Whether it’s nerves, routine or uncertainty about where to start, adding sex toys to your solo and partnered sex experience can make a fun twist to the usual tried and true sex escapades.
We break down some types of toys to get started, what each toy does, and briefly suggest ways you can include the said toy in your solo, partnered or group sex adventures.
Why Invest in Gay Sex Toys?
There’s a whole range of reasons why guys use sex toys. It can be a great way to make your solo play a bit more interesting, and adding sex toys into the mix when you’re getting it on with another guy is also a lot of fun.
Sex toys aren’t just a second-best substitute if you haven’t been able to connect with someone else for a bit of man-on-man action.
A good sex toy will give levels of pleasure and intense sexual experiences that are different but equally as satisfying as any hook-up.
When shopping for sex toys – whether online or in an adult store – the range of options can be a bit overwhelming. There’s a lot more to sex toys than just dildos.
A good starting point is to look for quality. Be prepared to pay for top-of-the-range items – you want your sex toys made of high-quality materials to deliver high-quality pleasure. Sex toy non-porous and hypoallergenic materials include silicone, glass, and stainless steel.
The other thing with sex toys is to be prepared to experiment a bit. It’s great to get recommendations from friends or magazines, but you need to find toys that work for you and hit your pleasure spots. That might take a bit of trial and error.
Fortunately, we also have some recommendations to make your solo or coupled adventure with sex toys much more thrilling. Read on to see what types of sex toys to consider if you’re in the waterproof market, one for long distance and gay cam models.
Finding the Right Gay Butt Plug
Beyond a basic dildo, butt plugs are one of the go-to items you’ll probably want to add to your sex toy collection – they’re likely to be one of the first things you’ll buy as you embark on your pleasure journey.
Butt plugs are good for loosening and opening your sphincter. If you plan on shoving stuff up your butt, warming things up with a butt plug is a good starting point. Remember, if you’re alone, douching beforehand helps ensure your toys and bedspread and you stay nice and clean.
Butt plugs are also the gateway to prostate massage. If your butt plug comes with a vibrating function, then that’s going to be activating a whole lot of erogenous zone.
You’ll also see butt plugs that come with remote controls – there’s no better trust exercise than handing the remote control to your vibrating butt plug to your boyfriend or a guy you’ve just met.
Ideally, you want to use rechargeable options, so you don’t have to consider replacing batteries. Also, think about cleaning – you want your butt plug to be made of a high-quality material that is easy to clean.
Why Choose Long Distance Sex Toys?
Long-distance relationships can be challenging, especially when maintaining an intimate connection with your partner. However, with the advancement of technology, long-distance sex toys have emerged as a solution to bridge the physical gap between partners and add a new level of excitement to their sexual experiences.
One big reason couples choose long-distance sex toys is the opportunity it provides for sexual exploration and experimentation. Being physically apart can often lead to a sense of monotony and boredom in a relationship. By incorporating these toys into their intimate activities, couples can explore new sensations, role play, and indulge in fantasies that would otherwise be difficult to achieve.
In addition to spicing up the bedroom, long-distance sex toys also offer emotional benefits for couples. Seeing and hearing their partner’s reactions in real-time can create a sense of closeness, despite the physical distance. These toys stimulate the body, mind, and emotions, helping couples feel connected more deeply.
Best Long Distance Sex Toys
To start, the We-Vibe is a great choice for long-distance play. The We-Connect app by We-Vibe enhances long-distance play with their sex toys, including the 3-inch vibrating butt plug called the Ditto. Its slim and flexible design makes it comfortable and enjoyable to use.
Lovense Hush 2 is a great choice, and reviewers say that compared to the We-Vibe, The Hush is a vibrating butt plug with stronger vibrations than most others on the market. Although it might require a comparison test for you in person to try…
Lovense Lush 3 is a great choice and is known as something you will see a lot in the cam model community; it’s a much smaller shape than the Hush 2 (although the Hush has gotten smaller), it’s great for long wear, and the alarm and timer features are an added bonus.
Lovense Max 2 Male Masturbator has strong suction and is similar in shape and style to a Fleshlight, but with the ability to control sensation from across the globe; although it’s known to be noisy, for something that grabs the entire cock and makes you brace, this is the product.
Why Shop for OnlyFans Sex Toys?
In addition to long-distance sex toys, another category of sex toys that has gained popularity recently is OnlyFans sex toys. With the rise of OnlyFans, the demand for sex toys specifically designed for this type of content has also increased.
One of the main reasons to choose OnlyFans sex toys is that they are specifically designed to enhance the online adult content experience; so, for example, you’ll find Lovense (although there are others) will create a lot of products that allow you to connect your browser to the sex toy so you can get paid or tokens from your fans when users want your butt plug or automated cock ring to vibrate and make you moan.
While Lovense is a leading brand, many manufacturers have introduced innovative and unique toys catering to different preferences and experiences, so shopping further is always recommended.
What Are the Best Sex Toys for Cam Models?
The good news is that brands like We-Vibe and Lovense already use Bluetooth technology for long-distance play, so this technology is usually well-equipped for connecting to your streaming computer.
However, other brands that cam models love for app-controlled abilities, and the most lucrative cam shows are the Diamo App Controlled Rechargeable Cock Ring, the Lovense Edge 2 Prostate Massager, and the Bullet Vibrator. As you can see, regarding video chats, Lovense Toys have cornered the market.
What is a Ball Stretcher
Ball stretching is about stretching your scrotal sac with weights and other devices to make your testicles hang lower.
There are many variations of ball stretchers, but if you’re starting out, go with something gentle and gradually build up to the more extreme versions.
An elastic ball stretcher that you can wear while masturbating or fucking is a good starting point – it gives you the sensation of having your balls gently tugged.
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What Are Nipple Toys?
One of the most sensitive pleasure points on the body is your nipples, and gay nipple play is one way that many, many men can get off in 10 minutes or less (so ease on the nipples if you want it to last longer)!
Pinching and twisting your nipples can be fun, but why not try a nipple clamp? Nipple clamps will feel intense, but they can help take your nipple play to the next level.
There are also nipple suction options. These are effective vacuum pumps that lock onto your nipples. If you’d like your nipples to be more prominent, this could be what you want.
Why Look At Waterproof Sex Toys?
Waterproof sex toys can take your experiences to a whole new level by allowing you to enjoy intimate moments in various settings, whether in the shower, bathtub, or even a pool.
Firstly, waterproof sex toys offer the convenience of easy cleaning. Unlike their non-waterproof counterparts, these toys can be thoroughly washed and sanitized without worrying about damaging their inner mechanisms.
Additionally, for those who value privacy or have roommates, the ability to enjoy intimate moments in water-friendly zones can offer a greater sense of discretion. Engaging in pleasurable activities in the shower without worrying about sound travel can amplify the excitement and ensure uninterrupted indulgence.
What Are the Best Waterproof Gay Sex Toys?
The Lush 2 is a great choice, with many Lovense products offering waterproof abilities. In fact, the good news is that any form of battery-operated device will likely be waterproof, as most brands want to ensure their products won’t get damaged by water and many water-based lubes.
When shopping for waterproof vibrators of any caliber, the test will focus more on speed and intensity features when shopping for certain models. Of course, you can always stick with a great thick silicon dildo of your fave uncut gay porn actor; who says batteries are all you need for a good time?!
Finding the Right Male Masturbation Toys
Sex toys that are designed to help you masturbate are a big part of the range of toys that you might want to explore.
Most masturbation toys act as a sleeve that you slide over your penis. These are particularly pleasurable for circumcised guys as it’s a way of creating additional lubrication – making everything glide smoothly is what guys jerking off generally prioritize.
Again, you need to be looking for quality materials in your masturbation toys, and it needs to be easy to clean. You’ll be using lube with your toy, so ensure you can easily and thoroughly rinse off the lube and cum.
Fuck Machines: From Vibrating Dildos to Sex Saddles
Some of the more elaborate pieces of sex toy kits that you’ll see on the market are fuck machines.
Fuck machines come in lots of different variations – there are the ones that look like a power drill topped with a pornstar dildo through to sex saddles, massive cocks that vibrate vigorously, and stand-alone mounted pieces of furniture that look powerful enough to fuck you through the wall.
Fuck machines are big-ticket items in the sex toy world, but sometimes that’s what our body needs to deliver the pleasure we crave. You’ll also need the space for certain machines, as these can’t be easily tucked in your underwear drawer for later use.
Some of the guys, yes, please!
Thank you for these, Wish i had some sort of list when I first plunged myself into the accessory and toy section at the peep shows back in 1989. I have my very first dildo as my trophy. Now I have my favorites. they are not huge but they Glow in the dark. enjoy my toys but nothing compares to a good “Toy Operators Technician and Guidance Specialist”. “
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Very informative!
What was the name of the toy where 2 guys fuck each others cock in a box? In fact the name of it was something box. Looks so hot!
Prefer the real thing with a pulse.
I FEEL the same, nothing like the real HUNG UNCUT MAN HOOD for the ultimate experience. Man juice dripping down foreskin is orgasmic.
Yeah, but sometimes you may not be able to connect with a real guy (or, worse, he’s a no-show) so you make do with what you can.
And there are some guys who want to include toys as part of their regular action. Having a dildo that a top can use along with his own cock can make DPing a whole lot less bothersome in trying to figure out how to work that other top into the scene; the single top can just insert the dildo above or below his own without the bother of a whole other body getting involved. Say the bottom’s getting fucked, then maybe using a fleshlight instead of his hand/s or having the top jack him off adds a bit of change to the usual.
And, of course, a toy can NEVER get tired. You’ve got a couple of guys and the top’s cum and is losing his hard-on but the bottom’s still wanting to be fucked. Just grab a dildo and the top can keep plugging his partner until the bottom’s finally sated or the top’s ready for round 2.
I would have appreciated some feedback on electro-stimulation toys.
My vibrating dildo is my go to when hard cock isn’t available. It’s a great way to play when alone.
Sometimes a man/men like to use it on me before they mount me. Either way, I love it!
A big double edged dildo, meeting butt hole to butt hole and coming together, heaven
Very interested in ball stretching, anyone have any experience with it?