Whether in a shopping mall, park bathroom, the airport or a train station, the basics of bathroom cruising are pretty much the same wherever you go. In this post, we’ll cover the indicators of a “cruisy” bathroom, what to look for in other cruisers, signals to watch out for, stuff to be cautious about, things you can bring, and even what to wear. Let’s cruise!
Does the type of bathroom or public washroom matter for gay cruising sex?
Pretty much any restroom or bathroom can deliver some hot gay cruising action if the circumstances fall in your favour. Still, undoubtedly, some bathrooms develop a bit of a reputation because they lend themselves to anonymous man-on-man action, be a horny husband waiting for his wife at the local shopping mall to a hot male office worker in your work complex prowling the public access bathroom for some cock.
What type of bathroom am I looking for to find some hot male cock?
When it comes to gay restroom cruising, you’re generally looking for a bathroom that is a bit off the beaten track. That doesn’t mean that high-traffic restrooms won’t deliver cruising action, but the strike rate will probably be higher if it’s a bathroom that is a bit out of the way and not being used by lots of random people.
If you’re a horny college student, Maybe it’s in the basement of the library; or on the top floor of the shopping mall, as we mentioned above. Or, in a train station, which doesn’t get used or cleaned often, but has a lot of transient men looking for some brief and horny fun.
It’s the kind of bathroom that if a guy had made an effort to get there, they’re not just looking for somewhere to go to the toilet.
If you’re in a bathroom and you’re unsure about its cruising potential, look around for suggestive graffiti, obscene drawings, or phone numbers. That shows that guys have spent some time in here, and they’ve spent time in here with sex on their minds; mind you, the graffiti may be less likely in this day and age of doomscrolling where the waiting-for-dick male may be scrolling versus doodling. However, gay cruising is an age-old pastime, with certain bathroom hot spots standing the test of time, so look out for it, regardless.
And, of course, if you spot a hot gay glory hole in a cubicle wall, you know you’re in the right spot.
Once I’m there, ready for dick, what should I do next?
Cruising works best when you’re not in a hurry. Be relaxed, take your time, and be prepared to wait around a bit—see if anyone has followed you in or shows up while you’re there.
Use the technology. Use a gay cruising app like Squirt.org – it features cruising directories that will tell you precisely the best cruising bathrooms; these directories are user-generated by horny ready-to-burst males like you, who review the best ones and continue to update you when action is happening at certain hot spots, or when specific locations known for good gay cruising action have become totally deads-ville.
When Will Cruising Bathrooms Be the Busiest? What Type of Men Will I See?
Figuring out the best time to go cruising in a bathroom will depend on where you are and the type of restroom you use.
For example, mid-week cruising will be more popular if you’re at college or university—students and professors are generally elsewhere on weekends.
If you’re in the local mall, then weekends are peak times. You’re looking for the bored suburban dad who’s been dragged on a shopping trip against his will. Catch his eye in the bathroom and see if he’s interested in dropping a load.
Airports are always very transient with an international buffet; for example, a city like New York with many travellers means gay cruising at Newark airport can mean the promise of many types of men.
But remember, busier doesn’t always mean better. You might have a more satisfying cruising experience if not many people are around. You need to catch the eye of a guy who’s got the same thing on his mind as you – you just need to catch the eye of a guy who’s horny-as-fuck.
Also, don’t underestimate the value of Squirt.org; if you’re looking to cruise and have a well-known gay hookup bathroom spot near you in mind, see who else is on your grid eager for some public play and arrange a meet. Order up some of that hot dick through Squirt like it’s a pizza, but the only thing you’re interested in is that hot, long and spicy pepperoni stick!
How to Cruise for Guys in a Bathroom
Cruising requires everyone to be pretty low-key. There will not be a lot of talking—it’s a vibe.
There are two basic scenarios. You’re either in a stall and looking for gay cruising signals from the guys in the neighbouring stalls, or you’re at the urinal or wash basin.
If you’re at the urinal or washbasin, you can make eye contact with the other guys there.
If a guy is taking his time—standing extra long at the urinal, washing his hands extra long at the wash basin, and spending extra long checking himself in the mirror—then he’s not in a hurry to go anywhere and could be up for some fun.
Don’t underestimate eye contact or lingering looks and see when a quick wink could land you; just be careful you don’t misread anything, as that could lead to an argument, fight, or perhaps even mall security or police presence.
Cruising the urinal versus cruising the stall
There are pros and cons to cruising at the urinal or setting up shop in a stall. It’s useful to be experienced in both techniques – that way, you can adapt your style to whatever is going to work best in the bathroom that you’re in.
If you’re standing at the urinal, and there’s a guy next to you giving you all the right signals, then you can reach across and let him know that you’re interested in his cock. You can drop to your knees and suck him off right there.
The downside of getting it on at the urinal is that you’re going to have to be more on guard about who might walk in while you’re sucking cock.
If you’re more interested in anonymous sex, then understall action is ideal. You don’t need to see their face – you just need access to their cock. Without the benefit of eye contact, if you’re in a stall, you’re looking for a suggestive tap of the foot or a finger running around the edge of a glory hole.
Additional Tips for Bathroom Cruising
- Bulky shopping bags can be useful for creating visual barriers, particularly if you don’t want a security officer trying to count how many feet are in a stall.
- Automatic flushing toilets can be a bit of a giveaway, but you can disable these by taping some toilet paper over the sensor.
- You’re inevitably going to be on your hands and knees on the toilet floor. Plan ahead and take some wipes and hand sanitizer with you (unless you like filthy and raw, you little slut, then bend and take it!).
- Think about easy access – sweatpants are ideal. You don’t want anything too tight or restrictive – you’re going to need to be able to get into some compromising positions. Wear something you can chuck straight into the washing machine when you get home.
What are your top tips for cruising for sex in bathrooms? Jump into the comments section below and share your cruising adventures!
Love glory holes…
Pretty basic stuff. I’m not 100% sold using an app/site, been talk for years cops know about them and check for where the action is.
My favorite approach is to be in a stall and when somebody comes into the next stall, move your head around casting shadows so they see something is going on and the makes sure your arm has a shadow and move it very rapidly as if your beating off like crazy! Sometimes if I’m at a truck stop and there is only one other guy who is in they I start letting out little moans and stretch my legs out and just start pounding it with loud thwacking noises, oh it so hot!!!
Rest areas/parks, mostly meet at urinals, and then go to vehicle or woods. Homo Depot and other such places, urinals and to a stall. Some notorious places, where cops do not often go, urinals and blow jobs and fucking right in the open. They tend to flourish for a few months and then get shut down completely, or some arrests with publicity. And, in a few places where gays pedominate (or times of day that it would be rare for a family to visit) anything goes – think after 10 pm – think lockable doors. Bus stations, train station, some airport men’s rooms, guys who are not out and would not be doing this near home, could be there. University men’s rooms, but only if you are college age, say under 25. Movie theater rest rooms, especially after the feature is over, and take it elsewhere, and, probably most productive of all, bars. The eye contact at the bar, the walk to the men’s room, the stand at a urinal, whip it out, piss, get a semi, or a full hardon, and the other guy gets next to you, does the same, and you are on – where depends on the situation. The alley, a vehicle, a stall, or some conversation, and home.
Be careful. A friend of mine cruised an undercover cop in a park bathroom. He was arrested, convicted of a felony in court, lost his career, and the event was published online for any potential employer to view. Take it to a non-public place to avoid the “surprise” arrest.
Porta- pottys are also very hot, on a hot summer day and there is a small hole in the wall and you can see and hear the guy walking up, I love leaving the door unlatched and then when they open the door and look inside I’m sitting there with pink panties around my ankles and a big hard on sticking straight up and when they open that door they will always say oh oops I’m sorry and I make sure and say immediately oh no that’s ok, at least 8 out of 10 guys will come right back in and lock that door and then it’s fantastic hot sweaty cocks in your mouth, oh my, I’ve sucked 5 in an hour before, it was awesome!!!
I’ve been cruising public washrooms for about 40 years now – was caught once in a department store as I followed who was a security guard into the mensroom (I was escorted out told never to come back – that store is long gone), and was also *almost* caught once with a guy I met in a washroom when we took it out to an office building stairwell, a security guard who chased but didn’t catch us, both incidents probably when I was in my early 20s (I’m on the verge of turning 59) – but despite those close calls, I still enjoy it. I think it’s the spontaneity of the entire matter which attracts me as it doesn’t take a lot of preplanning if I’m feeling the need to get some. And while I don’t always get it while I’m tearoom cruising, the percentage hasn’t been too bad.
Was also going to say at least in my neck of the woods, I am finding security much more open about checking washrooms (i.e. announcing before entering, etc.) as opposed to that covert incident when I was caught.
I always try to find a stall with the biggest gap in the door, then pull my shirt up high, spread my legs wide open and stroke my hardon rapidly when somebody walks by. Also sometimes if a guy is washing his hands you can make a sudden movement that will catch his attention in the mirror, once that happen I spready legs really wide and jerk my hardon and hopefully they will see. Restroom sex is awesome.
My favorite approach is to be in a stall and when somebody comes into the next stall, move your head around casting shadows so they see something is going on and the makes sure your arm has a shadow and move it very rapidly as if your beating off like crazy! Sometimes if I’m at a truck stop and there is only one other guy who is in they I start letting out little moans and stretch my legs out and just start pounding it with loud thwacking noises, oh it so hot!!!
It is also always a treat to find a restroom with no doors on it, it’s awesome, what I do is jerk off when I’m alone and get it nice and hard and then when I hear someone coming in and going to be walking by I spread my legs and let my boner stick straight up not masturbating it because it could be a cop but just letting it stick straight up and as they walk by and look I will say a real soft”hi” oh God it so hot!!!
For me bathrooms are the best to cruise in the early morning because lots of times the really older guys show up early and I’m always glad and excited to suck off some old guys with big juicy balls!mmmmm
I’m going to heading to Denver on Monday if anyone wants to come blow me while I’m at the appointment I would really love it
I’ve been cruising restrooms since the mid seventies. I treat every trip to the men’ s room as a potential for action. I’ve never been arrested, caught, yes. Sucked hundreds of cocks in restrooms across the US.
Always looking, Always cruising…..Always
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First blowjob ever was in a men’s room. Been cruising men’s rooms all my life.
Did anyone on here mention the toe tap to communicate understall with the guy in the adjoining stall?
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Using squirt cruising portal I place a post of ehrm where and how long I will be there 2 times in 4yrs I have been responded to with dicks to suck and they only happened cause I was a nfd the men took my dildo and worked my hole, I loose my load multiple in each session
Truck stops work for me
Getting strange cock in a mens room is so hot! I stand at the urinals waiting for some guy to take his cock out next to me. If I see him wiggle his cock or stand there awhile with no interest in peeing, I know I’ve got a customer! I’ll reach over and stroke his cock for him and if he’s ready for a blow job I’m happy to suck him off! I don’t care what size his dick is, don’t care what he looks like. I just want cock and cum in my mouth!! Other times I might sit in a stall for awhile (usually the one at the very end of a row of stalls). Sometimes a guy will stand in front of your stall door. That almost always means he wants something, otherwise why would he go to thwe last one when others are open? Tell tale sign. Once I’m he wants action, I’ll get on my knees and blow him under the stall divider. Sooooo fucking hot!!
I want to try this so badly, but have always been scared of getting caught! As a CD/TV/Pantyboi I have tried a few times. I sit down in a stall and pull my pants down as far as I can around my ankles trying to show my pink panties or thong to the guy next to me. It hasn’t worked yet, but I have only tried it a couple of times. I also clearly understand that the guy may be straight or not interested in guys who dress, however I will try again soon!
When I was about 15 I was in a downstairs bathroom in a mall. I never saw his face but when I was washing my hands a fit guy was on his knees with his big cock stroking it under the door. It was massive, and I couldn’t stop staring at it in the mirror! It really turned me on, but I had no idea what was going on! So I got scared and left! I still regret not touching and sucking that huge beautiful Alpha Male Daddy Cock!!!
Jay in Kentucky love to suck an eat ass in bathrooms hmu I have a number
I am a low key cruiser. Not aggressive. I prefer understall. It reminds me of a gloryhole. I also like it because it gives me a bit more time to pull myself together should the police, security or that occasional loud-mouthed homophobic guy walks in who seems to always “catch” the activity…hmmmm. I live in NYC. It’s fun but unfortunately there are a lot of reckless cruisers who don’t care who sees them. I’m talking about the ones who continue to play at the urinals even when a kid walks in. SMDH. But cruising is fun. Always looking for new and exciting places. So cruise away fellas! Just be careful. Catch a nut.. not a case. LOL
I was travelling by ferry between Sweden and Denmark, only short hop , with wife and few other couples, had to visit toilet on board. I was just finishing at urinal when guy uses urinal too , sort of stroking . I looked and he nodded in acknowledgment. I moved to stall 1 of 3, he followed , dropped to knees and sucked me off.
I was at airport , USA, I make wife mad as I’m mostly last to board,, guy at urinal ext me, possibly 6 men in line. Had huge fat n long cock, biggest I’ve ever seen. He was prime blowjob target but I only had seconds alas.
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Some of the best washrooms are the ones with two doors into the bathroom. You can hear the first door open, giving you warning someone is coming. Gives you time to get off your knees and the other guys cock.
Some of my first sexual experiences with men occurred in NYC Public Rest Rooms in subways & Railway stations. (Penn Station, & Port Authority/Manhattan 7 the Long Island Railroad in Brooklyn) I was a horny teen excited to see cocks other than mine. Mostly jacking off until one day I eventually got blown & tried blowing. The anticipation of the door opening seemed to intensify the speed of reaching a climax. It was challenging then but now I do not like to rush a nut. lol The raw smell of cleaning products and the possibility of your stall mate having an exciting looking cock was a real turn on back then. Circle Jerks & Gangbangs were had if someone agreed to be the lookout. Those were the days…..lol
Fucking between public mensroom stalls can be different than both of you on the floor. I’ve gone into a stall and backed up against the wall we share. The guy in the adjoining stall gets down and presents his hard dick. Then I lower my ass onto his cock and ride it. Sometimes that better for me than getting fucked missionary style. BTW, I learned that technique from a guy who I fucked that way. It was incredibly hot
My first encounter was in a college bathroom in Bradenton Florida, it had two stalls with a small hole next to the toilet paper role, I would sit in the stall next to the wall and wait for someone to come in. I would stay after my class was over and wait for these white guys to come in, tap my foot and they would put their hand underneath and I would drop to my knees and feed them my black cock and fuck there mouth/throat until I shot my load down their throat. I knew where all the cruisey bathrooms were on campus, especially the ones out of site. I can remember once out at the causeway I was working and there was a guy in the stall which had no door, I stopped in to take a leak and saw him stroking, my cock got fucking rock hard and I was in uniform, I walked over to him and fed him my cock and he swallow my load,