge part of the man2man culture but because of people like you actively shaming others its only ever spoken about in past tense unless you know someone who does it. Personally so long as their clean give me a cubical any day at least i know some kid isn’t going to walk up and see me
I never find anyone as interesting as those guys above in any restroom I’ve cruised.
As someone said above, you are cruising the wrong restrooms.
Anyone who thinks pictorial depictions accompanying a non-fiction piece like this has to have their heads scratched. This is porn, the graphic depictions are all a fantasy made to get you off, and not reality.
Sorry, that first sentence was meant to say, “Anyone who thinks pictorial depictions accompanying a non-fiction piece like this is reality has to have his head scratched.” Not enough coffee this morning!
Tried this a couple of times. Was a nervous wreck. Didn’t happen.
Had my first gay experience as a young man at a public urinal. Triggered something in me, still enjoy it time to time, the excitement, what’s not to love, men pissing, cocks , cum , good fun
Drop to one knee like you’re tieing your shoes, and your tongue swipe across your lips.