Squirt.org member phil9325, our certified travelling slut, is our regular trip advisor on slutty destinations. Last year, he took us around the world to cities like Berlin and Bogota and kinky events like Folsom. This time, he made his way to New York City in 2025 for a weekend full of clubs, daddies, and lots of cum.
Start spreading your legs; I am leaving today! Welcome to the city that never sleeps and always breeds, New York City. What a fantastic place to start 2025 and to take you on a little slutty adventure.
A city full of men, shows, clubs, and most importantly, lots and lots of horny gay men. Pack your bags, secure your seatbelt and let’s explore what the Big Apple has to offer for you horny sluts.
Where should I stay in New York, and when should I visit?
Being such a big city, New York offers various arrival options (in fact, there are three airports to choose from) and five different boroughs, depending on your budget and plans.
It’s essential to remember that NYC can be a pricey destination, especially if you’re not staying with someone or have a rich sugar daddy to pay for everything. January and February are some of the most affordable months to visit regarding hotels and flights. Still, you’ll miss out on enjoying outdoor cruising parks and outdoor spaces in hot gay cruising bars around the city like you would during the warmer summer months.
However, if budget is not an issue, and you want to be surrounded by horny gays with little to no clothes on, I would suggest coming during Pride in June when everyone’s in a sun-soaked, horny, energetic mood.
What kind of accommodations should I think of when seeing gay NYC?
If you have never been to NYC, you need to determine your vibe to find a hotel. Do you want to shop, see shows, or be a tourist?
Or do you want to party like a rockstar and get your hole loaded every night until you’re dripping cum and can’t walk right? In my case, and the multiple times I’ve been to New York for gay fun, I like to be in between both of these options, so I always try to find a hotel that is close to Times Square and the gay bars. That said, your best options, in my opinion, would be anything between Chelsea or the dreaded Times Square (I know this can be busy, but if you have never visited, it is a great way to be close to the main attractions).
Once you have settled in your hotel, make sure to check the lighting for your nudes and send gay dick pics to bring all the boys on Squirt to your yard; gay hookups await around town, and men on your app grid will immediately see you as the fresh meat in the city needing to be devoured.
What things can I do during the day in NYC?
The options are endless in such a populated place. I recommend visiting Brooklyn, the Upper East and West Sides, Downtown, and Times Square during the day as a tourist.
If you decide to come during summer, you must visit Central Park. You can enjoy a great view of hundreds of naked, gorgeous men in speedos tanning and drinking around the park.
Once the sun sets and if you are still around the park, you must visit the Ramble, the cruisiest spot in town. The Ramble is in the heart of the park, so it’s not challenging to locate. However, getting lost in the many trails is easy once you’re in. The possibilities here are endless, but be sure to leave a marker or trail so you can find your way back out later. Also, be sure to come after sunset as during the day, there is a lot of traffic and people who are not there to cruise.
If you love theatre, check out some musicals or plays. For last-minute deals, you can buy tickets in advance or visit Times Square under the red stairs.
What are my options to go out at night for some gay cruising and hot gay hookups?
NYC offers a variety of options for horny gays who need to be pounded and loaded. The Eagle is a must-stop for me every time I am in the city! If you like cruising, having sex while others watch, or just dancing with sweaty, hairy, leather daddies, then this is the place for you.
Located at the intersection of 11th Street/29th Street in Chelsea, the Eagle offers you three floors of fun. If you just wanna dance in your jock and be surrounded by sexy, sweaty guys, then the first floor is for you.
Now, if cruising is your thing, then the second floor is the place to be (and where you would find me if you were there). You can play anywhere in this area like the greedy cum dump you are, and trust me, the possibilities are endless. Get on your knees, service a daddy, and be rewarded with loads.
The third floor is only open during the warmer months, as it is a rooftop, so if you are here in the summer, check it out.
As a word of advice, arrive early. The Eagle is a popular joint, and the line to coat check can be pretty long sometimes, as it is NYC winter in January and February.
Also, be prepared to pay cover depending on the type of event they have. The best nights to visit this place are Wednesday, as it is Jockstrap Night, and it is guaranteed that you will see some of the best asses of your life and leave with cum leaking down your leg.
Friday and Saturday are guaranteed good times, as everyone will be out to release some steam from the week. Expect the place to be packed.
Should I visit THE COCKPIT when in NYC for some gay, anonymous sex fun?
Another great bar to get down and dirty is the COCKPIT. This place is more of a private venue that hosts sexy parties. Be sure to check out their social media page for their themed events. From naked nights to fisting parties, this venue does it all! It is also not far from the Eagle, just on 41st Street.
Last, should I check out The Cock gay cruising bar when in NYC?
The last cruising bar I would recommend is The Cock! There is not much information about this place if you search it online, but the name is self-explanatory for what you can expect: COCK!
This bar is the definition of a massive dark room perfect for cruising. Locals will tell you to come here at the end of the night to get your hole destroyed after the Eagle or COCKPIT.
Expect very low lights, dark beats, and lots of hungry cocks and holes looking for a good time. Be sure not to take your phone out as you may get in trouble (I almost did, but I needed to show how the atmosphere is).
What about sex parties?
Since NYC does not have a gay bathhouse culture, unlike other US cities, there are lots of sex parties every day for you to explore. These parties are not advertised online but you have to subscribe to the organizer’s newsletter to know about these events.
One good one to follow is Lodge NY and SCUM NYC. The newsletter will provide you with each party’s date, theme, location and price so you can plan ahead for what events work best for your hungry hole.
During my last visit, I attended one of Lodge NY’s parties, ManHole, the bi-monthly fisting party. This party takes place on the first Saturday of the month and the third Sunday. The event is usually five hours, and you can expect experienced fisters and fistees.
I won’t disclose the exact location of this event but expect a dungeon full of fuck benches, slings, and very low lights. The crowd is quite friendly, and expect your hole to be wrecked by the night’s end.
I stayed for the whole party until they turned on the lights to send us home. It is quite a great experience. Phones are not allowed, and you must coat-check it, so I have no pictures to share, but imagine a sex dungeon with lots of options to play.
There are other themes for these parties, such as the Bear Party, Workman’s Lunch (for those who need a quickie during their lunch hour), the Fuck Stop (a regular sex party), Blow Buddies (for all of my sides out there) and an afterparty that goes till 7 am for those who want to continue fucking after the Eagle or COCKPIT. Check where the location is and the party’s theme; some can be kinkier than others.
One thing I like to do, and you can try it, is attend one of these parties as a “warm-up” and connect with people who’d be down to head to the Ramble or the Eagle afterward; that way, you get a cruising crew. This is my usual strategy, as I tend to travel alone to most places, and attending sex parties or cruising bars can be intimidating at times.
Trust me, most gay New Yorkers are always up for some fun and are open to new friendships. It’s not an uptight city, so go in with an open mind and a gaping hole.
So, should I visit New York City?
The million-dollar question and the answer is 1000% yes. Whether it’s your first time or your 100th time in the city, New York never fails to impress me with how much action and cum you can find.
Make sure to make the most of it and take as many loads as possible. The men here are sexy, horny, and friendly (unlike the popular belief that New Yorkers are mean).
For now, I’ll continue planning more horny escapades so you have the do’s and don’ts of each city and event.
Keep sucking, gaping and cumming!
Until the next sex party,
Phil XO
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