Squirt is not a gay sugar daddy dating website, and none of the messaging in our product states that this is a platform to find sugar daddies or babies; we do not condone it. This article is coming from a place of education and awareness, with no judgment towards those who seek and look for educational resources on the subject.
There’s obviously nothing new about money playing a role in the relationships we form and the sexual encounters that we have. While there’s countless reasons why guys from different generations may find each other attractive, when we see an older guy with a younger guy, it’s probably going to cross our mind that this is a Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby kind of situation.
No judgement – a Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby relationship generally works pretty well for both parties. It’s not something that we facilitate or promote here at Daily Squirt or on Squirt.org, but we’re interested in man-on-man encounters in all their forms.
Let’s get into it.

What is Sugar Dating or Transactional Sex?
A Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby situation may not be a purely transactional relationship, but the assumption is that the older guy is paying the bills of the younger guy.
The parties involved probably don’t think of it as sex-work, but you could describe it as a form of long-term sex-work.
There’s not going to be an hourly rate, and there’s unlikely to be a contract of any sort. It may be that money is never discussed but the assumption is that one of the main things that the younger guy finds attractive about the older guy is his willingness to open his wallet and pay for things.

What is the Psychology Behind Transactional Sex?
At the heart of a Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby relationship is a power dynamic, but both parties have leverage. In many ways, it’s a form of gay BDSM play.
If you’re the older guy, you’re offering financial stability, status, and mentorship. The primary power lever that you have is that you could end whatever financial support you’ve been providing to your younger lover.
If you’re the younger guy, you’re offering sex and companionship. You’re also making the older guy look good – it’s a status symbol for an older guy to have a sexy young boyfriend. The primary power lever that you have is that you could withdraw the sexual and emotional intimacy that you’ve been providing to your older lover.

How Can I Find a Gay Sugar Daddy?
There are dating apps out there that purport to specialise in bringing together Sugar Daddies with potential Sugar Babies.
Squirt.org is not a gay sugar daddy dating website, and none of the messaging in our product states that this is a platform to find sugar daddies or babies!
When it comes to dating and relationships, the general rule is to focus on communicating – that being really upfront about your needs and your intentions is the best way to ensure that both parties are getting what they want. However, that’s slightly more complicated if what you’re looking for is some sort of Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby scenario.
While some guys are very clear-headed about the transactional nature of this type of relationship, most potential sugar daddies probably wouldn’t describe themselves in that way.
If you’re a younger guy and you’re looking for a sugar daddy, going in too hard and fast might be a turn-off. If you’re chatting with an older guy and you make it clear that you’re looking for someone to pay your bills in return for sex, you’ll probably find your strike-rate is fairly disappointing.
You need to try and build the fantasy. You want to stoke a man’s ego – be impressed by his success and admire his business prowess. You want to gently reveal your financial vulnerabilities without looking totally desperate. Your sugar daddy should feel desired by you. He should feel pleasure at buying you gifts and treating you to some of the finer things in life.
Don’t expect the cash to flow immediately. He’s unlikely to make some kind of lump-sum payment the first time that you suck his cock. If he starts to show his appreciation for your charms, you just need to gradually build that relationship – building the emotional and financial connection between you.
If you’re struggling to find potential sugar daddies through hook-up apps, a good technique is to attend events where you can hunt these men in their natural habitat. Business networking events or charity galas are a good starting point. You need to be able to mix comfortably in these circles and look like you fit in – if you look broke and desperate, you’re going to struggle. Wear a nice suit, make sure you smell good, and be charming.
It’s also important to know when to cut your losses. Some guys will attempt to string you along – having sex with you and promising all sorts of things but never actually coming good with any sort of financial benefit. Sometimes, you just have to be a bit ruthless.

Start a Gay OnlyFans or Gay Cam Model Career
Having the best camera equipment for OnlyFans is about more than just creating quality content. If you’re also a cam model, you may find a way to obtain that same transactional relationship you seek from a single sugar daddy.
While there are many reasons to create homemade gay porn, cam modelling allows you to grow your followers and subscribers, who may pay for your content and offer to buy items from your Amazon Wish List, for example.
It’s a less direct approach than a typical sugar dating relationship, but it can be just as effective – a fan-subscription channel is a great way to pay the bills, get free stuff or get into the gay porn industry.

How Do I Start Paying for Sex?
If you’ve got a bit of disposable cash but don’t want the emotional commitment of a Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby relationship, then you may prefer just to book an escort whenever you need a bit of intimacy in your life.
Finding local sex workers isn’t something that Squirt.org offers, but it’s obviously part of the landscape of man-on-man encounters.
A good starting point is to understand what the local laws are that might apply to paying for sex. It varies from country to country, and even from state to state. Knowing what the legal situation is will help you to understand and assess any risks you might be taking.
Advertising spaces for independent workers in the sex industry are constantly changing due to efforts to drive sex work off the internet. However, there are still platforms like Tryst, Slixa, Now Toronto, and The Global Directory of Tantra and Sacred Sexuality Professionals available.
When contacting a provider, check their personal website or social media presence to ensure their credibility and learn about their boundaries and preferences. It’s vital to ask relevant questions and provide necessary details, but avoid demanding too much unpaid time. Both parties should respect each other’s expertise and time.
Prices charged by sex-workers will vary. It’s okay to decline if a sex-worker is asking for more than you’re willing to pay, however don’t try and negotiate a lower price – that’s disrespectful.

I am surprised how many young guys are into older men these days in general.
Yes, until about July I had a great time with a guy half my age who loved to fuck me and expected nothing in return except to be able to cum inside me😋or on me. So horny😂. However he’s disappeared, which is a bit alarming 😳
I love older men. Money or no . The wisdom and maturity is amazing